What can be done to get her to clear her doubts?

Love him and do everything for him. I've had this experience before. As long as you sincerely change your life1 for a long time, he will clear his doubts!!

Be good to him!! Always be good to him!!

Don't change

Let me tell you, first of all, you have to establish your integrity with her, and you have to do everything you promise her, just don't contact your previous wife, otherwise she will have a sense of self-protection

Since you love her very much, then you sacrifice.

Sacrifice your network for her.

This is the most effective approach.

People look at the nose, and the nose looks at the heart.

Except for his girlfriend, he no longer looked at other women.

Hehe, you probably can't do it.

She often brings up that the breakup is that you don't give her enough security and a sense of dependence.

How to give her these feelings is up to you to figure it out.

It can only be understood, not spoken.

Just think about it. What would you think if your girlfriend keeps in touch with her ex-boyfriend.

Even if it's a pure friendship, I guess you'll be jealous.

From a psychological point of view, suspicious people often lack attachment and security in life, such as being left out, neglected, or hurt, and over time, develop "habitual denial" about the behavior of others. Therefore, in the face of such people, the most important thing is to give them a sense of security. When making contact with them, you can make more physical contact appropriately, such as patting them on the shoulder or shaking hands when greeting, so as to give the other person a warm and grounded feeling.

If you are closer, you can also hold the other person's hand while talking, or gently hug the other person.

Secondly, the more suspicious others are about you, the more courageously you have to look at them when you speak. Looking at the other person when you speak, on the one hand, appear polite and respectful, and at the same time give the other person an invisible sense of oppression, so that he has to listen carefully to your language; On the other hand, if you dare to face the other side directly, you will appear more confident and have a clear conscience, and the other party's concerns will naturally be reduced. Of course, you can't keep staring at each other's eyes or a certain place when communicating, you can draw a triangle with the other party's eyebrows as the top angle and the two cheekbones as the bottom corner, and move your eyes up and down in a timely manner within this triangle, which will give the other party a feeling of being noticed and feeling that they are the focus, so as to slowly let down their guard and increase their goodwill and trust in you.

As a guy, if you become suspicious of your girlfriend, here are some things you can do to fix the problem:

1.Self-reflection: First, examine whether your thoughts and concerns are reasonable, and reflect on whether you are too sensitive or lack trust in your girlfriend. This will help you adjust your mindset to look at things in a more rational way.

2.Communication: Have an honest and disturbing communication with your girlfriend to express your concerns and concerns. Pay attention to communication skills, communicate with respect and care, and avoid accusations and negative emotions.

3.Listening: Listen patiently to your girlfriend's explanations and ideas to understand her life situation and emotional needs. This will enhance mutual understanding and eliminate misunderstandings and doubts.

4.Check the facts: If you still have doubts about your girlfriend's actions and words, you can verify them by observing and knowing the facts. For example, observe your girlfriend's living habits, social activities, etc., and judge whether she is trustworthy based on objective facts.

5.Adjust your mindset: Try to adjust your mindset and learn to trust and be tolerant. Trust is based on mutual respect and affection, and if you care and trust your girlfriend enough, she will also give you sincerity.

6.Seek professional help: If your concerns persist and affect your relationship and life, consider seeking help from a counselor or emotional counselor to better cope and resolve the issue.

In short, in the face of your girlfriend's suspicions, the key is to adjust your mentality, strengthen communication, understand the facts, and learn to trust and tolerate. Through these methods, you can improve your relationship with your girlfriend and maintain mutual trust and respect.

Ways to address concerns:

1. Take a fresh look at the things that cause doubts. Pay attention to which situations raise doubts. Then try to look at it another way.

For example: **When you can't get through, when there are more and more doubts, we have to think that maybe they are in a meeting, and it is inconvenient to answer**. Just because you're missing doesn't mean they're bad.

2. When troubles arise, try to stop imagining. Doubt can interfere with life and weaken our concentration. It is a good choice to stop yourself in time and distract yourself from other things, such as reading books and running.

3. Ask yourself if there is evidence to support it. If a particular spring feast is constantly disturbing us, the auspicious grip may be a sign of our instinctive "trouble". Look for evidence before we act.

4. If your suspicions are real, make up your mind. It's normal to have doubts in a relationship, but your partner often lies, cheats on you, or is unreliable, which could be a sign that you should leave. Healthy relationships should not be unduly controlled, deceitful, disloyal.

If they can't respect you, then the relationship may not be the best relationship for you.

5. Talk to a psychologist. If you're unsure of your concerns, contacting a psychologist and talking to a professional can help clear your mind.

It is understandable that when asking someone to do something, it is sometimes difficult for the other person to make a decision. This is because people's thinking is complex, they do not understand a certain thing, they cannot figure it out, and they are often full of doubts, and this requires lobbyists to be good at resolving doubts with feelings and explaining the truth thoroughly. When doubts are dispelled, the goal of asking people to do things will naturally be achieved.

However, it is not an easy task to dispel the misgivings of others, and it is necessary to proceed little by little, step by step, to pursue them relentlessly, and to explain the truth clearly and thoroughly. Only when you use this method to skillfully solve the other person's mystery and let the other person let go of their psychological baggage, then things will become much easier.

If someone is close to you, do you suspect that the other person is just trying to curry favor with you, and the purpose is just to take advantage of you? If that's the case, do you know that being overly distrustful and skeptical of others can have a negative impact on your own health?

This is not alarmist. A medical study that has been done for 15 years has pointed out that the more severe this distrustful attitude, the greater the burden of psychological stress on you. This effect can also threaten physical health, and the less trusting the person, the higher the level of suspicion and the shorter the lifespan.

Because the more suspicious people are, the more likely they will be in their social relationships. This kind of person has fewer friends, and there is no one to confide in and answer questions, as a result, the greater the psychological pressure, living in loneliness and depression, and in severe cases, psychological problems. These stresses and problems can have an impact on physical health.

Those who don't like to take things to heart and have the right attitude of trust towards others will be healthier because they are more mentally normal.

However, this does not mean that you have to trust people absolutely in everything, and if you do not think about whether it is really useful or not, you will only incur unnecessary losses if you do not think about it with common sense.

Think less about the bad side, talk to friends and go shopping.

Space is empty, find something to do.