Do today s boys mind the girls past?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
50 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Preface: Now when a boy is in a relationship with his girlfriend, if he mentions the girl's past, he will also mind very much. Even if you don't show such a mind on the surface, you will feel that such a girl is a more casual person in your heart, so when a girl is considering a relationship, she must not mention her past to the current one.

    When it comes to situations that the boyfriend can't accept in the past, the two can only end up breaking up. Girls can accept boys' pasts, but boys are more mindful of girls' pasts. <>

    Nowadays, when some girls are in love, if they talk to their boyfriend that their boyfriend is not the first boyfriend they have talked to, the boy will definitely mind in his heart. Because no man wants the person he likes to be possessed by someone else before. But couples should also take into account that boys have a past, girls should also have a past, and everyone should respect the past.

    Instead of blindly hurting the other party, after all, the girlfriend has forgotten the past, and if she chooses to be with her boyfriend, she should not mention the past again. <>

    When girls are with their boyfriends, they will choose to mention their past to their boyfriends in order to have a corresponding sense of affection. Show your boyfriend how many relationships you've been in and show off in order to show off, even if the boy's expression doesn't change on the surface, but in his heart he will definitely feel more mindful. Boys are more psychological, and after mentioning it to the past with their boyfriends, they will find that their boyfriends are slowly alienating from girls.

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, there will be a past in the relationship, and most people are reluctant to mention such a past. As a girl, even if she has nothing to say to her boyfriend, she should not mention her past, and blindly mentioning the past will only make her boyfriend think that the girl has not forgotten her past.

    When I am with my boyfriend, I always compare my boyfriend with my ex, which will make my boyfriend jealous in my heart.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on how it passes, if there are only two love stories, I think most boys don't mind. But if the girl's past is a little unbearable, then even if you love this girl again, you will feel uncomfortable.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Definitely mind, boys are more jealous, so he will mind the girl's past, so if the girl has a richer past, he shouldn't tell the boy.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Today's boys shouldn't mind the girl's past, only focus on the present and the future, and the past is in the past.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Most people nowadays don't mind their partner's past. If you mind, you won't be together.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    To be reasonable, this question is asked to 90% of the male students in China at present, no matter how verbally they are, they will still mind more or less in their hearts, after all, the influence of tradition is still somewhat deep-rooted.

    However, the so-called love itself is not very reasonable, personal experience and the third perspective to support the evidence, when the like and love reach a certain level, you will unconsciously lower some principles or obsessions that are not obvious, maybe this can also explain why "love makes people blind", and even sometimes, you will find enough reasons and excuses in your heart to persuade yourself to lower or no longer insist on your ridiculous obsessions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are some boys who will pick up the past of girls, especially those who have already lived with their ex, and many boys will mind.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think it will. Some boys are still more conservative in their views, and they will mind.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love someone, you don't care about the past, but there is no need to tell him everything, and in turn, he won't tell you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It is true that some boys will mind the girl's past relationship, but most of the boys don't care so much now, and her past is too late to participate, so cherish the present and the future of the two people.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Boys nowadays generally don't mind girls' past. Because people nowadays have basically talked about several relationships, and there are still a few who can end up with the beginning.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to say this question, because everyone thinks differently, but boys can say that you mind a girl's past, but have you ever thought about being responsible for her when you ruined a girl, and you have to stay for her for life, don't just think about your past that you mind girls, have you really thought about girls?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Today's boys generally don't mind the girl's past, but there are some boys who are careful, but there are fewer of them.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Whether a boy minds a girl's past or not is still different from person to person, some boys are very mindful that a girl has a not-so-good past, and some boys will not mind her past if they really love her very much.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If two people are together, no matter what time it is, the boy will definitely mind the girl's past. There is no way to undo this game in the past. And if he wants to get involved in your past, it means that he wants to know more about you.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In fact, most of them will, they may not say it in their mouths, but they will have more or less thoughts in their hearts.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some will mind, and some boys are too entangled in these things, which are actually shackles for themselves.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes! A boy who really loves you probably won't mind before you're present! If you don't love you, you'll keep saying it! But you will mind!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Well, the relationship is now, will the boy mind most of the girl's past to fold it? They don't mind, they basically just really like it, and they don't care about this situation at all.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think the current society is more open, men and women are equal, so boys don't mind girls' past, they only value the present and the future.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    This in itself is not an absolute topic.

    Even if a girl doesn't care about the boy's past, it needs to be based on certain premises, and at the same time, the girl's own personality needs to be taken into account. If the boy's past is relatively complicated and has reached a point where it is difficult for the girl to accept, it is difficult for the girl not to care about the boy's past. But under normal circumstances, not everyone can start from the beginning, everyone has their own past, and I think we need to look at each other's past with a cautious attitude.

    First, it depends on the real relationship between two people.

    After two people are together, if the relationship between two people is very good, and at the same time cherish each other very much. Even if both of them have a past, I don't think they care too much about each other's past. To some extent, when a girl expresses concern about the boy's past, it means that the boy himself has not let go of the past, and at the same time, he has not cherished the relationship between the two people enough.

    2. What does this also need to look at?

    As I said above, I don't think any girl would be so stingy as to care about the boy's past if he had only been in a normal relationship with someone else. But if a boy's previous love life was particularly chaotic, no one can easily accept such a past. Because of this, it depends on the severity of the matter itself, and it also depends on how well the two people communicate.

    For most normal people, our relationship experience is not that complicated, and I think most people can accept each other's past. <>

    Third, some people's past may be messy, which is difficult to accept.

    This situation does not only happen to boys, but also to some girls, and I think there is no right or wrong in the relationship problem, but a person must be responsible for his feelings. It's about respecting a relationship as well as respecting yourself. For those who have a very chaotic love life, no one can easily accept such a person, and the other party will naturally care about your past.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    There are really girls who don't mind, because many girls think that people have a past, and this is normal, so they don't mind.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I don't think any girl will not care about the boy's past, but some people are more open-minded, so they are more indifferent to these things.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Girls will care more or less, this mainly depends on the attitude of the boys, the boys can break off from the past, then the girls will not care about the boys' past.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Many girls may not care about other people's past, but if he doesn't know, if he knows what his money relationship is, he will more or less take it to heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, there are, but very few, especially girls, who are relatively small-minded and very concerned about boys' past.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Everyone's idea of love is different, some people will care about the person they like now, because they will pay more attention to the present and cherish it more, after all, the past has passed and has happened, since they choose to be together, then there is no need to care.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Some girls don't care about the boy's past, because this kind of girl's personality is very arrogant. His principle is that nothing has to do with him in the past, he only cares about the present and the future. So that the girl doesn't care about the boy's past.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Ah, there are also, after all, everyone has a past, and it is impossible for us all to live in the past where we all mind others, so some girls can not care about the boy's past and care about his present.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Yes, there will be people who don't care about the boy's past, because the past is the past after all, and bad things have happened in the past, and there is no guarantee that everyone's past is very good, and it may be that she has been hurt in the past, and he can be good after falling in love with you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There will be such girls. The past is just a part of our previous lives and doesn't express you in all its glory. In the future, you have to work hard enough, be confident, and give the other girl what she wants, and he will definitely not be in your past.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Whether a boy's past will make a girl feel mind is different from person to person, if the girl doesn't like that boy so much, a small stain on the past will cause disgust, but if you really love each other, it won't.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Probably there really is.

    Generally more concerned about the boy's past, generally a slightly more controlling desire.

    In fact, no one has a past, as long as you treat you with sincerity, you really can't care too much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    I think it depends on what the boyfriend's past is.,If it's the kind of thing that normal people can't forgive.,Then I think even if the girlfriend says she doesn't care.,But in my heart I should still care.。

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I think there are a lot of girls who don't care about the past of the boys, that is, the past, if the past of the uncle and the boy, then they can't get along, everyone has their own past.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    This should be done by very few people, because the girl will always care about the boy's past, and if he really doesn't care, maybe he doesn't really like the boy.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Generally, girls will mind, except for the kind of three views that are very legitimate, and they don't care about the boy's past, after all, every boy has a more or less secret past.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    There is no woman who doesn't care about the man's past, only the past that the boy wants to hide, so if you want to have a good past, you should be serious about your own life.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Yes, because I love him, I don't care about his past, such a girl is more broad-minded, and the things she thinks will be more acceptable.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Is there really a girl who doesn't care about a boy's past? There are very few girls who don't care about the boy's past, don't look at what he says on the surface, in fact, he still cares.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    There will definitely be girls who can not care about the boy's past, if you really like him, you can also not care about his past, because you just want to feel what his present is like in the past, it doesn't matter?

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    No, if you really want to marry him, how can you not care about his past? If you don't care about the boy's past, then there is a high probability that you don't like him, and it doesn't matter to him.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There will be girls who don't care about the boys' past. As long as the girl likes the boy enough, everything that was past will be in the past.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Girls care about the boy's past, and they care more about the boy's mind, some have passed, and some have finally given up.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If this girl has a deep feeling for you, and your relationship is very good, then he will not care.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If this man is good enough and strong enough, even if he has any emotional experience in the past, girls will not care about his past.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Yes, the condition is before you become his girlfriend, you don't know her yet, it wasn't that important before, it's good to be yours in the future.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    There are many girls who can not care about the past of boys, which is also very normal, everyone has a past? If you care, you're not going to get by.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    No way, boys are the same as girls, you boys care about girls' pasts, how can girls not care about boys?

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow. If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore.

    In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be? In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things. His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past.

    If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave.

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