My girlfriend said she was sorry for me and was going to be separated for a month and a half

A woman's mind is hard to guess. It may be that you are not doing well in some places, and you are doing too well in some places, and she should not tell you in person, and propose to break up for a month and a half to make you think about reforming yourself. It may also be her own reason, she feels that the two of you are a little tired of being together before, and wants to be separated for a period of time to adjust.

She kept emphasizing that she couldn't stand you, explaining that it was her own reason.

She doesn't want to be with you anymore, so make an excuse by the way.

Maybe people will play around, lie to your feelings, and then think they are very charming, very hypocritical, and they are very successful in deceiving other people's feelings, or maybe they have someone they like.

Because you went all the way to find her, and then you didn't catch anything, of course I'm sorry for you.

There may be someone out there, not necessarily.

She's in love with someone else. Huh, or are they already together?

It's clear that I don't like you, why do you still post it upside down, you want to open it, there are many mushrooms in the world, this is not suitable for you, there is always a suitable one for you, you have deleted so many times, you are also very persistent.

From your description, you can see that she likes someone else, and she should have been together before you, but maybe she broke up briefly later, and her ex-boyfriend came to her again after being with you, and maybe she hasn't forgotten her ex-boyfriend, and she likes her ex-boyfriend more than you, so she broke up with you, and she doesn't want to be with you anymore.

Brother, forget about this situation, right? You've worked hard, and if you don't regret it.

Understand the reason, and if it's the reason she doesn't want to be with you, then divide it! If it is true that she feels sorry for you, it depends on whether you can forgive her.

You start from scratch

In the end, there is almost no improvement in what she feels about you, that is, those few words of her love for you are not strong. You're all with us.

It was useless to say that her ex-boyfriend was in the past. The main problem is that you have a play, you introduced a lot, but you didn't make it clear. I don't think she loves you in this situation, and I don't know if it's possible in the future.

I don't know if you love this woman from the bottom of your heart. How she is, and whether she will feel better about you slowly, no one else can know based on your description of these scenes. For the time being, she won't love you.

It's up to you to choose.

I think I copy what you mean, I think you should insist, you can see that you don't simply like him, but love, is responsibility, her previous things do need a period of time to calm down, give him time, only if she forgets the past, can she really be with you well, during this time you have to be better for him, not ignore! That's all my advice, because I've been through these things and proven in me, and I support you!

When you said that your girlfriend said that you want to be separated for a while, I don't think you have much drama. She wants to use the time you spent apart to downplay your feelings, because she can't bear to be together all the time. Think about it, are you not good enough for her.

Or maybe it's not doing the right thing, and it's still not enough space for her.

True love, I believe she will see the happiness that has been waiting by her side, she needs a transition period, after which you can love each other without any guilt, give each other some time, believe in yourself.

Just find another girl. It's simple.

The last sentence can be omitted, and it is not necessarily that the netizens who answered the questions in this column are all scores. (Because I think the points of other columns are better to earn a little bit) so the answers to you are very sincere and want to help you.

I've heard a lot of examples like you, and you've been together for a relatively long time. It may be difficult for you to accept and understand for a moment that my judgment about you is that you are not really suitable. I think that in the past five years, I should rely on habit to maintain this relationship.

And, judging from the few lines you have, I think maybe the relationship is maintained by habit alone.

Have you ever thought about a question like this? It's that when she says to you, "We're going to be apart for a while," your "disagreement" is right away, isn't it? So, I conclude that your disagreement, without much thought, but the fact that you have been together for five years, makes you conditionally radiate, to do this.

In fact, I can help you interpret the meaning of your girlfriend's so-called separation for a period of time, you have been together for five years, and some of your habits have become facts in her eyes, just like the sun will still rise in the east tomorrow, no matter what, there is no way to change, including your "bad temper", "obstinate walking", "not understanding romance", etc., have become facts. So she could only ask to be separated for a while.

Let's give some time, give some distance to reflect on the problems of both sides, and think about whether we can continue to persevere. I think that you have been complaining about you for five years, and you are complaining about me, making noise, and you have come over like this, and there is no way to solve many accumulated problems. This time, the opportunity to separate, I hope you will not see it as a "breakup", but an opportunity to reflect and reflect.

Come to think of it, are you really fit together? ）

You can follow up.

Be sure to stick to it and stay the course.

is to marry you, and the other is to compensate you for the rest of your life.

Dead to you. With you for the rest of my life. You're so stupid, this question still needs to be asked.

It means that she wants to be with you for the rest of her life.

Either that, or something I've done to be sorry for you before. However, it is more likely that it will happen to you again.

Explain that it's time to get married.

With a personal promise, I am in a hurry to get married, haha!

If she takes the initiative to say it to you, it means that she has remorse, if you can pass the hurdle in your heart, there is no problem, if you can't pass, just do it as soon as possible, otherwise you will be restless for a lifetime, harming others and ......yourself

If he takes the initiative to say, "You love him, then bear with it, but it will be a shadow for your whole life, or you will be ruthless and separated, and it will also become your shadow."

This kind of thing makes you very annoying, or you can't be ruthless, if it's not good with you, it's fine, and if there is that kind of thing in the future, it's estimated that the heartache will die.

Breakup ......If you can bear it! What you will receive in the future will be .........Marriage is a lifelong thing! Not a few days, months!

Women want men to care for her and love her. She's impulsive, and you're responsible!

Her heart will never be in you. Saying that you don't care about her is an objective reason. A momentary impulse, hehe.

It's too fake, sometimes she can be impulsive once, there will be two, three times, she can't restrain herself, everything is her right, if a woman cheats on a man, it's ......Do I need to elaborate? You get the idea.

Do you still love her? Does she still love you, follow your heart, if you still love her, no matter how much you hate it, you will be overshadowed by love! The reality is often cruel, the most important thing is yourself, just be willing to do it!

Everyone has a different opinion, you have to understand whether you still have her in your heart! It's up to you how to do it, don't be able to help you!! Make a decision that you don't regret.

Men, you still have to be a little more open-minded.

If you want to be with someone, don't care about his past, as long as he is good in the future, who hasn't passed.

He is your girlfriend and deserves your understanding and forgiveness.

This, it depends on how you feel.

It depends. Usually your girlfriend's personality. Think about it.

There is a first time, there must be a second time, and there are too many old kings. Please be cautious.

If she is repentant. If she still loves you. Then forgive her.

Accept her because she is genuine with you.

Excuse: Even if you don't care about her, you can't do that.

If you don't do anything out of the ordinary, forgive her

I don't have you in my heart, so my feelings don't matter, and I don't even think about it. I didn't understand it a long time ago, and when I did, I felt pathetic.

Brother break up, this kind of thing can't be tolerated.

Hurry up and get rid of it, it's not worth nostalgia.

She doesn't love you, and she wouldn't do that if she did.

It's not obvious, it's clear that you're a spare tire.

You're sure, it's really like this to you, you grab him, leave evidence, him and kick him away one at a time, look at the evidence while I see him, I guess he will always think about you in the future.

She has confessed and apologized, and it depends on whether you are tolerant or not. However, it is not ruled out that he does not love you, so it is better to ask.

This shows that she doesn't love you anymore, maybe she has already secretly crossed Chen Cang with your friend.

It depends on who takes the initiative first, if she just breaks up with you because she feels sorry for you, then she doesn't really love you, if she really loves you and cherishes you, she will ask for your forgiveness and ensure that this kind of incident will not happen again.

It's not routine and shouldn't be retained.

Hehe, I can only say this, it's divided, what are you asking, there are too many Chinese women, and you're afraid that you won't be able to find someone who loves you.

She has the courage to confess to you, which shows that she cares about you and doesn't want to cheat on you, so it's best to redeem it! Don't regret it later.

She feels sorry for you and regrets it. You can still keep her. But he never said anything about it again.

Since your girlfriend confessed to you, it means that she values you very much and doesn't want to cheat on you, and I think I can redeem her.

If you don't care, don't break up.

This is the rhythm of breaking up with you

Think about it, get drunk and understand. Alcohol disordered sex.

Let him live with your friend, so that he will still be a friend in the future.