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You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!
When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.
But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;
The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;
What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;
And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.
Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!
No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;
In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.
When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;
If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?
Love is not possession!
You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.
In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:
Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.
You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;
The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.
After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;
Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.
When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.
The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!
knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;
Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.
When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".
In love, one thing is said and another is done;
The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......
Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.
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Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.
Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand, let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, you will re-read the fragrance of life flowers, feel the warmth of the sun... Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude.
Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up. Learn to give up and turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars ...
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Let yourself relax. Listen more**, get used to missing it, and it will become light.
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Then don't force not to miss, in fact, the feeling of missing a person is also very beautiful, although it may be bitter, heartache, but it is a sincere feeling, sincere missing, so in the heart you can miss to a certain extent, but don't always think about this thought, if it is a heartache can not be together the kind of thought, you have to relax yourself, this kind of miss as a sweet thought, a kind of miss that makes you smile, not heartache, that is a relief for you, not too heartache... I used to be the same, and now I face this miss with a smile.
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When you're at a low point, you don't want to alarm anyone.
2.After surviving this catastrophe, even if you give it to me, I will never eat it like candy again.
3.If you find it difficult to walk right now, congratulations, you are on the uphill path of your life's journey.
4.In order to survive, it is necessary to give up the right to dream occasionally.
5., who is sad for the lost one? , all guests from other places.
6.Even an immature attempt is better than a stillborn attempt.
7.When you have time, ask yourself more about the direction of tomorrow.
8.No one will always be with you, but there will always be someone to accompany you for the rest of your life.
9.There is no hurdle that cannot be overcome, only oneself that has stepped down.
10.Ask yourself why, not why.
11.There will be times when happiness will be delayed, and the answer can only be in your own hands.
12.Even if all catastrophes could be foreseen. I'm still willing to go.
13.This world is very fair, either you are comfortably poor, or you are desperate to do it.
14.Hongchen dreams more, and asks less about right and wrong. The past follows the wind, love and hate at will.
15.What you can afford is courage, and what you can put down is courage.
16.How big the pattern is, how beautiful the stage is.
17.The detours that life should take are indispensable for one meter.
18.The value of life is determined by oneself. You will be the designer of your own happiness.
19.Where there's a will, there's a way. ,。Hard-working people, the sky does not pay. Lying on the salary to taste the gall, three thousand Yuejia can swallow Wu.
20.Always aspire and aspire to the long-term.
21.What others can do, I can do.
22.Born to be the protagonist in your own life, there is no need to be a green leaf just to foil others.
23.No matter how good other people's eaves are, it is better to have a safe nest for yourself.
24.Want to change the world. Change yourself first.
25.The past returns to the past, and the future returns to the future. I am willing to step on a thousand mountains and live up to the original intention.
27.Be gentle!
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Saying I don't miss you is false.
How could you not miss it. The road we have walked, the things we have done, the tears we have left behind, the thoughts of the old days. They may have been forgotten, but they were never eradicated.
They will always come at a moment, hit the soul, and then disperse immediately. I was left dazed, wandering around this world.
Saying I love you doesn't seem to be true.
Turn to the psalm and whisper: When I am old, will anyone still love my pious soul? That person won't be me.
When you left, there was no hesitation or stopping. You took everything I had, and I was left with a shell struggling, hoping to give birth to a new life. We're getting farther and farther away; I never want to see you again, I never want to hear from you again.
But I, when I'm lonely, I can't help but go to see you.
Maybe you're lonely too, maybe you're having a good time. Whatever. It's like eating, it's like sleeping, it's like breathing, it's like a memory that comes back to you all of a sudden. I'm just going to see you, no why, and no why.
Those unpleasant words should always be kept in your heart.
I don't want to mention you to anyone again, just like you, and maybe never think of me again. I really don't understand you, I just really worry about you. In those passing times, we have come so close, and we have thought about going to the most eternity.
I'm not afraid of your ridicule, and I don't need to be known. Those words that are too late to say can be hidden in the head for how long, they will always be forgotten by the years. Two years is not long, half a year is not short, and it has been so long since it was dispersed.
There is no more strength to appear in your world.
In the days after you left, I felt like I was living in a small dark room. Of course, I've been working hard, and before I met you, I'm also a hard worker, and I'm trying to find that self again.
I didn't tell anyone, I was afraid that someone would be worried, and I was afraid that I would not be angry. I need a while to be silent.
Our stories are like thousands of stories that are not seen, and they are gone.
It's better to remember, it's better to forget. You're not going to talk to anyone about me again, and neither do I. Aside from the fragility of this moment, we are all very stubborn people, and we can't die if we lose anything.
I remember when you were seventeen years old, the sun was just right; I remember the night I was twenty-one years old, and the moon was like water. I remember that in those green years, there was also someone who snuggled up to you.
Listen to the song, think, read, live.
In the days when I was born and did not die, I murmured: When I am old, will anyone still love my pious soul?
I loved you too.
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Familiar white, familiar black, familiar laughter and gentle ......But I can't stay any longer because I know it's not what I used to be. My past was forever in the autumn of the breakup, hidden in the lost dream ......
I'm helpless about those thoughts that shouldn't be missed. It's okay to forget, but it can't be forgotten. It's helpless to think about it, but the hail thought will make the heart burn with pain and ......
I can only restrain myself from missing less, and ...... less
Nu stared at Yuli to stop his breath and prevent the tears from escaping.
Those thoughts that shouldn't be missed will make my heart ache, make me happy, make me sad and sad.
Those thoughts that should not be missed may only become happy and happy ...... when they are forgottenBut those thoughts that shouldn't be missed are always frozen there, stubbornly projecting the ......... of the past
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