Is it really too much to get married and not want to have a wedding?

It's not too much, if you're just afraid of trouble, you won't go to the wedding, you're just afraid of getting olderDai YueI'm sad that I didn't have a wedding. Some people say that it is done for others to see, this is very extreme, although tired, the sense of steadiness and accomplishment you gain is unforgettable.

If you don't want to have regrets, just have a wedding. After all, this is the highlight of an ordinary person's life.

Life still needs a little sense of ritual.

Yes, the wedding still has to be had, there is no need to make a big deal, just do it simply.

The wedding is a test of the two families, and this is also the run-in of the two families. The wedding is done well, and both parties are satisfied, which proves that the families of both parties have run in well, and the marriage can be smooth and harmonious. Those who can't reach an agreement on the wedding and work together will have a lot of trivial things after marriage.

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Nowadays, many young people choose to travel to get married, one is to move freely, and the other is to increase the fun and privacy, and enhance the relationship between the young couple in the honeymoon.

Relatively speaking, traveling to get married is more environmentally friendly, the cost is lower, and it is good to invite a few relatives and friends to have a light meal when you come back. Many women say that a woman must wear a wedding dress once in her life so that she will not regret it.

In fact, you can go to take wedding photos with your husband, or you can take wedding photos while traveling to get married.

It's not too much at all, theoretically you have to make your own decisions about your wedding, but in fact, first you have to agree with your other half, then you have to convince your parents, and finally convince each other's parents, which I personally think is very difficult.

I'm facing the same problem as you right now.

I didn't want to organize a wedding, mainly because I was afraid of trouble. To organize a banquet, but also to settle relatives and friends. No worries and no effort.

Although I was reluctant to have a wedding, I have figured it out now. We are juniors, and if we think about traveling and getting married, we will be very happy and happy. But the parents' concept is more traditional, they care more about this traditional etiquette, in their hearts, not having a wedding means not getting the blessing of relatives and friends.

Not having a wedding may indeed cause speculation, and we may not have to be criticized outside, but my parents are at home all year round, so I thought I would be considerate of them and hold a wedding.

Excessively, the wedding is to give the woman a cognitive affirmation, and not holding a wedding means that you don't want to admit this wife.

It's not too much, because the cost of setting up a banquet is too big now, and there are too many things to deal with, and the wedding photography is all about contacting yourself.

If two people get married and don't want to have a wedding, I think it depends on whether they can accept the wedding, which is also a kind of declaration of sovereignty to everyone, and it is to hope to get the blessings of relatives and friends.

I myself do not accept that a wedding ceremony should not be held.

The wedding ceremony can be simple, Huai Ru but can not be without, once in a lifetime (some people may have many times), modern everyone pays attention to life and has a sense of ceremony, not to mention the wedding of two people, although there are so many people who do not advocate the wedding of the forest, but it is only a very small number that is not held, anyway, there is no one around me at present.

For most ordinary people, the wedding is rough, it is a sense of formality, a kind of proclamation ceremony. The scene can be big or small, but both parties to this ceremony, especially the woman, must be explained, otherwise it will look like a sneak. So, the respect that deserves is still given.

There should be relatively few people who get married and don't have a wedding at the moment, because many people feel that the wedding is a starting point for two people's marriage, and it is also very memorable and valuable, so even if two people do not receive a marriage certificate for the time being, they have to do this wedding. But we have to return to this topic, there are definitely people who get married and don't have a wedding, but not many people regret not having a wedding in retrospect, and there are disputes between husband and wife. Today's thoughts do not represent future thoughts, girls have a dream in their hearts that they are a princess, and when they wake up one day and want a romantic wedding, it will be too late, and it will become the fuse of the quarrel between the young couple.

The woman will always think that the man has caused her shortcomings, and she feels aggrieved when she thinks about it, so try not to leave such troubles.

Leave regrets in life. When we are old, or how many years later, we will look at the video with our children, and we will find that we are still so young, everything was so beautiful at the beginning, looking at ourselves in the wedding, I can't believe that I was beautiful like a princess at the beginning, and if I don't have it, I can't remember. It's like there's a missing part of my life.

It is not easy to establish a sense of family responsibility. If you don't have a wedding, there will be very few people who know, if there is a conflict in the future, when you can't get by, whether it is a man or a woman, divorce may be very easy like a breakup, after all, not many people know, so it is not easy to establish a sense of family responsibility.

I think getting married without a wedding is a relatively rare, but not very rare option. From the point of view of personal freedom and marital autonomy, everyone should have the right to choose how they want to celebrate their marriage, with or without a wedding.

However, as an important ceremony, a wedding is not only to celebrate the beginning of marriage, but also to recognize and witness a family and society. In some cultures, weddings are also an important vehicle for family and social relationships. Therefore, choosing not to have a wedding may be perceived as a disrespect for tradition and the chaining of rent, or as a sign of a lack of importance for marriage and family relationships.

Overall, the decision to have a wedding should be a decision based on personal values, grandchildren, and cultural background. No matter how you choose to celebrate your marriage, you should respect each other's wishes and choices, and not be bound by society's inherent expectations of marriage.

The two of you have to discuss, I think it's okay not to do it, or it's OK to do grinding, these calls can go out to travel with money, or you can do something else, it's okay, the most important thing is that you two pure chains fight with a unified opinion, I wish you good luck, grow old together, you can go down.

In fact, this statement also depends on what your family is like, if your family is a more traditional family, not having a wedding may make your Liang Chi's parents feel a little unhappy. Because if you are a woman's family, if you don't have a wedding, maybe your parents will think that the man doesn't respect you enough, if you are a man's family, if you don't have a wedding, maybe the parents of the woman's family will think that you are not reliable enough. Therefore, whether to get married or not to have a wedding depends on the affairs of your two families, because marriage is not a matter of two people, but a matter of two families, if you make your parents or each other's parents unhappy because of these things, it will be worth the loss.

The two families agreed not to hold a wedding ceremony under the premise that it is actually a good thing not to have a wedding, first of all, there is no need to prepare so many cumbersome things, many couples are actually in the early stage of wedding preparation, resulting in two people separating, because the wedding preparation is too much, so it will also lead to a lot of conflicts.

I can't accept the marriage and don't have a wedding.

For most ordinary people, there is only one marriage in this life, and I hope that I can meet the right person for the first time, and grow old together, so the wedding will not be grand, but we must do what we can.

As a country of etiquette, China was even more cumbersome in ancient times.

1. Nacai: Nacai is what we call a marriage proposal now, the man needs to ask the matchmaker to be the matchmaker, and the matchmaker will send the gift to the woman's home, if the woman's family agrees, you can accept the engagement gift sent by the man.

2. Asking for a name: The man asked the matchmaker to come to the door to inquire about the name and birth date of the woman who sold the model, and then handed it to the fortune teller to make a good omen.

3. Najib: If the fortune teller has an auspicious omen, then the man will ask the matchmaker to prepare a thin gift to the woman's house, and tell the woman that the marriage can be continued. Nowadays, it is also called "passing a small ceremony" or "small determination".

4. Najib: After Najib, you can officially give a dowry gift, and the man will give gifts, cakes, gifts and sacrifices to the woman's house, which is called Nazheng, which is now called "too big a gift".

5. Invitation period: The man asks the fortune teller to choose a date, and after determining the auspicious date for marrying, he will send someone to inform the female family and solicit the opinions of the female family, which is called the invitation period, also known as the "begging day", and now called the "day".

6. Welcome: The last procedure of the six ceremonies, that is, the groom takes the gift code to the woman's house to greet the bride.

Now, they are all free love, both parties are happy with each other, and after getting the approval of both parents, they come to the door to propose, get engaged, and choose a good day to get married.

With the popularity of Western-style weddings, the wedding process is also being simplified, and a small number of newlyweds choose to travel to get married. Because not only can you fully enjoy the world for two, but you can also enjoy the stunning natural scenery.

But without a wedding, it always feels like something is missing.

Moreover, as long as the wedding is held, even if you do not go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register and obtain a certificate, a de facto marriage has been formed and is protected by the law.

This depends on everyone's habits and requirements, basically, if you don't have a wedding when you get married, this kind of love shirt is very rare, and then you can basically hold a large or small wedding, and it can be a naked marriage or quite few.

Young people's reluctance to have a wedding is mainly affected by a variety of factors, such as financial pressure, personal perceptions and other reasons. At the same time, this trend also illustrates the transformation of people's values and the development trend of society.

First, weddings are expensive.

Weddings require certain financial expenses, including venue rental, wedding dresses, banquets, photography weddings, etc. In the face of high wedding expenses, many young people choose not to hold weddings, and choose a simpler way to spend money and save money.

Second, the pace of life is intense.

With the increased pace of social life, many young people are busy with work and life and do not have much time and energy to prepare for their wedding. In addition, holding a wedding requires time control, planning and arranging a lot of knowledge, and if you pursue simplicity and convenience, you are even more reluctant to hold a wedding.

Third, changes in personal perceptions.

With the changes of the new era, people's concepts have also changed, such as the requirements of married life, family responsibilities and fairness between husband and wife, etc., many young people gradually think that weddings are not necessary, and pay more attention to the quality and quality of marital relationships. In addition, there are also young people who believe that a big wedding does not determine the quality of a marriage.

Fourth, social and environmental pressures.

With the development of society, people's aesthetic concepts and values have also changed. In the past, people would think that having a grand wedding was a matter of face, but in today's society, people's concepts have changed, and more and more young people are pursuing the quality and stability of marriage, and no longer regard a luxurious wedding as a necessary thing in life.

Young people choose to give up on marriage, perhaps because they are paying more attention to marriage itself. They know that even if it is a million-dollar wedding of a star, it is just a formality, and the marriage problems they really need to face have just started from that day! In any case, as long as two people truly love each other, I don't think there is any problem, even if there is no wedding, it will not have too much impact!

Although many young people will hold their own weddings when they get married, because they think that they will only accept this marriage in their lives, and they naturally want to hold the wedding lively, beautiful scenery, so that they can have no regrets, but I personally think that even when they get married, it is acceptable not to hold a wedding, and the reason why I think so is mainly based on the following reasons.

First of all, for two people who are married, holding wedding ceremonies and banquets to invite relatives and friends are just a formality, the most important thing for two people to get married is the actual content, this content is that the husband and wife can really love each other, tolerate each other, because the wedding is absolutely beautiful, if the relationship between two people after marriage is not good, then such a wedding is meaningless, but even if the wedding is not organized, The relationship between two people after marriage has always been particularly sweet and harmonious, and this kind of marriage makes each other really yearn for it.

And if you run a wedding, for yourself, for relatives and friends, it is also a burden, since you have a wedding, you must invite your relatives and friends, and your relatives and friends can not be empty-handed, you must follow the gift, then this also invisibly increases the financial burden of these relatives and friends, when these relatives and friends have similar red and white ceremonies in the future, they must also return this favor, in fact, busy to the end, everyone just earned a shout, I personally think it is more practical to use the money saved from the wedding to travel with your lover, and the real wedding does not need to be blessed by relatives and friends, and the answer is that the husband and wife can feel happy in their married life.