I have low self esteem and am confused. Very confused and inferior

Learn what you are interested in No matter what it is, persevere in it, have a specialization in the art industry, everything is better than having one, the best is also a kind of sustenance for you, you can put your troubled heart on it, whether it is **, language, a skill, these can At the same time, many things are the same, which will also help your learning, as long as you are willing to learn, willing to do, there is nothing bad to do, to believe that people's potential is unlimited.

There is more than one path to success! It's hard to find a job when you go to school, and I'm facing a job right now.

Poor learning does not mean poor ability, and there are many high-scoring and low-ability people in society.

When I was in school, I studied very well, but when I went to society, I was very average, but some people who entered the society very early sharpened and saw more, and they knew how to do things, but they did well. You can try to get into the community and do something in sales. Increase social experience and you will become a very good person, as long as you have perseverance.

Have faith.

Calm down and think about what you want. Then follow your heart, don't think too much at the same time, and go through them one by one.

Now, you can try to calm down and read a book first, it doesn't mean that studying reading can develop a habit of calming your mind.

But I'm not in favor of you going to mix first socially.

If you haven't learned the basics, how can you really gain a foothold in society?

Hmmm, I hope I can help you

I sympathize with your situation, and I feel that your worries are not unnecessary. But your low self-esteem really shouldn't exist!

First of all, let me analyze the work for you. Your financial difficulties are the result of your previous lack of hard work, but you can't live in the shadows of the past anyway, can you? The only thing you can do today is to work harder than others, and whether your efforts will be rewarded or not depends on your methods and actual situation.

One thing is that no matter how hard you are, you must never give up, because such tragedies cannot always happen.

Talk about your love again. Today's society is materialistic, and love is also affected by many factors. As for whether you should break up or not, it's not up to you to decide, it's whether your girlfriend is willing to bear the pressure of life with you, whether her family supports your marriage, and whether you will always be happy together in the future...

When everything is answered in the affirmative, you can go to the end! When you don't even have the courage to face this feeling, how can you guarantee that you can protect the girl you love? So what you can do, the only way you can solve these contradictions is to try to change, even if you have time to retain this relationship in the future, please don't miss the next beautiful encounter in your life!

Turn it all into motivation!

Brave! That way you can withstand the pressure of life! Give yourself some time and space, and think about another 10, 20 years, will you still be like this?

Some people are destined to lose some things, so don't be too forceful! That will make you tired, but I still sincerely wish you to have true love!

I think what he said is quite right: "Listen to the situation you said, the gap between you is indeed quite large, if the feelings are not deep, it is recommended to divide it, after all, the door is not right, there will be more and more contradictions in the future, and it is not good for you and her." In addition, before the age of 40, it is difficult for a man to say whether he has a good future, and the top priority is to strive to improve his own value, look for opportunities to strive for the top, and wait for his own conditions to improve, not afraid of no good marriage! ”

Inferiority!!! I'll tell you explicitly! You don't have the qualifications to feel inferior!

You can only be confident! What's wrong with rich! Isn't it amazing!

The important thing is that you have the heart to not admit defeat! Have you ever seen the Tomb of the Gods? Men have to stand up to the sky like that!

Don't be inferior and conceited for a day! Like what!

What do you do now?

1.Psychological decompression.

The reason why some people have low self-esteem is very simple and accidental, not that the situation is very bad, but the shadow of the moment often cannot be dissipated for a long time, so that he cannot face the new work and life with a normal heart. In this case, it is necessary to learn how to adjust the psychological pressure to get rid of the inferiority complex, and to help change the environment, adjust the form and method, etc., may produce unexpected results.

2.Environmental infections.

It is necessary to create a good external environment, an atmosphere full of friendship. When you need it, you can have relatives and friends to communicate with you emotionally and help you in life. At the same time, there are people who can care about their own growth and progress, encourage themselves to exert their enthusiasm, and constantly overcome their inferiority complex.

3.Correct understanding.

Learn to look at problems from multiple perspectives, look at and evaluate yourself comprehensively and dialectically, so as to discover your strengths and build self-confidence. It is necessary to face failures and setbacks with a rational attitude, to be ambitious, and not to give up the pursuit because of setbacks. Be good at tapping your own potential, using your own characteristics, boldly trying, and have the courage to fight.

4.Encourage yourself.

Be good at using praise and affirmation to build your self-confidence. In terms of positive performance, correct practices, and subtle progress in work, study, and thinking, we should adopt a certain way to give timely and appropriate evaluation and encouragement, and set new demands on ourselves, so that we can be encouraged and enhance our self-confidence. When criticizing their shortcomings or mistakes, they should also appropriately affirm their positive factors and ensure that there is encouragement in the criticism.

5.Goal motivation.

A person's frustration in one area often prompts him to find ways to shine in other areas in order to maintain his psychological balance and protect his self-esteem. We need to discover our strengths, identify the breakthroughs that are easy to succeed, help formulate a realistic goal and plan, and give positive psychological cues to encourage ourselves to give full play to the advantages of self-control, so that they can achieve some kind of success and regain self-confidence.

The ones downstairs who have copied all the laws and laws are rotten to death.

In fact, everyone doesn't have a time when they are confused and decadent, not to mention the ****, not to mention us ordinary people, so don't mind.

Inferiority complex can be there, confusion and decadence can also be there, but you can't be lazy, the question is the answer, you ask it to prove that you have the idea of wanting to change, since you want to change, then be diligent, it's best to read books, immerse yourself in the world of the book, you fantasize about your world, in your world you are the king, why be inferior?

What makes you feel inferior? Say what you think is inferior, look at it again, maybe you won't.

Find out the shining points in you, dig and cultivate, and you will not be so confused and decadent.

In the middle of the day, the moon is full, and if the moon is full, it is a loss, and it is not happy with things, and it is not sad for oneself.

Decadence is not a hunchback, decadence is only a moment, and a hunchback is a lifetime. Life is very unfair, but we can only grow in such an environment, growth is a test of ourselves, just take the present as a test, I used to have low self-esteem, but now it is better. Even if it is nothing now, it does not ensure that the future ......Just believe that there is a future!

Find something interesting to do, listen to **, go out for a walk and relax.

How beautiful the world is, decadence is a fart, why make yourself unhappy and watch others live happily. Life, fuck, should be free to let yourself be happy and let yourself live. Be yourself, go on bravely, and live well.

Don't feel inferior, don't be confused. , life is very short, and it passes in a flash.

Let's go out for a trip, relax, don't think about anything, relax and forget about bad things.

Find what you want to do, then make a plan, and do your best to achieve the desired goal, and there will be rewards. You need to do a self-affirmation, regain your self-confidence, find what to do, then you won't be confused, you won't feel decadent.

So what help do you want to seek, and your confusion comes from.