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I attend several weddings of friends and family every year, and because I work in the catering industry, friends and family like to come to me for advice and advice when booking a banquet. Now the wedding banquet has several characteristics: the hotel provides the first form, that is, about 16 dishes per table, and then increase the grade of the main dish according to the requirements, so that the price of each table will increase or decrease.
However, the price of wedding banquets is increasing year by year.
Because there are not many hotels that can hold large wedding receptions, these hotels need to be booked more than half a year in advance, and if it is a favorite hotel, it may be booked even more in advance. After all, there are only a few hotels in a city that can hold large-scale banquets, and wedding banquets are generally held on ** weeks or weekends. Now the wedding feasters are throwing invitations.
And the gift money that comes with the gift is now "rising". Relatives had 20 tables at their wedding banquet last year, and six of them didn't come, shouldn't they invite so many people?
First, there are many people who receive invitations "not to the people" This is because: the time of the wedding conflicts with their leisure time, such as ** week and weekend are trying to accompany their family, it takes a long time to participate in the wedding, and they are too tired to participate. Now the dishes of the wedding banquet are almost the same, and the hotel will make more "radishes are fast and do not wash the mud", many people will criticize the hotel's wedding banquet dishes are too unpalatable, this is the reason.
Because the ** of the wedding banquet is relatively high now, most people just go alone with a gift, and there are few people who drag their families with their mouths in the past, because this will be a little unparticular or laughed at.
Second, all wedding banquets will be prepared tables, which is called "prepared" weddings and funerals are a lifetime of events, so the wedding banquet is rather more than less, many people are afraid that the guests will come when arranging the wedding banquet will negotiate with the hotel when booking to have a table.
Sometimes the guests of the wedding banquet are not enough to make up a table, so in order to avoid dispersion, they will find a special person in charge to arrange seats, so as to avoid the people being too scattered and the scene is not good-looking. The reserved banquet is for the staff who help serve the wedding site, as well as the bride and groom.
Third, there are 6 tables of 20 tables of guests who did not come, is it not appropriate to invite so many people, this can only be said that there are not determined and planned to participate in many wedding banquets, there are colleagues of the groom or bride who cannot take time out to participate because of work reasons, this is mainly because the time is not coordinated. The invitations are a bit too blind! It may be that people who feel that they have a good relationship with themselves will send it, but as a result, this "red bomb" did not invite people to cause waste.
However, most people will know that the people who can come to the wedding banquet will not have too many tables left.
This set of 20 tables and 6 tables may have been deliberately done by the person setting the banquet. Because the wedding cameraman, master of ceremonies, bride and groom, and service staff sometimes need 2 tables, plus the wine and food taken away by the mother's guests, it may be similar. Wedding wine is a major event in life, and those who can come to participate are close relatives and friends, so you should also plan well when you invite guests.
20 tables and 6 tables left are indeed a bit much, and spending more money and causing waste is a bit more than worth the loss.
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Should please. Marriage is a major event in life, and the relevant relatives must be notified, and they don't come because they don't know how to be polite.
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Actually, I don't think that's the case, but maybe some of them really can't come to something, which is also expected. Don't take this seriously yourself.
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I think that so many people should be invited to get married, and it may be that these guests all agreed to come down at that time, so the seats of these guests will be reserved. In addition, after all, marriage is only once in a lifetime, so it is natural to invite many people to witness, which is very normal.
It's better not to want it, if you plan to get married and have children, it's best not to get married, because after all, it's still relatives, if the child has a problem, it will be a pain for your whole life, if you have to get married, then don't have children can also be considered.
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