What should I do? It s tangled

Since you are a very emotional person, and you also think that you can only have that kind of thing with one person in this life, and this person must be your husband, then I hope you can carefully consider his request! Because distance is not something that ordinary people can overcome! There are too many problems involved, too many difficulties to face, both objective and subjective...

Personally, I would suggest that you give up. Maybe you will be very reluctant now, because you have not been in love for a long time; Maybe you will regret it later, or even regret your decision now, because the love you can't get is always the most beautiful! The psychology of people is like this!

However, if you can think about it objectively, you can roughly imagine what it will be like for you to continue to be together, such as: I want to see each other all day long, I want to chat, I want to play, and the fee is too expensive for a month, how can such a salary be enough? If you can develop to a certain extent, you can meet your parents, and your parents say that it is too far, when will you be able to meet when you get married?

Can you let go of your parents?。。 There are so many and so on!

Of course, there will be a good side, at least an unforgettable love. It's up to you how you choose!? Is it to choose a new one, a more convenient one, a smoother one, or "I don't care about eternity, I only care about what I once had"?

I hope you can think more objectively and be mentally prepared. In this way, even if it is good in the future, you will not have too many contradictions, regrets, regrets, more "I have tried, tried, nothing to think about, so regretful...

This is a little bit of my love experience, I hope it can be helpful to you, and I hope that people who see this question and advice can understand it from it. Learn to read other people's stories and feel your own life.

You can go over there and see if you're adapting, and most importantly if you're a good fit, (because you haven't been together for a long time) and you can make your point of view about sex, and it's best if he respects you. Let's think about it when you feel like you're perfectly fit to live together. That's good for you, don't have casual sex.

See how much you love him.

Happiness and heartache will always entangle you most inadvertently, possession and loss are often in an instant, whether you have or lose, happiness or sadness, the important thing is that as long as you grasp it, even if it hurts, you will not have regrets Sometimes it is good to hold on. But meeting people who don't understand you is a knife with a blade. It might be better to confess directly.

If you cared, you wouldn't be separated because of this. Bless you.

No one can give you a positive answer to this kind of thing. It's up to you to judge.

But in my opinion, you're not at the point where you can be together. After all, I just graduated, I haven't found a job yet, and the environment hasn't been determined yet. No one could have predicted what would happen in the future. Don't decide anything too soon.

Bear with me for a while, and wait until everything settles down before talking about anything else.

Emotional matters should have faith in you, and you must make it clear to him that the temporary separation is for the sake of future reunion. Of course it's good to be together every day. But there are many things that you can't do right now.

When you have the ability in the future, if he still loves you and you still wait for him, there will be good results.