What are the obvious characteristics of selfish people in their bones, don t be deeply acquainted?

What does it mean to be "self-centered"? I believe everyone should be clearer. That's everything, he only pays attention to his own thoughts, and he doesn't think about other people's eyes.

Deep down he was that selfish. In essence, he is self-centered, he advocates absolute arbitrariness, unrestrainedness, and no ethical and moral constraints, and everything is determined according to the idea of "me". Xiao Zhao is 20 years old this year, because he grew up in a wealthy family atmosphere, his parents spoil too much every day, and they are all in middle school.

The most typical clothes come to reach out, and food comes to open the mouth. Not to mention all aspects of daily life, every time they put forward a request, parents will do their best to achieve it, never saying a word. Gradually, Xiao Zhao's personality became more and more arrogant, and he always felt that someone was supporting him.

In the university dormitory, he lived on the bunk, and every time he came up, he was dangling on it, and his classmates on the upper bunk reminded him a few times, but he didn't care about it at all.

After that, he didn't even take off his shoes, and when he came up, he hung his feet on the side of the bed, and the classmates on the top bunk were eating, and he didn't have any restraint. In the end, the classmate was so angry that he moved away. This time he was even more arrogant, there was no one on the upper bunk, he piled up dirty clothes, pants and cotton socks there every day, and other classmates told him to wash him, otherwise it would jeopardize the cleanliness of the dormitory, and he scolded this classmate unexpectedly.

Time and time again, Xiao Zhao's behavior is always self-centered, never taking into account the feelings of the people nearby. If you have such an extremely selfish person around, you must try to avoid it, otherwise he can really cause trouble in your heart.

There is a kind of person in life who seems to have a good relationship with you on the surface, and you think that the other party is a very good person, and then you really give to it. However, when it comes to rights and interests, he will turn his head and deny people. Profit is to win people, we care more about rights and interests, money, emotions have long been irrelevant.

In the TV series "Menghualu", Zhao Paner used to be a lowly person, but now she has been redeemed as a good citizen, she doesn't like to hurt an intellectual Ouyang Xu, and is willing to do laundry and cook for him. Ouyang Xu promised in the past that if he was admitted to fame and fortune one day, he would definitely marry her smoothly in a sedan chair.

Sure enough, Ouyang Xu was admitted to the list, but Zhao Paner did not come to Ouyang Xu's eight-lift sedan chair, but came with a burst of cynicism from his old slave, and told her that Ouyang Xu had already married the daughter of a tall man who was an official in the court. Zhao Paner realized at this time that Ouyang Xu, who had originally promised him to marry him, had long since stopped loving himself, and he fell in love with the Gao family, which was beneficial to her development and future.

Profit-seeking is to win people, and they will also give up their emotions for the sake of it, even if they really love each other in their hearts, they are willing to leave others behind for the sake of their own interests.

Think only about your own feelings, and don't take into account the opinions of others. He has that kind of selfish thinking in his bones. When it comes to matters involving interests, he will turn his face and deny people.

Those who are very selfish tend to be self-centered in their lives, always build up false opinions, and sometimes they are very active and do not take into account the feelings of others.

Never take care of other people's feelings, only think about themselves, and are not willing to spend money on others, such people are very selfish.

I hope that everyone revolves around him, and that he can say whatever he says, and that no one can go against his wishes.

The main manifestation of self-centeredness.

It is not difficult for us to find that there are some people who have an overly strong sense of self-centeredness, who only want to satisfy their own desires in everything, ask everyone to be their own, but ignore the needs of others, are unwilling to make any sacrifices for others, do not care about the pain and itch of others, and are manifested as selfishness and self-interest. Ask all people to be centered on him, and want the earth to revolve around his will and obey him. As long as they take care of the collective and do not pay attention to collective discipline, otherwise they will feel aggrieved and unbearable.

However, they are unwilling to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of person has a strong desire for others to respect him, but he does not know that he has to respect others as well. In short, these people's minds are full of self-lead, but there is no one else, and they believe that people are not for themselves, and the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

The problem lies in the fact that Hu Min is too self-conscious, and has gone to the extreme of self-centeredness, or the idea of individualism is serious.

For their own benefit. Do not hesitate to harm the interests of others. Think about everything for yourself.

They all value themselves more than anything else. And then all his stuff was bent and unwilling. Let people share.

All his own things. Do it all yourself. He had to meet his own needs before he could do what he was going to do.

So I think this kind of person is a selfish person. This kind of selfishness is not considering the feelings of others. Just do what Hussen wants to do.

That's selfishness.

2.Notes that you put together by yourself, or a summary of your own work. Or is it just this.

I think it's not selfish not to share this experience with others. It's to protect yourself, or rather, to protect yourself. What I have summed up through my own efforts.

Don't show it to others. This is quite normal. Because after all.

There are also some people, um, very. Ego or selfishness, he will steal the fruits of your labor and steal it for himself, which is selfish. And what you summarize by yourself.

I don't think he's selfish.

3.In real life. Or in the workplace.

We often see that there is a kind of person. She herself may not be so smart. The IQ is not very high.

But he has a high emotional intelligence. He can steal the fruits of other people's labor. Then transform into your own.

There are still a lot of people like this. So we have summarized some of our own experiences in our work or in life. It's better to encourage yourself.

If it is seen by people with ulterior motives. Or plagiarism, then the fruits of your labor will not be clear. There are many examples of this when we watch TV dramas.

Therefore, it is normal not to show others the experience you have summed up, or the concept of your own creation, and not to show it to others. Legitimate self-preservation.

1. Self-centeredness. A selfish person has only himself in his heart, he never thinks about others, even if he sometimes thinks about others verbally (this is similar to hypocritical people), but when it comes to personal interests, he will never make the slightest concession.

2. Greed. Under the influence of extreme individualism, selfish people's selfish desires will expand unlimitedly, and the most prominent manifestation is greed, greedy for money, fame and fortune, and even to the point of calculating and calculating.

3. Coldness. Selfish people have no feelings at all, and even if they have a fake relationship with you, they have a more greedy purpose. Therefore, such people do not have the enthusiasm for life, their hearts have been smelted into steel by matter, and in their hearts there is no affection between people but interests, so they are accustomed to replacing the pure and kind feelings between people with cold interest relations.

4. Stingy. Due to their extreme greed for profit, they have developed their own unique miserly personality traits. Not only in terms of money, but also in feelings, you can mistakenly think that they are very frugal or not very gregarious, but these are all appearances, their essence is selfish, because they never spend a penny more for others, including themselves, and at the same time they will not give more feelings, unless they think that giving feelings will obtain greater benefits, and only then will they show their feelings very reluctantly, but the way they express their feelings is so contrived and pale.

5. Sensitive. A selfish person is overly concerned about his own interests, so that he will be very sensitive to his reactions to the outside world, especially those things that involve or do not involve himself, because he is afraid of suffering, afraid that others will take advantage of what he should or should not get, his mentality is extremely fragile, and in the long run, selfish people have more or less neurotic characteristics (which is somewhat similar to anxious people).

Summary. A selfish man, no matter who he is for, has no feelings to speak of; It is the same with my relatives, lovers, and friends; As long as something happens, as long as one's own interests are damaged a little, then in a man's heart, he will not care about the feelings of others, nor will he care about what others think; If you say that you will turn your face, you will not show mercy at all; He will never agree to anything that is not beneficial to him with any man; As long as it is good for him, he will bear it; Otherwise, he would be able to deny his relatives.

A selfish male person, no matter who he is for, has no feelings at all; It is the same with my relatives, lovers, and friends; As long as there is a little thing, only the interests of oneself are damaged a little, then in the heart of a man, he will ignore his feelings and do not care about the thoughts of others; If you say that you will turn your face, you will not show mercy at all; He will never agree to anything that is not beneficial to him with any man; As long as it is beneficial to the people of Ben Chiyuan, he will bear it; Otherwise, he would be able to deny his relatives.

And don't bow to women, take money as very important, don't want to suffer, and can do anything for the sake of gains and losses.