What are the stages of marriage? There are several stages in marriage

1. Newlyweds.

The newlywed stage is the stage of just getting married, just getting married, two people want to be together, they must be unfamiliar with each other, even if two people talk about love no matter how good, they are married, and the days are together, it is not the same. Because there are too many firewood, rice, oil, and salt in the day, two people need to do their best together.

2. Run-in period.

No two people in the world are exactly the same, even if they look the same and have the same sound, their temperament is not the same. Therefore, the husband and wife are gradually running in, the two people are like gears, just put together, because they are all new gears, they must turn slowly, the time is long, the run-in is good, and when it turns up, it will be able to.

3. Habituation stage.

The habit period is that two people have to get used to each other's existence, you know, in the future, it can only be the two of you to face difficulties, and if you can't encounter a little problem, you go to your parents, so what's the point of you being together? You have to learn, get used to each other's existence, and find each other in time if you have problems.

4. Career stage.

Most people may have a vague concept of the work period, what is the career period, the career period means that both have jobs, and they have to do their best for the family, and some people may suffer outside, so they spread their temper to the family, and the family thinks that I am not wrong, why should I lose my temper, it will lead to divorce, and I must learn to get used to my temper.

5. The seven-year itch stage.

The seven-year itch is seven years, and seven years can be said to have experienced too much, and there are too many jobs encountered, so it is not easy for two people to be together.

Assuming that two people survive these five stages, then what awaits you is a good day. However, many people did not survive.

One of the boredom periods:

1-2 years after marriage.

Many people think that 1 or 2 years after marriage should be the sweetest period for two people, there is no trouble of having children, there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law living together, and the world of the two is both romantic and free.

Having said that, many times the first two years after marriage are also a hurdle that many couples can't overcome, the reason is very simple, this type of couple has not lived together before the marriage, and every time they date and meet, they pay great attention to their image, and they also know how to hide their shortcomings in front of each other.

But living together after marriage is a completely different picture, the wife can't get used to seeing her husband sloppy, the husband complains that his wife spends money lavishly, when each other's pre-marital image is completely collapsed after marriage, there will be more and more contradictions between the two, and they will even dislike each other, thinking that this marriage is too hasty.

Boredom period 2: The first 2 years of the child's life.

When the young couple has successfully passed the first 1 or 2 years of marriage, the next challenge is to live after having children. Children are the crystallization of the love of the husband and wife, but it is also the standard for testing the relationship between husband and wife, do not think that raising a child is just feeding and changing diapers, the hard work here also includes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the confinement of the relationship, the husband is busy with work and rarely takes care of the family, the two generations of parenting concepts ...... differentiation

In addition, many couples will become very busy after having children, so that there will be a lot less communication with each other, wives complain that their husbands are not considerate of themselves, husbands feel that their wives are hypocritical, and the dilution of feelings and various life conflicts make it difficult for many young couples to survive the first two years after the birth of their children.

Boredom Period 3: Seven years of itching.

The 7-year itch here does not refer to the exact 7th year after marriage, but a period of boredom that the couple fell into after a few years of marriage. During this period, many couples treat their other half like strangers, they no longer rely on each other, appreciate each other, and will not please each other, on the contrary, complaining, blaming, and annoying have become the norm of life. At this stage, the relationship between two people is completely maintained by their children, and this state of living together is also the status quo of many middle-aged couples.

1 year paper marriage; 2 years of cotton marriage; 3 years of skin marriage; 4 years of flower and fruit marriage; 5 years of wood marriage; 6 years of sugar sock marriage; 7 years of hand marriage; 8 years of bronze marriage; 9 years of pottery marriage; 10 years of tin marriage; 11 years of steel marriage; 12 years of silk marriage; 13 years of lace marriage; 14 years of ivory marriage; 15 years of crystal marriage; 20 years of porcelain marriage; 25 years of silver marriage; 30 years of pearl marriage; 35 years of coral marriage; 40 years of ruby marriage; 45 years of sapphire marriage; 50 years of golden wedding; 55 years of emerald marriage; 60 years of gold and steel diamond marriage; 70 years of platinum wedding; 80 years of diamond marriage.

French name. 1 year cotton marriage; 2 years of skin marriage; 3 years of wheat marriage; 4 years of wax marriage; 5 years of wood marriage;

6 years of bronze wedding; 7 years of wool marriage; 8 years of poppy marriage; 9 years of Tao marriage; 10 years of tin marriage;

11 years of coral marriage; 12 years of silk marriage; 13 years of lily of the valley marriage; 14 years of lead Ruzi marriage; 15 years of crystal marriage;

16 years of sapphire marriage; 17 years of rose marriage; 18 years of turquoise marriage; 19 years of stamp marriage; 20 years of porcelain marriage;

21 years of milky white stone marriage; 22 years of bronze marriage; 23 years of green jade marriage; 24 years of Sardinian marriage; 25 years of silver marriage;

26 years of jade marriage; 27 years of mahogany wedding; 28 years of nickel marriage; 29 years of velvet marriage; 30 years of pearl marriage;

31 years of sheepskin marriage; 32 years of copper wedding; 33 years of porphyry marriage; 34 years of amber marriage; 36 years of Meslin marriage;

37 years of paper marriage; 38 years of mercury marriage; 39 years of crepe marriage; 40 years of emerald wedding; 41 years of iron marriage; 42 years of pearl marriage;

43 years of flannel marriage; 44 years of Huang Yu's marriage; 45 years of vermilion marriage; 46 years of lavender marriage; 47 years of Cashmee marriage; 48 years of amethyst marriage;

49 cedar marriage; 50 years of golden wedding; 60 years of diamond marriage; 70 years of platinum wedding; In 75 years, Bai Shizhan broke off his marriage; 80 years of oak marriage.