What are some simple truths that should be understood in love?

Falling in love and falling in love is a life process that everyone must go through, just imagine, two people with completely different growth environments and family education backgrounds and people who want to form a family, there will be a lot of places to understand and run in in the process of knowing and falling in love, therefore, falling in love is a process of in-depth understanding, during which there will still be a lot of philosophical simplicity in love. <>

1. The worst situation in love is not that you can't get the person you want, but that you find that the other party is not the person you want after you get it, the problem is that there are too many such examples, so at the beginning of love, you should face the worst possible result with an optimistic attitude.

2. Many times, you feel that love is very hard, so you choose to give up. In fact, in the love you experienced, it is not that the girl does not love you, on the contrary, but because the girl loves you too much, you feel the pressure of love, and the premature death of love can only show that you are not brave enough.

3. Men must experience love to learn to grow, and women must experience love to know how to cherish, therefore, the most successful love is not to make you lose yourself, not to make you fall, but to let you learn to be responsible, learn to take responsibility, and become mature. If you know how to empathize, it means that you have begun to mature.

4. In the process of falling in love, girls like to torture you painfully with the so-called test, in fact, "bitter mind" is the only way to achieve the goal, in other words, who tortures you, who makes you feel pain, who should be the person you need to thank the most, because she may finally achieve your dreams.

5. It takes courage to love someone, and it takes perseverance and will to love someone, after all, loving someone is full of unpredictable variables, so you need someone to push you when you are hesitating, and when you can't see clearly, you need to take a step back and observe, only then will you see the sincerity of the other party.

If you don't remove the shyness of love, it will inevitably affect the process of love, and it will also affect the leap of love, so love should be bold and brave, even if the final outcome is not successful, at least you have worked hard and no longer regret it.

Men have bad habits in life, if you can't correct this bad habit when you are in love, if this bad habit does not affect your mood, then don't keep blaming, after all, a man is very lazy, he is not very willing to change his bad habits in life, so correcting a man is a woman's lifelong thing.

If a woman always shows depression or even sadness, then there will be fewer and fewer men who sympathize and pity her, because most men like to be with lively and cheerful girls, because only truly happy women will bring real happiness to men, because men like to be happy.

Don't hide and don't refuse easily when love comes, in the same way, don't panic when love leaves you, don't be afraid, don't avoid hiding, love or not love is a necessary lesson in life. Therefore, it is the best shortcut to face up to love, grasp love, and exchange your own sincerity for the other party's sincerity.

A man must understand that when a girlfriend takes you to meet her best friend, she is not asking you to show off how good you are, but to show off how much you love her.

Women must also understand that your boyfriend takes you to meet his buddies, not for you to prove how beautiful you are and how much he spoils you, but for the scum of the mountains to let you prove how much you admire him and appreciate him.

Your girlfriend takes you to meet his parents to prove to his parents how much you love her and how much you tease her. It's not for you to prove how good you are.

When your boyfriend takes you to meet his parents, he wants you to be gentle, kind, and virtuous, not to let you taste his mother's handiwork.

When you fall in love and take your other half out to meet someone, you must figure out the primary and secondary relationships on different occasions. Whoever is on the home field will be praised, this is etiquette, and it is also respect for the other half.

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Love is also an experience that a person has in his life, after a person reaches adulthood, he has to go through love and marriage, there are indeed many things, a lot of truths, we only know after falling in love.

First, learn'Respect and inclusion. People need to be tolerant when they get along with each other, and the same is true for falling in love. The love of two people should be based on mutual respect and mutual tolerance, so that the love is equal and lasts for a long time.

Because everyone has their own advantages and shortcomings, we must be good at tolerating the shortcomings of others, and at the same time, we must also find more of our own shortcomings and shortcomings, the advantages of the other party, learn from others' strengths, and make up for our own shortcomings, so that you will make yourself more and more perfect, and the relationship between two people will get better and better.

Second, don't be too capricious. During the relationship between two people, occasionally coquettish with each other, joking can shorten the distance between two people and enhance the relationship between two people. But it should also be done in moderation, especially as a girl, you can't be too willful, you can't lose your temper with the man at every turn, and don't save face for the man.

If you blindly take into account the feelings of others, you can only hurt the feelings of two people, which is not good for yourself.

Third, it is necessary to have a sense of responsibility. After falling in love, especially after two people get married, there is a kind of responsibility for each other. When two people form a family, it means that the burden on one's shoulders is heavier.

It takes two people to do it together. Therefore, after falling in love, you should work harder, study, and earn money, so that you are more capable of taking on the responsibilities of a family.

Fourth, timely communication and exchange. No matter what two people do, even if they disagree, they should sit down calmly and communicate, rather than noisy, because communication is the best way to solve problems, and communication can make the relationship between two people better.

Only in the process of falling in love, it takes two people's joint talk and hard work to get a good envy of a relationship, and finally two people hold hands and walk towards the palace of marriage. I wish everyone can harvest their own beautiful love.

1 Falling in love with the idea of getting rid of loneliness will only make you more lonely. If you fall in love with the mentality of being saved, you will only fall into another pit. 2 As you are, so are those you meet.

Just as older children don't play with younger children, an insecure attachment type usually doesn't meet a secure attachment lover. 3 There are no soul mates, some are just destined people who run in with each other and grow together.

4 The most important thing in love is to be honest, a lie is a gap, and it will continue to open countless gaps. 5 In your life, there are very few people who truly love you, and if you meet them, you must hold on tightly and not let go. 6 The best routine is that there is no routine, and you may not be able to exchange sincerity for sincerity, but after wearing a mask, even if you are loved, you will not feel love.

7 While other people's opinions are valid, respect your own feelings and always come first. 8 The person who has lost his love will doubt and suffer, but he does not have to force himself to get better quickly, and he does not have to stop believing in love because of this. Life is actually very short, and it is too wasteful to carry the pain of the past to the next person.

9 Sometimes you will miss the good things of the past and the people of the past, but you must understand that it is all in the past, and once you have come to separate, you must have felt at some point that you would have lived well without each other. Then be nostalgic and walk where you want to go.

10 Above all, everyone deserves to be loved, and if you believe in yourself, you will be worthy too. 11.Love is beautiful.

I want to experience this when you are in love, because love satisfies your inner emotional needs and makes your inner emotions more beautiful. 12.Learn to care and care for people.

When people are not in love, one lives very "alone", because you only need to take care of yourself and don't need to think more. Falling in love will allow you to slowly learn to understand the feelings of others, slowly learn to take care of others, and know the warmth and coldness of others.

13.Get rid of some of your bad habits. This is some of my own experience, when I am in love, I always want to show my own advantages, but people can't all be advantages, and many shortcomings will be slowly diluted and corrected by themselves.

Personally, I understand that even if two people are in love together, two people are still independent individuals, both need their own independent space, both have personal privacy and bottom line, we must learn to understand each other, not too self-centered, thinking that the other party should act according to our ideas when they are in love. We must learn to accommodate and understand each other in order to be long-lasting.

No matter how sweet two people get along, don't lose your life because of each other. Be sure to maintain a certain sense of mystery.

First, many times what is said is not worth believing. Second, to see how a person is, not only what the person says, but also what she does; Third, some things are tolerable and some things are not.

You have to stay rational in love, and some girls who fall in love are really "stupid".

In love, whether the other party loves you or not, the details can be seen.

Be self-confident and never be his follower or "licking the dog".

First of all, if you are still students, then, there are still too many uncertainties about your future, after all, graduation season is breakup season, not just talking, it is real. If you are studying, before the relationship is confirmed, you should have a responsible attitude towards each other and talk about your plans for the future.

Secondly, in the process of falling in love, when facing the pursuit of a man who likes you, don't rush to agree, but first ask him if he can tolerate himself if they are together smoothly in the future. For women, whether they are looking for a future partner or a boyfriend, they must confirm whether he can tolerate themselves before falling in love, so that they will avoid some unnecessary conflicts when they are together in the future, and you will feel happy.

If you have already participated in the work, then, the purpose of your relationship is more clear, you must be rushing to get married, at this time, you not only pay attention to each other's advantages, but also pay attention to each other's shortcomings, dream to ask yourself, whether you can accept each other's shortcomings, and be able to tolerate for a lifetime, after all, the rest of your life is long, marriage is not child's play, and you are not willing to reshuffle the cards, that is to pay a price.

What things to understand before you fall in love.

First question: How much is the gap between you?

If the gap is too big, be cautious. For example, if your conditions are much better than the other party, you should seriously think about whether it is worth it. For another example, your conditions are much worse than the other party, Qinghong, you should think about whether the other party will take a fancy to you?

These are all very realistic and objective problems, and we have to think about them, and we can't ignore them. But some people just tend to ignore this. They believe that loving someone should not take these things into account.

The second question: How do you respond if you encounter obstacles?

When it comes to falling in love, there will inevitably be a series of obstacles. And how to deal with it, we need to think about it in advance. There are a lot of people who haven't thought about it.

And when that happens, they're going to be out of order. In this way, one's love will be hindered. And it can also take a toll on your self-confidence.

Self-confidence has taken a hit, and it is natural that there will be a lot of trouble for our subsequent relationship.

It's not important to meet, it's important to be reliable; Rich and poor are not important, but each other is the most important.

In cars, it doesn't matter how fast or slow, but safety.

It doesn't matter if you see each other every day, it's important to have you in your heart.

It doesn't matter if you have money or not, it's important to be willing to spend it for you!

People are afraid of being sad, and trees are afraid of hurting their roots. There's a feeling called Understood! I especially agree with this statement!

Three poor and three rich have passed to old age, who knows the rise and fall in ten years!

What is true and what is false, I cherish those who like me, and I abandon those who dislike me.

Maybe you're good, but I don't think I can look up to you; Maybe you're nothing, but I won't dislike you!

As a friend: If you pay for me, I will never let you down. You are more real, you fake me and turn around!

It's not a fault that people are stupid, as long as they are not false; Human essence is not a problem, as long as it is not bad;

It's okay to be good at using people, just don't unload the mill and kill the donkey;

It is not a problem for people to be poor and rich, just know how to pay;

It doesn't matter what others think of me, as long as I have a clear conscience!

Whoever doesn't talk about people behind his back is said behind his back, and there is no one who is not judged, and there is nothing that is not discussed.

If one day you find that I have a distance from you and have less contact, it must be that you are too good and I am too stupid to play together!

Short-term relationships look at face, long-term relationships look at temper, lifelong interactions look at character, and death does not look at sincerity.