Do the post 90s generation want to have children?

I don't want to get married and have children, it's just the pressure at home.

I don't want to, I think about the topics that married women usually talk about, I think this kind of life is too terrible, they are wives and mothers, but without themselves, I have lost myself under the control of my parents for many years, and I don't want to go further and even control the time that I have squeezed out pitifully.

I will never have a second child! Love your children well, love yourself well, and live the life you want!

A thousand words, converging into one sentence without money,

I don't want to, and I don't need to care for the elderly, in my opinion, the best destination is to be lonely and helpless, and the streets are full of corpses.

Those who don't give birth and suffer are women!!

I don't have children, because I'm afraid that my children will suffer, and I'm afraid of suffering, so I still don't have children.

I think children are cute, but I'm sure I can't take responsibility for them, after all, having a pet is a thing that I like but annoy. It is better not to give birth without raising. It's a responsibility for yourself and a responsibility for your children.

After all, a child is a living life, and he must be responsible for him when he is born, teach him to distinguish between right and wrong, teach him knowledge, and accompany him and so on.

In addition, TA is not an accessory of parents, and it does not mean that parents can beat TA and scold TA for what they can't do and can't learn.

If you can choose your own parents, I believe that many unqualified parents will never have children in their lifetime.

I don't want to get married, you ask if I want to have children, what should I do?

First of all, you have to have a wife.

It's not that they don't want to have children, and most of the post-90s feel that a child will make a family breathless, so it is rare for the post-90s to have a second child, but in the future, the post-90s will really enter the 30s or so Uncle Aunt If the conditions are OKI believe I will have a second child.

The main thing is that the cost of raising children is too high to afford to raise them.

I felt that having a baby was a burden, but I wanted to have at least one child.

I don't want to fall in love, I don't want to get married...

I'm not afraid of old age, I'm not afraid of death, I'm not afraid of loneliness, but I'm afraid that I won't have time to be alone and spare money, and having children will just lose these two points.

The concept of raising children to prevent old age is outdated, it is better to rely on no one than on yourself, and it hurts to give birth to a baby, and it will become ugly and fat, so why reduce the quality of life?

94, children, if you have money, you can have a few more. If you don't have money, how much does it cost for a child.

95 years old don't want to get married. Don't want to have children. My mom is going to die.

As a post-90s generation who is no different from the post-80s, my fiancé and I are iron-clad Dink. We are in a stable relationship, financially independent, and our parents have no strong objection and understanding of not having children. I would like to say that it is great to be able to live my life the way I want to.

As for the so-called hidden dangers in old age, I am not worried at all, and I choose not to have children, so I naturally have a way to live without children.

Giving birth to a child is not good for your health (it is classified as a ** disease in medical textbooks), and the pregnant mother will suffer and will hurt her vitality.

I don't want to, a thousand words are combined into one sentence: I just want to spend my own money when I make money.

I don't want to, I don't understand it myself, I don't know what I can educate my children into, I'm afraid that I can't do well, resulting in children who are not qualified, disliked without upbringing, and panic all my life.

I think most of the post-90s want to have children, at present, except for me, there is not a single Dink found in the surrounding circle, but many of them have given birth to babies, especially junior high school classmates, I have had the idea of not having children since junior high school, and until now I am in college, I am more and more determined, and I am ready not to get married.

Even if there is no limit to the number, I don't want to give birth to any of them."

I asked this question at the time, and one of my friends was the first to say that he didn't want to give birth to any of them, and his tone and expression were very firm. As soon as the words fell, everyone else agreed, still not wanting to have children.

As for the reason why I don't want to have children, my friends said that after going to school for so many years, I was urged to marry as soon as I got out of the social work before I was stable, and I immediately ended my single life and joined the marriage army, followed by having children. The whole life was arranged clearly, there was no life of his own at all, and he changed directly from single to married mother, which was too sudden, and he was still a child.

Some friends said that now people are not willing to have so many children, the less the better, to pursue quality, it is difficult to cultivate a child. And the best way to maintain a high standard of quality of life is not to have children.

There are two main reasons why the post-90s generation does not want to have children:

The concept is different, and I care more about my own personal value.

In the eyes of our parents, grandparents, and grandparents, people who have been searching for a lifetime to start a family and raise children are constantly contributing to the whole family. This was the social trend at that time, and it was also the fact that the living environment did not allow it, and even the basic needs such as food and clothing had to be constantly struggled, and there was no energy to consider their own ideal pursuit.

The post-90s generation will not think so, the growth environment is different, the education they receive is also different, and the development of society gives them more space to think about the meaning of their own existence. Life is very important, but in addition to food and clothing, it has risen to the spiritual level, and in the conditions of satisfying survival, the sense of personal value is more important.

The purpose is different, and I care more about the sense of responsibility to the child.

This is not to say that the older generation lacks a sense of responsibility for their children, but that the social environment cannot allow parents to invest too much energy in their children, as long as the children can grow up safely and healthily, it is very good, and the basic education and living conditions can be met is the standard line. Now that the standard of living is rising, psychological and spiritual satisfaction has received corresponding attention, and raising children is no longer just satisfied with simply raising children, but is a technical job. If they can't afford this big responsibility, the post-90s generation will carefully consider whether they have the qualifications to be parents.

No. Even if the length of education is shortened, it is unlikely to increase the fertility rate. Nowadays, young people's concepts have changed, and they are no longer living for the sake of living.

What they are looking for is that psychological sense of belonging. Enjoy the world for two.

For contemporary women, the reasons for not wanting to have children are summarized as follows:

5.Out of shape, loss of charm, etc.

For contemporary men, the reasons for reluctance to have children can be summarized as follows:

5.In leaving a way back for themselves, not all couples can go to the end, multiple children and multiple resistances

Let's talk about the reasons why I personally don't want to have a second child

The cost of education is high

Many people say that there is no money to have a child, but now most families ensure that their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and three nutritious meals are no problem. Why do you always say that you don't have any money? This refers more to the cost of a child's education.

Nowadays, the social competition is becoming more and more fierce, and the post-90s generation who are struggling on the front line are the generation with the deepest feelings, so they will pay more attention to the education of their children, and if they find that they do not have enough resources to cultivate their children's success. Then the interest in having children will drop a lot.

Pursue a personal career

Having a child is not only a matter of money, for people with a strong sense of career, having a child is sometimes a constraint and the end of a career. If you have a child, you need to spend a lot of time with and teach your child, which may take up a lot of your time and energy. Especially for women, if they have children, they may be limited in their careers, and it may be difficult to rise in the short term.

Therefore, couples usually put it off and wait until their careers or finances are relatively stable before they consider having a child, or having an extra child.

Unwilling to compromise

Why are post-90s couples reluctant to have children? I don't want to put this reason very seriously, because young people nowadays are more in pursuit of the fit of the spiritual aspect and the three views, which leads to many people marrying and having children later. And if they don't like children very much, they will respect their inner choices more, and they will not hurry up to give birth to one under the opinion of the seven aunts and eight aunts.

This makes many older generations not understand, in the past, marriage was to have children and then work hard to raise children, I really don't understand why young people get married and don't want to have children. In this case, there will be trouble, especially all kinds of fancy spawning.

The proportion of children without the bureau is not small, because the post-90s people are too tired to live a mess, and they really want to open it, and they feel that the burden of having children is too heavy, and it is really not as easy and happy as one person or two people after marriage!

It's not that you don't want to give birth, it's that you can't afford to give birth at all, the current economic situation, the post-90s generation is facing a car loan and a housing loan, so the monthly income itself is not enough to spend, so how can you have spare money to have children. The post-90s and post-00s generations refuse to have children, I think there are several reasons, although they are very common, but they do exist in our lives and are also the reasons to be faced.

1. Economic pressure.

With the rapid development of society and the impact of the epidemic in recent years, the pressure on everyone can be said to be very great, whether it is a boss or a part-time worker.

An ordinary migrant worker, the salary is not high, and the mortgage, car loan, rent and the expenses required to have a child far exceed your income, and it is very tiring to live a responsible life every day.

Giving birth to a child does not mean that it is good to be born, there are all kinds of parenting and education after birth, milk powder, diapers, clothes, shoes, sickness and other miscellaneous expenses when I was a child, and there are various education costs and medical costs when I stay up to school, and the boy has to raise money to marry his daughter-in-law after graduation, as well as the elderly to raise them, etc., these are all supported by money.

2. Change of ideology and values, and pursue the freedom of one's own life.

The post-90s and post-00s are not like the previous thoughts, they don't have the idea of raising children to prevent aging, and now the new concept of old-age care has changed, and raising children to prevent aging is no longer the only choice. Young people don't want to get married, they don't want to have children, and they don't have the traditional idea of inheritance. Young people feel that life is short and that it is more important to enjoy life than to pass it on to the next generation.

Nowadays, young people pursue freedom, life, comfort, and open-mindedness, and they will feel that having children will be a lot more restricted, which will affect their quality of life, and they will not have their own time.

When two young people fall in love or get married and don't have children, they will feel that the two of them are very happy, without the burden of raising children, without children occupying two people's dating, if they don't want to cook, they can take out food, if they want to play games, if they want to travel, they can go, and they are full of happiness, because they have money and leisure.

Hello, the reasons why the post-90s generation is reluctant to have children are as follows.

1. It costs money to raise children

People who have visited the mother and baby store must have a special feeling about this, a small piece of clothing can easily cost hundreds, and the child's clothes cannot be worn for a period of time. In addition to clothes, it is very expensive for children to eat, drink, and sleep, and now to raise a baby, I really don't want my parents to be full at that time.

2. Life is stressful

Now that prices are so expensive, there are already a lot of living expenses for two people on weekdays, plus the mortgage and car loan, it is not easy to raise a child. Now that the child is small, the cost is not much, and when the child grows up and goes to school, the amount of money spent is not a small amount.

3. No time and energy

Parents born in the 90s are generally office workers, and they have less time to spend with their children, which is one of them. Moreover, once the mother has a second child, ten months pregnant, and half a year of pregnancy, the job will be easily replaced by others. Today, with such a fast pace of life, if a working mother has a second child, she will really basically say goodbye to the workplace and be a full-time wife at home.

4. Don't dare to give birth

Whether to have a second child or not, for the post-90s, is more like an untouchable topic, for this group, raising one has exhausted the strength, and the second child is even more unintentional and powerless. The pressure of life, the pressure of time, and the pressure of work force me to run forward everywhere, and I don't dare to think about having a second child