How would it feel if you were to attend your ex s wedding?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-12
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    A qualified predecessor is no different from dead......

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I'm quite happy that she's finally married at the age of 40.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If, it's my ex, to be honest, no matter the princess he married, or, beggar, what's the matter with me, he won't go to his wedding, and we don't have a half-dime relationship, it has nothing to do with me, don't go to participate, just live by yourself, come on, x x, from now on, I only love myself, great, myself, it's my own goddess, come on, .

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    She started her new life, and I watched the lively crowd from the audience, and there were countless thoughts in my heart. I can only turn my deep pain and sorrow into bits and pieces of blessings to give her, maybe this is the last gift I brought her.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe in the eyes of women, if you don't lift it, it's a sunny day.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The bride invited all of them, which shows that at least she broke up with these exes peacefully, so many exes can still get along peacefully, and the bride's "tamer" means high poles. The groom must hold on, so many "predecessors" who have more or less other thoughts in their hearts, they must be careful if they can't bear it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Why should I go if I shouldn't have attended? Breaking up is in the past, and when it appears at this time, it is either embarrassing or sour! At this time, it seems that girls are not expensive! I won't talk about that later

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you see the girl who gets along with you day and night in the ceremony, and swears by the alliance, she is married at this moment. In addition to deep emotion, all I have left is heartfelt blessings.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    For a variety of reasons, we broke up. It didn't take long for me to receive her wedding invitation, and I felt very uncomfortable at the time, how to say that feeling, I don't think people who have experienced it don't understand.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Mixed tastes, to say that being happy and blessed for her is fake, you can't fool yourself at all, uncomfortable is uncomfortable, no matter how you use gorgeous language to embellish, it's useless, it's uncomfortable. It can be said that the whole wedding was jubilant and cheering except for you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I haven't experienced it, so it's recommended not to go to this kind of thing. If you really go, send blessings, if you want to stir things up, it's not appropriate, or don't go.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is clearly to tell the current incumbent how attractive he was before, and there are many people who pursue him. The exes who were able to come must have their own thoughts in their hearts. The most important thing is that the groom must keep this face and not drop the chain.

    If there is any difficulty, you must calmly block it back.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I wouldn't go to his wedding because it wasn't worth wasting my time.

    If you just encountered a failed relationship, you could choose to break up with him and find a new lover, there is no need to waste another minute of your own feelings for this scumbag。But if you have experienced a failed relationship, you think that you are completely desperate for the relationship, and even have a wary psychology about getting to know a new friend of the opposite sex, then this is your own fault.

    There are so many people in the world, even if you meet a scumbag, you can also meet those better people in the follow-up processYou can choose to give up this failed relationship, learn the lesson he gave you, and then meet a really reliable person and start your new relationship, isn't that good?

    Why bother just for one or two scumbags, and let your love life fall directly to the bottom is a bad phenomenon. As the saying goes, the best way to forget the pain of falling out of love is to start a new relationship quickly. If you think that you are sad to meet a scumbag, then you can use your friends or more reliable relatives to introduce you to some new members of the opposite sex, and you can have further contact.

    From the initial contact, observe whether the other party's character is more reliable, and also observe whether the other party is interested in you. If the other is better on both sidesThen you can choose to start a new relationship instead of hesitating to attend your ex's wedding here. Finally, I hope that every girl can meet her own Prince Charming!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I won't go to my ex's wedding, because it's a major event in my ex's life, and it would be very embarrassing if his other half minds going, so I should bless him in my heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will go to my ex's wedding, even if I can't be a boyfriend and girlfriend, I can be friends, I sincerely wish him well.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I won't. I felt that I had broken up with my ex and there was no need to have a relationship. It's time to start a new life.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People who choose to go to their ex's wedding often accept everything that has gone before. and the person who is about to enter the marriage hall tomorrow, whether it was romantic or not, have been together vigorously for three years and two years. Whether they used to go to each other or not, they made money to support themselves in a rented small house together, and they went to their dreams in the big city.

    Or after a breakup, who would recall these things in the middle of the night and toss and turn, and who would say when they were drunk that they actually loved more. From the day of the breakup, the past has become a black and white background, it is the past after all, and it has lost all the possibility of starting over. If you choose to go to your ex's wedding, you should go with a blessed mentality.

    Since you have the courage to face the past, whether it has been good or bad, the wedding guests should have gone with blessings. You look at the only person in front of you who was once extremely familiar with him and has never seen it before, and his face is full of happiness. Just like in "Your Wedding", the male protagonist looked at the female protagonist in a wedding dress with red eyes, and he went to bless and say goodbye.

    Face this former youth with a blessed mentality, see his happy appearance, and bravely deliver blessings. There is no need to add harm to the person you once loved deeply, and when you see him happy again, you should wish him a better tomorrow. People who choose not to go to their ex's wedding are more practical, and they choose to completely give up the bits and pieces of the past.

    I know you're married, and I know that you're happy after you left me, and you don't have to see each other again. Meeting again will bring more trouble to the two people, will the newlywed other half feel embarrassed by my arrival, such a romantic scene is best not to lose any romantic flavor because of me. Compared with choosing to go to a wedding, people who choose not to go to a wedding are actually more rational.

    I didn't have any desire to see him one last time, even if I still had a longing for the past years later, but reason eventually prevailed over this longing. They have the ability to dare to break with the past, and emotions are growing in their hearts, but the past has passed, and they will not bring all kinds of troubles to their lives by giving up everything. For the past, different people have the choice of not being the same.

    In fact, in the past, for each of us, blindness should be the best gift. It is difficult for us to decide what our past must be like, life never gives us the ability to predict the future, and every glimmer of the present becomes a thing of the past. In fact, compared to some people, they are obsessed with the past, and learning to get out of the shadow of the past and have their own life must be a good thing.

    When we face the past, maintaining the most basic mentality is the greatest consolation for the past. Entertain yourself at your ex's wedding reception, and we can see how happy he is later on, or see what the standard answer looks like. We can also refuse this invitation, just silently bless in our hearts, why bother to make our hearts a lot of chicken feathers.

    It's okay, just let the past be just the past. We miss out on a lot of people in life, so we have to cherish anyone around us more. Time flies, and you must be washed by time to become the best.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Being at the wedding scene of the ex, it is false to say that it is not uncomfortable and sad, the two people who used to be romantic before and under the moon, and also fantasized about walking into the palace of marriage hand in hand, but in the end they chose to break up because of various uncompromising reasons, and watched a relationship break, the heartbreak at the beginning and the sadness of looking at the happiness of the ex now are connected.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I haven't participated, but I can experience the feeling of "wonderful", which is envy and blessing and sad heart. If I could, I hope I wouldn't be in this situation in the future. I thought about it, this feeling is probably a hundred times sadder than seeing my ex show affection in the space or circle of friends one day, especially for those who have given their sincerity.

    In fact, whether it's love or something else, if you've ever put in the effort and heart for it. When you lose it one day, you are sad, and this sadness has probably become an instinct, innate. Actually, I can't understand the people who get married and send invitations to their ex, and I've always been there

    The best ex should be like dead. "I think it's both respect for the previous relationship and respect for each other and the present. Because when this relationship becomes a thing of the past, in fact, it is inappropriate for the ex to appear in any way.

    Moreover, it also hurts each other and each other's incumbents. Of course, everyone is more tolerant of feelings now. In some places, it is even popular to have an "ex-boyfriend table" and "ex-girlfriend table" when you get married.

    All I can say about this is that it's probably because I'm old. If it were in such a scene, I don't think I would be sad, but I would feel that I was lucky that I didn't marry this person. And then the last thing I want to say is to be kind to yourself, and what you miss has a reason why it misses.

    Don't always torture yourself with things from the past and make yourself sad. Now that it's in the past, let it be a thing of the past. Cherish the life in front of you and make yourself happier.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    My ex got married, and I didn't have much turmoil in my heart, after all, we have broken up, we are like parallel lines that never intersect, and life will never intersect again. My ex and I have been separated for many years, and we both have a significant other, and after knowing the news of his marriage, there is not a ripple in my heart, after all, we have parted ways and will not interfere in each other's world again. But my heart still longs for him to be happy, after all, I have sincerely loved him, and the only thing I can do is to bless him sincerely.

    First, I parted peacefully with my predecessor, and I sincerely wish him happiness when he was able to find happiness. I am a magnanimous girl, although my ex was empathetic and did not fall in love, but I did not hold a grudge because of this, but chose to be lenient and forgiving. Now, five years later, we all have the right to pursue our own happiness, and he can find someone to spend his life with, and I hope he never has to live a life of exile again.

    In fact, love itself is a fulfillment, no matter who the other party is with, as long as you can harvest happiness and a happy life, this is a kind of happiness.

    Second, the past grievances and hatreds have been put aside, and since they once loved each other, they should no longer complain. I think couples shouldn't worry too much about each other, even if they have broken up, they should let go of their previous suspicions, and instead of living in complaints, it is better to bless each other generously. There are too many unsatisfactory things in love, and it is also the norm of life that people who love each other cannot be together, and when you look down on the true meaning of love, you will not be too entangled.

    Third, a broad-minded person will feel happy for him when he sees the person he once loved getting married. If the girl loses herself in love, after being abandoned, she is depressed all day long, even if she knows the news of the other party's marriage, she is still haunted. Then the end result will only be a cocoon, and you will only hurt yourself.

    Girls have to learn to save themselves, to pull themselves out of the cage of broken love, and then regain their lives, to embrace the good in life, and to let go of the past calmly, so that you can meet a better self.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you don't turn your face and break up with each other peacefully, you can participate in your ex's wedding, after all, you have had a relationship, and you should be happy if you have a home. Even if you have turned your face and are forced to participate, there is no need to turn over the old things, maintain your demeanor, and send blessings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you were getting married, would you invite your ex to go? I still remember a movie called Ex, and one of the plots in it was that two people got married, one table was the ex-boyfriend who was sitting, and the other was the ex-girlfriend who was sitting.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    In fact, I think that since I have broken up with my ex, there should not be much turmoil in my ex's heart when I get married. After all, when you break up, two people have parallel lines that do not intersect. There is no longer any intersection in life.

    The heart must be very calm, without a single ripple. After all, I have really loved each other before, so I will definitely bless him and sincerely bless him. In fact, true love is originally fulfillment, no matter who he is with, he can reap happiness and a happy life, which is a kind of happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Attending an ex's wedding will be a little sad and uncomfortable for most people. But there are also people who feel that it doesn't matter......

    However, for many more people, once they break up with their ex, they will never contact him or her again, and he or she will not attend ...... weddingThe reason is simple: once you break up, you are a passerby.

    aqui te amo。

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