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Anonymous users2024-02-12Actually, it's not difficult to know whether he has true love or a desire to control you.
First of all, you can first pay attention to whether you have the right to speak with him in love. If every quarrel must be you bow your head first, and every decision is made by him, then your right to speak in love is not equal, and he has a desire to control you.
Secondly, you can try not to meet his requirements and not follow his arrangements. If, after you disobey him, he withdraws his favor for you, or even threatens you to compromise with "love", it proves that his kindness to you is conditional. Once you disobey, love is no longer there.
For a person who is very controlling, only if you live according to his word will he consider it love. And every time you conflict with him, it is a betrayal, it is difficult for him to forgive your disobedience, and it will even inspire him to take some excesses to maintain his dominance in love.
And such a relationship is mostly caused by the unequal pattern of the two. You have a demand for him, or you are financially weaker than him and need him to buy for you, or you have more emotional needs than he needs and need to ask for the feeling of being loved in him. This gives him the right to dominate love, and if he is a controlling person himself, he will invade your life and change you with impunity.
I always believe that love needs two people to manage, not one person domineering to make rules, and the other person to abide by them unconditionally. This kind of love is too unequal, and it also lacks respect for each other.
So, see if he loves you or just wants to control you. If he truly loves you, he will be willing to give in to you. If he just wants to control you, then you should leave as soon as possible. Don't get lost in his control, don't lose yourself because of the so-called "love".
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Anonymous users2024-02-112.If you care about your girlfriend, you will be so troubled that you can't sleep.
3.Want to know about your ex-boyfriend.
4.Gifts are often given.
5.I don't want to be like that, but sometimes I get irrational.
6.Hairstyles and dresses should be interfered with one by one.
7.I often ask my girlfriend about the day's itinerary.
8.Do you like me? 」
9.There is a side that is not confident in himself.
10.It is often said that show me my phone
When the diagnosis is out, how many items does your boyfriend have? If there are more than 5 characteristics, it means that your boyfriend has a tendency to be controlling, and if you don't want the situation to get worse, you should communicate with the other person well. However, if you don't have a boyfriend, although you will be very free, it may become another kind of "Do you like me?"
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