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Kind people are always kind, never explain themselves to others, do what they have to do, don't have to explain.
There was a climber who was caught in a snowstorm on the way. He knew that if he didn't find a shelter as soon as possible, he would have to freeze to death. He walked and walked, and his legs could no longer move.
At this moment, his foot touched a hard erection of something, and when he lifted the snow, he saw that it was a man who was about to freeze to death. The climber is in trouble: do you keep going, or stop to rescue the stranger?
After tumbling over the river and sea in the depths of his soul, he resolutely decided: take off his gloves and massage the man. In the end, the two helped each other out of the predicament.
The climber eventually got out of the predicament because he chose what was good. Choosing kindness may not do you any good at the time, and even bring you danger, but as long as you choose kindness, it is like saving a huge amount of money in the bank of life, and maybe one day it will play a huge role.
If Zhang Liang hadn't respectfully put on shoes for the old man on the bridge, he would not have gotten the "Taigong Art of War" and fought the world for Liu Bang; If Guan Zhong hadn't chosen to live in harmony with Bao Shuya, he wouldn't have gained a second life in defeat; If the climber does not choose to help the person who is frozen, he will not make his body and mind feel warm and thus get out of the situation. People must make countless choices in their lives, and think from a different perspective, which is an opportunity to "accumulate goodness" again and again.
There is an old Chinese saying that "don't take the good for the small, don't take the evil for the small". When we choose, we should choose the good, and choose the good and follow it.
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"Kind people are always kind and never explain themselves to others" means that even if your kindness is misunderstood by others, don't explain it too much, just be yourself.
I was deeply touched when I saw what you said:
My tablemate, Ami, is a very kind person. One lunch break, when the two of us were chatting, Ami saw an inexplicable dark mark on the pants of the girl's school uniform walking opposite, she ran over and took something from her pants pocket and handed it to the other party.
I asked her what was going on, and she said that the girl had her period and had already gotten her pants. I happened to have a sanitary napkin in my pocket, so I gave her one directly.
After about a day, I don't know how the girl knew about our class, and then she took a pack of sanitary napkins and slapped it on the table and said, "Now, pay you back, pay back many times, and you don't owe anything." At that time, Ami was very aggrieved, which made the second monk confused .......
Therefore, a kind person is always kind, and a simple act of kindness is misinterpreted by others, and it must be uncomfortable in the heart. But there's no need to explain, just a clear conscience.
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Kind people are always kind Never explain what you mean to others: Kind people are always kind, in case your kindness is questioned by others, don't explain too much, time will tell you everything.
If you want to be a kind person, you must strengthen your ideological and moral cultivation and practice it.
To distinguish between right and wrong is to know what is right and what is wrong, which is a very basic requirement. Discerning right from wrong requires a learning process, in which parents are the first teachers, and from an early age parents teach their children what is right and should be done, and what is wrong and should not be done. As the years go by, the concept of right and wrong is basically formed, moral constraints, and the law stipulates that everyone's behavior must conform to the norms.
If you regulate your words and deeds according to moral standards, you will be able to become a noble person who will not violate the bottom line of the law, at least not become a sinner. Establishing and adhering to a correct world outlook, outlook on life, and values is crucial to a person's life, which can not only make people a kind person, but also allow people to give full play to their wisdom and talents, and be a person who contributes to society.
As the saying goes, "things gather by like, people by groups", "those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black". What kind of people like to deal with what kind of people, kind people are definitely willing to associate with kind people. But society is complex, and the boundaries between good people and those with evil intentions cannot be clearly distinguished, and it is sometimes not easy to distinguish between good people and bad people.
Besides, there are always some people with bad stomachs who pretend to be kind, in order to achieve their ulterior purposes, win over and use good people, but the people who are used are kept in the dark and ignore. In fact, no matter how cunning a person with a bad heart is, there are times when he shows his feet, and a kind person must be good at discovering the clues in a person with a ghost in his heart, either exposing and helping him and making him better, or staying away from him and doing his own thing.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei, the founding emperor of the Shu Han Dynasty, instructed his son Liu Chan on his deathbed: Don't take evil as small, don't take good as small. Only virtuous and virtuous, able to obey others.
As a generation of kings who have extensive influence in the history of our country with the virtue of benevolence and righteousness, Liu Bei's dying words can be described as heartfelt words. There are big and small people's abilities, and when doing good, we must do what we can, and do not exceed our own capabilities, otherwise, we will be embarrassed and others will not bear it. Kind people should not refuse to do small things that are good for society and others.
If you do too many good things and keep doing them, you can become a noble person.
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Kind people are always kind and never explain themselves to others. What he means is that you can keep your kindness, you don't need to explain your kindness to others, you just have to do your thing.
Because time is not used to explain, time is used to practice and to prove.
Explain that he wants to be a good person, and then he wants to be a person who is useful to others and has a plan for himself.
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Kind people are always kind, never explain to others, this sentence is to insist on doing a good job of yourself, keep the original intention, only such people can always be kind.
You have to firmly believe that others believe that you don't need to explain, others don't believe that no matter how you explain it, do your own thing, and let others judge the rest, only such kindness will always be maintained, do not care or judge, that is the proverb, but do good deeds do not ask about the future, according to such a mission to urge yourself to do.
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Hello,"Kind people are always kind, never explain themselves to others" means: you have to keep your own kindness, don't explain to others why you do this, the more you explain, the more unclear it is, the easier it is to be misunderstood.
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Kind people are always kind, and never explain themselves to others" This is a deep life insight.
In life, it is easy to misunderstand, at this time there is no need to stand up and explain for yourself, there are many times when it is more and more black, after all, when everyone has a misunderstanding, it is a fragment of a thing, which is the so-called out of context. For example, if you say "he's sick," you're saying he's not healthy. But before this sentence, you have been talking about how enthusiastic and good he is, but he is not in good health, so you said "he is sick".
But the messenger excerpted what you said, and only passed on "he is sick" and said that you said it, so that there was a misunderstanding between you and him. At this time, if you can't explain it, you can't explain it, after all, you are saying that he is sick. And when you go to explain, it proves that you said this even more.
So it's better to be silent, and as a kind person, just don't hear it and don't explain it anymore.
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Kindness is the behavior of treating others, this kind of character is difficult to change, even if others say that they are false, they do not need to explain to these people, because they are not the same kind of people at all, there is no need to bother, and they will not believe the explanation.
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Meaning, if you are kind, please be kind all the time, don't care about other people's opinions, and don't explain to others, because others won't understand you, just be yourself.
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The meaning of this sentence is that you can't control other people's mouths to keep them from talking, although you are not afraid of shadows and are a very kind person, but there are also people who will talk about you, so there is no need to explain to others.
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Hello friends, kind people are always kind, never explain to others, this is when others have a misunderstanding of you, there is no need to explain so much to others, as long as you have a clear conscience.
Although you are deceived by people in life, someone misunderstands you, as long as you are. Be fair. If people are uneven, God will feel you, so as long as you do good things, God will naturally take care of you.
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If the heart does not move, the wind will be helpless; If the heart is not broken, the years will be fine.
Be a human being, never explain yourself to others, because those who understand you don't need it, and those who don't understand you won't believe it.
No matter how simple and kind you are, when you meet someone with ill intentions, you will be said to be scheming; No matter how warm and generous you are, when you meet people who are cold and ruthless, you will be called stingy ......
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The meaning of this sentence is that kind people, they will generally always be kind, and never try to explain to others, because others may not be able to understand your kind practices.
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That is to say, a person's kindness may sometimes not be understood by others, at this time, don't care about some of the opinions of others and don't explain too much, as long as you insist that your heart has always been kind.
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Kind people are always kind and never explain to others, what do you mean, no matter how suspicious or what others say? As long as you have a clear conscience in your heart, do your best.
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Hello,Kind people are always kind and never explain themselves to others. It means that those who are pure are self-purifying. The road knows the horsepower, and the people will see it for a long time.
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It's that you live for yourself, you don't live for others, so when others misunderstand you, it's just that others don't understand you, not your own problem, so you don't need to explain it to others.
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That is to say, the pure ones are self-purifying, and the turbid ones are self-turbid, as long as they have a clear conscience, and the understanding of others cannot satisfy all people, as long as they are worthy of themselves.
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This means that you must sometimes stick to your own approach, so that others can know that you are indeed very kind.
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As the saying goes: kindness to others is cruelty to oneself, if you treat others too well, don't imitate people early, you will get used to it and don't take your good seriously, when that day you don't treat him as good as usual, and turn your eyes on others, you will hate you, and in the end you will only suffer yourself. For example, the fable of the farmer and the serpent.
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There is such a person around her, every time she discusses something happening around her, her thoughts sometimes show more than we understand the naivety, some things are obviously wrong and should be criticized, wrong is wrong, but she doesn't think so. When she couldn't go together, she would say, "Maybe I'm too kind."
The implication is that we are not kind and always think badly about people and things?!
In this era of pluralism of ideas and values, I am very supportive of the same thing and have different voices, and everyone has the right to express their opinions, and it is not that others must believe me and obey me, but every time I hear her say, "Maybe I'm too kind," I seem to instinctively feel a sense of disgust. No one really knows you but yourself, and you say that you are kind is kind? Not necessarily.
A truly kind person will never say that he is good, just as a truly intelligent person will never say that he is smart. What others say about you is a better indicator of what kind of person you are. Moreover, true goodness must contain wisdom, trying to open one's mouth to claim that he is a good person through compromise evaluations or naïve thoughts about some bad people and bad things, and he is either stupid or bad.
It's good to always have good intentions about the people and things around you, such people will live a simple and happy life, but you can know it in your own heart, so why bother to say it. And from your daily behavior, you don't feel how kind you are, no, you will still ignore the people around you because of your own selfish interests or unhappiness, or don't give a good face, which in itself doesn't matter whether it's good or bad, after all, everyone has their own emotions, but if you're not like this, you have to say so, it's not hypocritical or stupid, and you need to be cautious when making friends.
True kindness is wise, knows right from wrong, and has a bit of edge, otherwise it is stupid. A truly kind person, the people around him must be able to feel it, even if he doesn't say anything.
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People who don't treat themselves well are not really kind.
There is a saying that goes like this: "Good people don't live long, but bad people in the round hall live for a thousand years." It sounds like a sad sense of fate. Is that really the case?
There is indeed no shortage of such examples in life. People who keep to themselves and do things in a measured way die early. Many times it is destiny to do this, and sometimes it is because you are too yourself.
Strict self-discipline and leniency towards others" is a beautiful quality. But if you are too yourself, it is a sign of a lack of wisdom.
For example, a very respectable woman who is a loving mother, a filial daughter, a virtuous wife, and a hardworking employee. In her social role, she is very conscientious and also very good. She rarely owes favors, she doesn't like to trouble others when she encounters problems, and would rather people bear her than others.
People are floating and sinking in the torrent of life, and they will always encounter setbacks and difficulties. She had encountered a difficult situation, and she really had no choice but to borrow money from others to get through it. Because she is a very good person on weekdays, she borrowed money to solve her urgent needs.
However, after this incident, she was financially burdened with some debts on the one hand, and psychologically burdened on the other.
This kind of burden is the anxiety and anxiety of being anxious to repay after owing favors. She is worried that she will not be able to pay back when others need money, which will affect the lives of others, and she always can't let go of it.
This anxiety followed her, and it invisibly affected her health.
It is very valuable for people to have a strong sense of responsibility, but the world is impermanent, and people will have times when they are vulnerable and when they are not capable enough. What if you owe a favor? Don't be afraid.
It is in this kind of back and forth and indebtedness to each other that people are connected. Life encounters compensate each other. If you want to repay the favor, there will always be the right opportunity.
A good person should not only be good to others, but more importantly, be good to yourself. We all know that a person's mindset is very important for health. If you are always worried and worried, it will affect the immune system to a certain extent.
The reason why a bad guy can live so long is not that there is no retribution, but that he does not torture himself. If you do something bad, of course there will be retribution, whether it is morally or legally, you will not let him go. But he himself will not punish himself, but this is invisibly in line with the way of heaven, that is, to be kind to himself.
If a good person, he is good to all but bad to himself, then it is not really good. Just as Confucius taught students to adopt corresponding methods according to their different temperaments. People with a good nature can't bear to hurt others, and often dedicate and have the courage to take responsibility.
On the basis of such a personality, you must learn to be gentle with yourself.
Achieve yourself, live the vitality of life, discover your self-worth, do your best, and then help and love others. Fill your own glass before you look out for others.
Although there will be a slight difference between the body and ordinary people, but she can tolerate all the factors and people who are not good for her, from this it can be seen that she is a person who is not knocked down by life and is also a cheerful girl, since you are a tablemate, don't affect your relationship with the 14-year-old girl because of that "Yu", if she has any difficulties and needs, please do your best to help her, I believe that you can learn a lot of strength and optimism that you can't learn from other classmates, as well as a broad mind!
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