The girl has several ex boyfriends, as the current one, will you particularly mind this matter?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-10
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I won't particularly mind this, I'll just manage our relationship with my heart. Everyone may meet someone in their life who makes their heart move, but a heartbeat does not mean that two people will be able to enter happiness. Separation and union in love is the norm in real life, and if you start to mind a person's past, it means that the love between two people may not be solid.

    We will find happiness after several relationships, which no one can be sure of. There are always some lucky people in life, they meet someone who really loves them at the right age, and the two enter into marriage from their first love. This kind of happiness is always enviable, but this kind of lucky person is really rare in life.

    For most people, we often need to experience the bitterness of first love and the torment of one or several love breakups before it is possible to truly find someone in life who is suitable for us to accompany for a lifetime. But no one can give us the answer to how many times we will meet this person after experiencing love, not even ourselves.

    After all, every time love comes, we think that this will be our lifelong partner, but where love will go, it may not even be clear to the two people who are in love.

    I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend had several ex-boyfriends, and I was willing to tolerate her. In this day and age, people have become very different in their perception of relationships. Once in love, in a relationship is not a thing worthy of praise and criticism, but an extremely normal performance.

    If a girl and I meet in the middle of a sea of people after talking about a few boyfriends, we happen to see the right eye and walk into love, I think I can tolerate her life experience. Those unhappiness not only brought him heartache, but also made me feel distressed.

    After two people come together, tolerating each other is the most basic thing that can get along. I feel like I'm okay with the status quo and I don't have to get too hung up. This may be the norm in life, no boy will choose to break up because his girlfriend has been in love, after all, we are no longer the same blank slate.

    In fact, for many boys in life, they especially mind whether their girlfriends have been in love. But those boys who can't tolerate their girlfriends becoming true can't really find their own love in life.

    Love may run through a person's life, but at what stage happiness will appear, we can only verify it with life experience.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I must mind that I feel that others have used it for me, how bad it is. It is not worth it and will not be cherished.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think it depends on the thoughts of different people, and some people don't mind it, because after all, they haven't met you yet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I especially mind, I think this girl is a more casual and open woman, and I feel that she doesn't love herself very much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If I really love her, I won't mind her past, I will only care about her future, I just know that her future will definitely have me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The answer to this question can vary from person to person. Some girls may mind that their boyfriends have sex with their ex, while others may not mind so much.

    For those girls who mind, they may worry that their boyfriend is emotionally entangled with their ex or still has feelings for their ex. They may feel jealous or upset because their boyfriend has had an intimate relationship with someone else. In addition, they may also worry about the impact of their boyfriend's sex life with their ex on their boyfriends' sexual health.

    However, for those girls who don't mind too much, it may be that more attention is paid to the fact that the boyfriend's past with the ex is over, and that they are together now. They may think that it's normal for their boyfriends to have sex and that it won't affect their relationship too much. In addition, they may also think that their boyfriend's sex life with their ex does not affect their boyfriend's sexual health.

    In short, every girl may have different thoughts and feelings about this issue. If you're worried that your girlfriend will mind you having sex with your ex, it's best to communicate openly with her, understand her thoughts and feelings, and respect her point of view. At the same time, remember that past experiences are not indicative of the present or future, and the point is that you are together now, and that you love and respect each other.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If a guy knows that his girlfriend and ex are a lot, he must have ideas and will not accept it.

    Under normal circumstances, normal boys accept their girlfriends without a subdued approach, and there are a lot of exs, unless they don't pay their feelings in this relationship, and they are just playing with their girlfriends, so they don't care at all. But as long as the boy has a little affection and likes his girlfriend's lack of tease, he will mind that his girlfriend has more ex, because boys are also possessive, and knowing that his girlfriend has many ex, he will definitely be a little unhappy and even jealous. For his girlfriend, the ex may mean that the girl's concept of love is a little distorted, or that there must be some bad reputation in the process of falling in love, and the boy may feel that he is particularly faceless and unwilling to choose such a girl, afraid that he will not be able to raise his head in front of his friends, so he will definitely mind.

    I must have some mind about my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend, but I'm embarrassed to express it, because if I express it, my girlfriend will feel that the other party doesn't trust me, or dislikes me, and my heart will be even more uncomfortable. Therefore, in the process of falling in love, boys can only show that they don't care and trust their girlfriends 100%. And when a boy is in a relationship, he should realize that he is now by his girlfriend's side, and he should treat his girlfriend well, don't want his girlfriend to be sad or have a reason to break up, and work hard to help his girlfriend heal his previous scars.

    Since you mind your girlfriend's ex, don't be your girlfriend's ex anymore, but treat your girlfriend well and make yourself the current forever.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, this situation will be more or less mindful.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There will be some suggestions, as long as you don't have a relationship with your ex, it should be good for a long time. In fact, men also have their own thoughts in their hearts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Men who really love women will mind.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    As a boy like this.

    The situation that the boy is.

    I'll mind.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Most of the 80% and above boys will mind that their girlfriends have ex, after all, it means that the girlfriend girl with the ex has amenorrhea and has previous emotional experience, so boys will also be more concerned about this, and boys hope to find a girlfriend who can be pure and quickly dig flaws!

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