Why live like someone else?

If you want to live like other people, it's because you care, because you don't want to be too-for-tat, because you just want to be an ordinary person.

Don't say it's an adult, even today's children have learned to be hypocritical. We seem to live in this world, and we have all kinds of connections with the people around us, so it's best to be able to manage our relationships well. We didn't even have the slightest desire to challenge, and everything started and developed and ended in a regular way.

We carefully live in circles one by one, and these circles will intersect, so we try to let the places that do not intersect belong to us, and we can retain the darkest and obscure side. But when you meet someone else, it's best to say you're sorry right away, even if you think in your heart that it was you who met Lao Tzu first, or you still have a smile on your face, it doesn't matter.

It doesn't really matter if it's true, but it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter if it's going to be in the end.

The original appearance.

Recall that when we were babbling, when we couldn't speak, our family and teachers would teach, and someone would tell you that you were sorry, and you had to say that it was okay. No one has ever taught us how to say that there is a relationship, and what to do after saying that there is a relationship.

Polite, low-key, in short, it is best not to have conflicts with others, it is best to be a person with good popularity and noble character. Nowadays, most people will not say that they don't like the bad things about this person when they evaluate others, because only the closest people may find the bad things hidden in their daily lives, but they still won't say they don't like it.

But we care about what people are thinking when they see you, so we do things in a way that makes everyone as happy as possible. Even if you are not satisfied, you have to say that you are sorry, even if you don't think so in your heart. So it seems to become, a good old man, everyone doesn't hate you, they all like you, but there are not necessarily so many people who love you.

There is no need for this, each of us is unique in the world, you are not to live as others like, but to constantly enrich yourself, change yourself, you should understand the following things.

First, like yourself, everyone is unique, you also have your own advantages, living yourself in the effort is the most important, you should not deny yourself too much, after all, people will have shortcomings.

Second, don't care too much about what other people think, and live your life boldly, just like when you were a child, your parents would often say: you see how other people's children are and so on. Actually? They just want you to grow up, not that you can really live as someone else's child.

In the end, people are constantly growing up in little by little changes, rather than living as others like. Such a person will only be fresh on the surface in the end, but he will never feel happy.

There is no need to live as others like, just work hard to be yourself, gain the recognition and respect of others, rely on strength, not unprincipled pandering to others.

The ancients said that a copper coin is round on the outside and square on the inside, saying that a person is smooth on the outside and square on the inside. It means that if you are in the world, if you are edges and corners, it will hurt others, hurt yourself, and the sleek appearance does not mean that you have changed your principles, but we must always learn how to speak, how to do things, so that more people feel that it is a comfortable thing to get along with you, and the people around you get along harmoniously, and you will not feel lonely and not understood, of course, it is not easy to do this, you must learn how to open your mouth at the right time to add icing on the cake, and more importantly, learn to close your mouth, don't speak faster than your brain, and you can say it later, Think about whether it's wrong or not, and it's better not to say it than to say it wrong.

Although we want to be tactful, we must have our own principles. Your bottom line is to say it directly in getting along, don't let others guess, say it generously, and make people feel that you are generous. We don't want to live the same way, we all hated ourselves and became not ourselves, but we have to believe that we are still us, it doesn't matter if we are low for a while, sleep and no one will lose their principles.

You don't have to live as others like, others include too many people, everyone has a different opinion, if you always want to live like others, you will lose yourself and become depressed, so be a good person, do things hard, do your best, and study hard.

The purpose is to make others envy themselves, which is the immature success mentality of many people.

Because we must be gregarious, in fact, most people live as others want, that is, in order to be gregarious, if we don't fit in, then it is easy to be targeted, and it is difficult to live in this society, in fact, most of us are living as others imagine, because it is really difficult to live to the way you think, you don't have that strength.

Only if a person cares about that person very much, will he live the way he wants to like it, especially if he or she is a boyfriend or girlfriend, I call you love her height very much, if you love yourself, you will find a way to change yourself, Answer, he thinks you are the person he likes like that, as long as this kind of person will be like others.

Don't live like someone else, you are you, there is only one you in the world There are so many people in the world, but there are no two people who are exactly the same. So why do you have to imitate someone else's appearance and go through the dozens of 365 days that are only yours!

Your own appearance is the most beautiful, there is only one you in this world, and the unique you can interpret your most real colorful life.

If your partner asks you to change, you can tell him that you are you, and if he wants you to change, then he doesn't like the real you, and this kind of love is not worth regretting.

Character determines destiny If you are a cautious person, it is easy to live as others like, if you are a free and easy person. That is, to live your own way as you want, and let others say it.

Because society is very realistic, if you just want to live a good life, you have few friends, only you know, only you like. And there are very few people who like you, only those who are liked by others can go well and go further in society.

yes, wouldn't it be nice if you lived the way you liked.

The reason why we want to live as others like is because it is not easy for people to survive in this world, and we must better integrate into this society and the collective.

Mentality is very important, it's good to live as you like, others don't like you, no matter how you change, you can't change the way he likes, so don't care about other people's eyes, people have to live for themselves, come on.

I don't think you need to live like someone else now, because if you do this, you won't have your own personality traits, and you are also living for others, and this kind of life is meaningless, you are just a shadow of others.

You live up to other people's expectations.

Everyone wants to live the way they want to be. But many people will find that they somehow live the way others want, or live the way they hate. And the secret is related to the Pygmalion effect.

The Pygmalion Effect teaches us that what you expect, you are more likely to get.

Hello, in fact, listening to your tone, you can see that you don't want to live for others, it's true, your own life is in charge, your own life has the final say, there is no need to live for others to see, you are not RMB, you can't make everyone like it, as long as you have a clear conscience.

Hope it can help you, hope, thank you.

Why live like someone else? You are not mature enough to ask this question, and when you go through some setbacks and gain some experiences, your mentality will naturally mature, and when you mature, you will find that it doesn't matter what you live like, what matters is what you want to live, what kind of life you want, life is your own, and life is for yourself.

You must respect your own heart, but I have to say that we humans live in a collective, and when we are not capable enough, it is okay to try to listen to other opinions, but if we don't agree with this in our hearts, then just be yourself.

Because you are dependent on others, want to please others, and have expectations for others, your efforts will be exchanged for good results.

Because I need to be liked by others, I want to live like others.

If you want to live as others like, you don't have to feel that you are living happily because you live for yourself.

In fact, sometimes I don't care what others say, what others like about you, what you have become, that's unrealistic, for your own good, as long as you keep working hard and don't care about other people's eyes.

Don't live like someone else, you can't even accept yourself, and others won't like you.

I don't think you have to live as others like, but you must live as you like, and live as you aspire to.

It can only be said that the people you love have a lot of expectations for you.

But people still have to have their own ideas.

There is a way to live by yourself.

It's best to take care of other people's ideas.

Why do we live as others like, we should live as we like, and will we be praised by others for living as others like, we live for ourselves, not for others.

The question is well asked, and the answer is no.

I think everyone has a life they yearn for in their hearts, or a person they envy, whether it is the richest man in the world or the most basic person in this society, in their hearts like us ordinary people, they have their own life they want to live, and work hard for it, or have paid a lot, although most of the time they are not understood, but the pursuit of the life they want is often a kind of attraction to people, because such people have their own souls, There is a way to deal with decaying life.

Many times when I calm down and think about it, it's like filling in the college entrance examination, my mother wants me to choose a medical major, my father wants me to choose a teaching major, and my uncles let me choose a small language? At that time, I was not too confused, I didn't know who to listen to, but I clearly knew that none of the advice they gave me was my favorite, so I asked myself why I had to choose among these choices that I didn't like at all, and why did I live like others wanted?

Maybe once in a while I have to go crazy, while I am still young and have the best capital, release the original nature in my bones, the girl who loves to be crazy and loves to giggle, forget the whole set of ladylike temperament that my mother requires of me, forget the good girl label that others define for me, at this moment I don't wronged myself for anyone, I just want to live my own most looking forward to it, after all, the rest of my life is so long, if I have been following the requirements of others, when should I have myself?

From this moment on, I hope that everyone who lives for others will know that you are born as the most independent individual, not fully owned by anyone, and you can be bold and unscrupulous to be yourself many times, because we are not living in this world to live as others say.

Time is precious, and instead of trying to live what others like, it is better to please yourself and follow the guidance of your heart. Writer Yang Daxia pointed out that it is necessary to live out your highlight moments.