Why is it said that TV blind dates are not credible?

I think that blind date should first fall in love and have feelings before determining the relationship, two people can first contact each other, understand, and then slowly develop into a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, not a scumbag to determine the relationship between men and women, and then to fall in love.

So how should we treat blind date love?

1. Don't be too anxious.

Falling in love is a matter of two people, not your one-man show, so you can't be too anxious when you fall in love, because it's useless to be anxious, don't do something radical in order to be able to confirm the relationship with each other.

When falling in love, girls and boys think differently, boys care about the result, while girls enjoy the process, girls want to fall in love with boys stage by stage, so boys must not be too anxious when they fall in love!

2. Be careful when giving gifts to girls.

When many boys fall in love, in order to brush up their favorability, they will give some gifts to women's hands, which is correct, but you should also pay attention to the choice of gifts, according to the girl's preferences. You should also pay attention to your financial ability, if you can't afford to give expensive gifts, then it is also a good choice to choose some handmade gifts that can represent your heart.

3. Take the initiative to create opportunities.

When a man Bi Chong is in love, he must learn to seize every opportunity that can promote his relationship, but if there is no opportunity, then he must create opportunities, such as often asking each other out for dinner, movies, weekend plays, sending her home after work, etc., to create opportunities to be alone as much as possible.

4. Hide from her He went to meet the opposite sex. Love is exclusive, exclusive, exclusive, in love should be honest with each other, whether there is affection or no feelings, you should tell him, not hide to meet another person who has a good feeling.

5. Do things that go against the principles. Everyone has their own principles, and when men and women fall in love, they will also involve values and outlook on life, and they will also tell their beloved half about the principles, and they should pay attention to avoid doing things that violate the principles and hurt each other's feelings.

One is inner rejection. Many people are disgusted, rejected, and disgusted with the form of blind date from the heart, and feel that they have become a commodity to be sold at a price, and they are picked and picked at will, and they can't get over that hurdle psychologically. In addition, you may meet the opposite of what you like, and even the boys who combine the points they hate, naturally, disgust and rejection go to the top.

Second, the matching degree is too low. Many people have encountered this situation, the introducer always likes to introduce excellent boys and excellent girls, but often to no avail. It must be affirmed that the boys and girls are really good individually.

However, being good doesn't mean being a match. may like and value each other differently, there is no problem with normal communication, and being friends is like-minded, but becoming a lover can probably only be a lover who is not satisfied. Thus, the drawbacks of the introduction are revealed.

However, I would like to point out that even if you are in free love, there are cases where you find that each other is not suitable and break up peacefully, so why should you be so demanding that the blind date must be fate?

The third is that it is too transparent. Almost all married people admit that when they got married, they were more or less confused, and they didn't think about it deeply, so they went with the flow. And now unmarried people, basically have received higher education, have a certain amount of knowledge and insight, plus in the society for many years, know people and things have formed a set of their own unique opinions, can quickly judge whether this person meets their own preferences, can also be said to be not so easy to deceive and easy to handle.

Fourth, they are unwilling to wronged themselves. This is typical of older unmarried young people. Everyone has been living independently for nearly 30 years, many are still only children, and no one wants to be wronged or even compromise for someone they don't like very much.

If your parents and elders are concerned, your thoughts are still stuck in their time. Thinking about the material life is consistent, and does not take into account what the real thinking of young people is today.

And what my elders introduced, everyone doesn't know much. It may be at a different level in thought. Parents yearn for a stable life.

For young people, what their parents introduce is not necessarily the best, because they used to think about haircuts. I was watching my parents' introductions before, and I was already forcing myself to accept it. If you accept it, you are compromising with your parents, so many young people are facing blind dates with a rebellious attitude, what they need is a comfortable love, not a kind of bound love, which is equivalent to marriage, they want freedom, the blind date introduced by parents may be in the village, the better young people in the village For young people from the outside world, they may have a bad attitude towards the blind date we introduced.

Blind date is a type of dating that people do in order to find a suitable partner. In the process of blind date, people can understand each other's situation through communication and interaction with each other, and then decide whether to develop a romantic relationship. Therefore, according to the nature of blind dates, people do not need to confirm their romantic relationship immediately during the blind date process.

At the same time, while people can generally get to know each other and find someone who meets their needs and preferences, it is also necessary to consider each other's feelings and attitudes to determine whether they have a basis for further development. If both parties have a good impression of each other and are willing to continue to have in-depth relationships, then Sun Hongchun can consider further developing a romantic relationship, and if he does not feel this way, he can also choose to remain friends and continue to find someone more suitable for him.

Therefore, while blind dates can provide people with the opportunity to find their other half, it is essentially a type of dating, and people do not need to confirm the relationship immediately at the beginning, but need to develop slowly through mutual communication and understanding.

Whether it's reliable or not is personal. If two people have fate, it is easy to say that the three views are the same. Hopefully, hopefully it can help you.

It must be said that it is difficult to make a blind date introduced by parents and elders, except for the fact that most people do not live in the same city with their parents now, or the attitude of parents and elders is more casual, and they feel that those who live alone with different genders meet the standards for introducing their children; Either the parents and elders are too concerned about the situation after the introduction, and feel that they are good at everything they have introduced, ignoring individual needs and orientations;

Their choice may not be right for you, after all, marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is not easy to accommodate at will. In addition, the experience and experience of the elders are different, and the perception and understanding of life are different from the marriage and future that young people look forward to.

In addition, the people introduced by the elders are often their familiar acquaintances and friends, and they will have preconceived good feelings, while the younger generations actually have no emotional basis, so everyone's expectations are different, and the elders are also prone to overestimate the suitability of the blind date, and even sometimes it is just their wishful thinking, which can be better.

It is more likely that the parents and elders completely ignore the child's positioning and advantages and disadvantages in the blind date market, and want to find it according to their own minds with their eyes closed, without considering the child's thoughts at all, such as good economic conditions, knowing the roots, and being good at grasping these "advantages" that are partial and comprehensive, and the child is forced to get along with them, completely ignoring the reality that the two sides do not have any common language and cannot produce feelings.

The way of understanding blind date determines whether the two parties know each other or not, and the quality of the relationship depends to a certain extent on the introducer. If the introducer himself is familiar with the situation, has a clear mind and is impartial, whether the introducer is an elder or an equal, he can get along well.

After all, compared with free love, the advantage of blind date is that each other can understand in advance some of the situations that are not easy to ask, such as income, family conditions, parents' work, personal work ability and even parents and personal conduct.