My husband is worried about my past and my married life is unhappy, what should I do?

The most heart-wrenching feeling in the world is not the loss of love, but the fact that you are deceiving me when I give my heart to you. Life is not a movie, if you miss it, you will lose it, you will not have it, you can't have a chance to start over like in the movie, maybe a miss will make us regret it for life......The most heart-wrenching feeling in the world is not the loss of love, but the fact that you are deceiving me when I give my heart to you. I'm looking for her someone who is not very gentle but can be a little savage at times.

A person who is not very kind but a little bad. A person who is not very empathetic but a little strong-worded, a person who is not very beautiful but very sensible, a person who is not very generous but a little stingy, and a person who is not vain but smells beautiful. There is no perfect person, if you want to really love, you should be together.

I have been waiting for someone, a person who knows how to cherish fate, a person who is willing to hold hands with me until old age, a person who believes that there is true love in the world like me; I've been waiting for someone, someone who cares about me and cares about me, someone who knows how to tolerate and understand me, someone who may not be perfect but knows how to cherish me; I've been waiting for someone, someone who loves me and loves each other, someone we like each other.

If you want to live it, talk about it, and if you don't want to live it, talk about it, otherwise it's your own will to endure it or divorce.

It's hard to try to forget the pain of the past, because you can't live in the past forever, and the present is the most important thing.

Chat with your husband and share the past of both parties.

Be honest with each other, serve people with the city, and strive for trust and understanding.

Silly girl! Just copy this little thing, do you want to say that you are not happy? Bai is wrong! Happiness is not something that others can give, married life needs to be run-in, understood, mutual, at least dao must be invested, but also with a little wisdom, happiness is also to have the ability to be happy.

There is a big truth, two happy people are not absolutely in tune, but they must know how to deal with incompatibility!

When you enter marriage, love romance is just an adjective, and life is the theme. If you want him to be able to enter your world, you have to enter his world first: understand what the man around you needs and likes, and then love what he loves and hurts him, so that he will feel that you are his confidant and will notice you.

Only by taking his eyes and heart to you can you have the possibility of getting the happiness and romance you want. Occasionally let go of a little demand or perfection, after all, he is just a mortal who eats the fireworks of the world, for him, he and you live a real life, not like a relationship.

Sometimes, women can really entertain themselves, happy with their little pleasures, and do whatever they have to do! There are a lot of little interests in life that will make women more intellectual and beautiful, all kinds of flowers and plants, reading books, making yolks, squeezing a cup of juice, getting together with girlfriends,,, making their lives lively, not the only man in the world who is married.

Also, don't mention divorce casually ---!

What's yours is yours, and what isn't yours isn't yours. Let it be, marriage is not the whole of your life, the right version of marriage is your right.

Lucky, it is also your luck to let go of an unsuitable marriage earlier, but you are afraid of an inappropriate marriage and do not let go, which is the biggest pain in life.

Master Shanyuange, help you solve your emotional confusion!

I think that if you want to divide the idea, sooner or later you will be divided, I am in a similar situation with you, it has been delayed for many years, and finally it is divided. After the breakup, I found a special favorite at the time, but after I got married, I found all kinds of problems, and I still felt unhappy.

Follow the steps to come:

First: calm down, the two of them are detailed once. Talk about his and your feelings in marriage respectively, and return them to the hearts of the two.

There is a bottom. Let's talk about why you feel unhappy. If a period of compensity can be reached, mutual tolerance and acceptance can be continued.

Second: If the desired effect cannot be achieved during the compensation period, you can file for divorce. As for how parents feel, they just want you to be happy.

If you can't be happy, how to take care of them. Also, make a suggestion that you better live outside, otherwise your parents will definitely give him some unnecessary influence. Because from the words, I feel that you are stronger.

Third: put yourself in a proper position, don't magnify his shortcomings and not see his strengths. A man is sometimes a child in the eyes of his wife, and if you want to find a man who is as tolerant as his father, it is a difficult and terrifying thing to control.

Also, in fact, he is not good at expressing himself, but he is certainly a more responsible person.

Settle it privately. , ask him to make a plagiarism and ask for clarification. , if it really doesn't fit the bai, you will leave the ,..

What society is now.

Du ,,, many people who divorce are zhi isEven if you leave the dao,After a while, it will be discussed. In addition, as you said above. , he's clearly squeezing you out. and pay attention to the ,.. yourself

One way to suggest this is to talk to him privately, and if he leaves, tell his parents that he is going on a business trip and will come back after a while

Chop first, then play. ,~

It's very simple, if you are not happy, pursue your happiness.

Marriage is like a shoe, only you know whether it fits or not. Just don't grieve yourself.

There are indeed many problems, but would you like to give up your happiness to seek satisfaction? Are you willing?

People, the most worthy of oneself is oneself, it is not easy to go through the world

If you don't want to say anything else, it's also necessary to have a serious talk with your husband. Mainly, do things really want to go back to what you said? Did he unilaterally make up the answer?

Or is there something that makes him do that to you? Such a man, you also talk to him about marrying him!! Remember, parents always want their children to be well. Now everyone is talking about environmental protection, no need to tie it to a tree, there are more good woods now You have only been married for 2 years, you can recover it and are not afraid of losing, go talk to him, talk to your parents, if you can't leave!

You still have 2 years ahead of you to be happy!!

A lot of things are hard to say, husband and wife life depends on management, you can't be too accommodating to each other, only you know whether it's suitable or not, may you be loving!

Long pain is not as good as short pain, such as bai guo you have du

It is well thought out and can bear its DAO consequences, the best choice at the end.

Return; But if both parties only answer that there is a conflict at present, it is recommended that you think about it carefully and try to communicate what you want to say to your husband alone, for marriage, effective communication is very important; Maybe he didn't know what you were thinking, so nothing changed;

Now yours, tangled, like a fly without a head, you don't want to hurt your parents, but have you asked your parents Don't they want you to be happy? Trust your feelings.

When it is broken, it is broken. I knew it was so.

1.In your marriage, there is no love and care from the other party, the economy is mainly on your own, there is no sex, and there is domestic violence. What is the meaning of sustaining.

Love is not all great, there are also muddy. It's not that you work hard to get results, some people do an MRI resonance, and the emotional part of their minds is missing, what can you do? Some people have mental illness that may not be effective after many years of treatment by doctors, what can you do?

Some people have shortcomings in their personalities, and they can't change them for many years, what can you do?

It seems that you mainly have a good face, and if you want to be happy, you have to pass the hurdle of yourself.

2.If there is no agreement on the property, it is generally divided equally between the two parties. Child custody mainly depends on who is more conducive to its growth, three-and-a-half-year-old girls, and the man is good at beating, you have an advantage.

When the man beats you again, remember to call the police immediately and leave a record. Go to the hospital for an examination and keep the scars** and related expense bills. In the event of a divorce, an action for damages can be filed on the grounds of domestic violence.

3.This kind of family environment is also not good for children's growth.

First of all, I believe you said that any woman does not care about any problem in the face of love, but there is a premise, that is, there must be love to support, and it will be tiring to always sing a one-man show of love. I understand you very well, however, children are a big problem, and it is not good for parents to quarrel, but it is not the best policy to lack fatherly love. From what you say, you are a reasonable and strong person, and family trivial matters can reflect the problems between people, but there are many ways to solve them.

You are now in the stage of "climbing", the relationship is the same, there are stages, you did not try to solve the estrangement between you and your husband, do not care about although it is good, but you don't care about it, the heart is the same uncomfortable, it is better to take out the unhappy place, tell the husband, in fact, men are sometimes very simple, it is women who think they are complicated, don't expect your husband to understand your small mind, after a man is married, he is not willing to bother to cater to his wife's heart, they prefer you to tell directly. Instead of pandering to your heart. "I want to eat ice cream, buy me strawberry flavored, I want to buy the ** brand" Don't let him guess which brand of ice cream you want or think he should know, it will lead to a new round of quarrels between you.

As you said, don't look at other people's attitudes, don't care about the amount of money, don't care how tired life is, just love yourself and be considerate of your husband! Tell your husband directly what you want, look at your husband's behavior, and judge, okay? Don't guess for yourself!

I hope you don't get divorced, save first, in the choice! Giving children a complete and happy home is also a career!

In the final analysis, you are a little confused about this marriage, don't say that sex life is not important, it affects the relationship between husband and wife, my neighbor has such a family, my mother-in-law is unreasonable, then stay away from her, and live with your husband and not with your mother-in-law, you have to find a way to make your husband face you, I feel that your mother-in-law is this plan, when you quarrel with your husband, is your mother-in-law always towards your husband.

People say persuasion and not persuasion, have children, maybe there is still no mature woman, life is not as simple as falling in love after all, a lot of scheming in it, maybe your husband is more honest, you have to rely on yourself to recover his heart, in fact, I am more selfish, I am a guest ** this matter, the child is influential but can not let the child delay their own happiness, even if the child suffers may be the child's life is not good, you can only persuade yourself, to ask yourself deep down, whether you still love this man, There is really no love, so it will delay yourself and delay yourself, after all, the child is still young and does not remember. Don't be sad, this kind of thing happens in today's society, it's normal, life and work are stressful and fast-paced, and when you encounter something, calm down and solve it slowly.

I wish you to find your own happy ...... as soon as possible

1. "My marriage is unhappy, do I have to get a divorce?" ”：

2) Happiness or unhappiness: Only you know, outsiders can't tell.

3) Whether you have to divorce or not: It is only up to you to decide, and no one else, even your biological mother, can make this decision for you. But, as a sister, I would like to ask you:

Knowing that you are unhappy and continue to live, do you have the confidence that you can hope that his prodigal son will return and take care of you and your children? If you have this confidence, you should continue to endure and persevere, not for others, but for your daughter; If you don't have this confidence, if you endure it any longer, in exchange for only his disdain and maybe even abuse, can you bear it, and your daughter will have to endure it with you?

2. "I want to raise this child myself":

1) If you divorce, the custody of the child and the division of property can be negotiated with him, and when the negotiation fails, you have your own income, the child has always been with you, and it is a daughter, and it is less than 5 weeks, and the possibility of being awarded to you for support is still very high.

2) After you get custody of the child, you can also ask him for child support until the child is 18 years old, the standard is 20% 30% of his income, if he is conditionally paid, you can also ask him to pay in a lump sum.

3. Your house and vehicle: In the absence of a special agreement on the ownership of property between you, it is the joint property of the husband and wife after marriage, and it is generally half of one person in the event of divorce; The same is true for marital debts; However, the pre-marital personal property and debts of one party remain with one party and are not divided or shared in the event of divorce.

4. If your sex life is not harmonious, and there is no most basic pity and affection, the prospect of maintaining your marriage does not seem to be too good?

This does not have to be divorced, if the relationship between the husband and wife breaks down, you can file for divorce.

According to the relevant provisions of the Supreme People's Court's "Several Specific Opinions on How the People's Court Determines that the Relationship between the Husband and Wife Has Truly Broken Down in the Trial of Divorce Cases".

When a people's court hears a divorce case, whether or not a divorce is granted or not, the distinction shall be based on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has truly broken down. To determine whether the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down, a comprehensive analysis shall be made from aspects such as the basis of marriage, postmarital feelings, reasons for divorce, the current state of the relationship between husband and wife, and whether there is a possibility of reconciliation. According to the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law and the practical experience of adjudication, in any of the following circumstances, it shall be deemed that the relationship between husband and wife has truly broken down.

If one party insists on requesting a divorce, and mediation fails, a judgment may grant the divorce in accordance with the law.

1. One party suffers from a disease that is legally prohibited from marriage, or one party has a physical defect or other reasons that prevent sexual intercourse, and it is difficult to **.

2. Lack of understanding before marriage, hasty marriage, and lack of marital relationship after marriage, making it difficult to live together.

3. Concealing mental illness before marriage and not being cured after marriage, or marrying the other party knowing that the other party is mentally ill before marriage, or one of the spouses suffering from mental illness during the period of living together and not being cured for a long time.

4. One party deceives the other party, or falsifies the marriage certificate during marriage registration.

5. After the marriage is registered, the parties do not live together, and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

6 Arranged or bought or sold marriages, where one party files for divorce immediately after the marriage, or where they have lived together for many years but have not established a relationship between husband and wife.

7. Where three years have elapsed since separation due to emotional discord and there is no possibility of reconciliation, or where divorce has been granted by a people's court and divorce has been granted for another year, and each other has not fulfilled their obligations as husband and wife.

8 Where one party commits adultery or illegally cohabits with another person, and there is no sign of repentance after education, and the party who is not at fault sues for divorce, or the party at fault sues for divorce, and the other party does not agree to the divorce, and after criticism, education, punishment, or after the people's court has ruled that the divorce is not allowed, the party at fault sues for divorce, and there is no possibility of reconciliation.

9 Where one party has bigamy and the other party files for divorce.

10 One party has a habit of indulgence, gambling, etc., does not fulfill family obligations, and refuses to change his or her teachings, making it difficult for the husband and wife to live together.

11. One party has been sentenced to a long-term prison sentence in accordance with the law, or has violated the law or committed a crime that seriously hurts the feelings of the husband and wife.

12 Where one party's whereabouts have been unknown for two years, and the other party sues for divorce, but no whereabouts are found through public announcement.

13 Those who have been abused or abandoned by the other party, or who have been abused by the other party's relatives, or who have abused the other party's relatives, and who have not changed their ways after education, and the other party has not forgiven.

14 The relationship between husband and wife has broken down due to other reasons.