Extremely selfish men are often not calculating, but what characteristics do they have?

1. Selfishness is a common psychological phenomenon, but due to environmental factors, personal emotional factors and our own sense of morality, we often hide our selfish attributes, or choose to sacrifice our selfless behavior. In real life, we don't like to associate with selfish people because this kind of person always puts profit first. As soon as someone else harms his interests, he will choose to betray the relationship, regardless of the consequences.

"The ability to take responsibility is the measure of a person," Locke said. "If a man doesn't know what responsibility is, or even always evades it, complaining endlessly, such a man is often very selfish.

This selfishness is mainly manifested in not taking the initiative in a relationship. Giving, but choosing to get.

2. This characteristic will be manifested in various aspects, it may be in life, or in his work, for a simple example, he will always complain to you that his friends around him are not good. Well, this colleague is not good, and even complains that his fate is not the same. He never admits his mistakes and failures at work, so when his work is not going well, he always blames all his colleagues and superiors for all his mistakes, he will curse and even scold them, but never think about his own problems.

Such extremely selfish men, they become so selfish that even their parents blame them, they will never care about their parents. They are self-centered at all times and never take a single responsibility.

Only those who have a sense of responsibility will have a sense of responsibility, and those who have a sense of responsibility are the people who are worthy of our association. The term "empathy" is also used in psychology, which refers to the ability of individuals to feel empathy and think from the perspective of the other party, so as to achieve emotional and psychological commonality. A person with empathy, he must be warm and kind.

On the contrary, a person who does not even have compassion is indeed selfish enough, even very cold-blooded. Such people tend to have their own very paranoid thoughts, so they always say things like: "What is there to sympathize with?".

He deserves it. "Why should I understand your difficulties?"Many women find that they always feel lonely or even helpless when they are in a relationship with such a man.

Once they fall into an inferiority complex, because this kind of man will adopt a cold and violent way towards her.

3. If when dealing with a man, he gradually exposes the above three characteristics, then it means that he is a very selfish person. There is no way we can change his selfish nature, but we can choose to stay away from him. This kind of person is not suitable to be friends, let alone close friends.

Wang Xiaobo once wrote in the book: "I love you, I love you when I see you, and I love you to the point of forgetting myself." "A good relationship must require both parties to know how to give to each other.

This is the realm of true love. On the contrary, if one party gives and the other party is extremely selfish, such a relationship is bound to be incomplete.

Very controlling. Very conceited. I feel like I'm very good. Disrespect for women. Very flowery. It's hard to communicate. It's a beautiful idea. Unreasonable. Very machismo.

It should be that when dating, I like the AA system or the living expenses of two people, and I care very much, and I don't usually have any social activities.

Even if you apologize, he is able to turn over old accounts, be intolerant of others, feel great when he does a little thing for others, or ask others to think about problems from his point of view, and he never thinks about problems for others.

1. Pride and complacency.

Once a person is self-centered and considers others in terms of self-worth, he will become more and more proud and complacent, which is one of the more obvious advantages of a man who is "extremely selfish". They often feel that they are unique, that they cannot be surpassed, and that they cannot be blamed by others.

This kind of man has always been accustomed to choosing an expensive posture when communicating with others, and is willing to destroy everyone. They rarely pay attention to other people's experiences, and often attack each other with words and personal actions, completely ignoring her situation. When others start arguing, in other words, reprimanding them, he always justifies himself for various reasons, and even feels that he is not wrong, and that it is all others who are not wrong.

In order to make others feel that he is wrong, he will subconsciously snub the other party, increase psychological pressure, and finally force others to admit their mistakes.

2. Obvious desire for control.

A man who is "extremely selfish" is very controlling, and he wants everyone to do what he wants. Oscar Wilde read in his book: "It is not selfish to live the daily life you want to live, but to let others live according to their own ideas."

When I met such a man, he had already been married for 2 years, and he would control his wife in everything.

At one party, his wife had two or three words with other friends of the opposite sex, and when he came home, he gradually beat his wife so violently that she was not allowed to go out. He regards all the connections as organic chemistry, as a kind of possession of himself, but he never cherishes it properly. These obvious desires for exclusivity made him more and more excited, and even more destructive, that is, "what I can't get, others don't want to get."

>3. There is no sense of morality.

People should have a sense of morality in their dealings, and often some people can be called extremely selfish because they are acting in a way that is completely contrary to morality. An extremely selfish man, he is very sympathetic and sympathetic, and in his opinion everyone treats him badly. This kind of person does not seem to have any friends, because as long as he feels that the other party touches his own rights, he will belong to the "evil person", so it causes an antagonistic psychological state.

In the same way, he not only looks down on others, but also looks down on this society, and no one will affect him, so he always gives up on himself, but never thinks about his own problems. This kind of man can pretend to be high and save face to hurt others for all his own rights and interests, and they care about themselves almost regardless of right or wrong.

Special machismo, very irresponsible for everything, lack of responsibility, often like to blame others, in order to obtain their own interests, do not hesitate to deceive others, temper is particularly irritable, particularly emotional, only for their own sake.

There will be a particularly strong desire to control, and they will shirk responsibility, lack of responsibility, lack of empathy, and be particularly selfish and cold-blooded.

Very unmotivated, only know how to think about yourself, not about others, and very stingy, especially careful.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the key to mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is that there is always an inevitable contradiction in family life. But the core of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem usually lies in the man's mentality of dealing with things, some men can only blame their wives blindly towards their own parents when facing the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, this kind of man is usually selfish, because she only sees the hardships of her parents, but does not see the pain of her wife.

A woman gave up Zheng Yi for a man and belonged to her own home, rushed to a strange environment, this is a very great thing, if this man does not know how to cherish at this moment, then it proves that his heart is selfish, because she does not know how to stand in the perspective of others to think independently, in the face of these men, women must also know how to decide, only if you marry the right man, life can get the happiness you want.

In real life, dozens of 80% of family conflicts are all about money, so chemical life is especially important for a family, and the man who really loves you will also give you abundant chemicals, even if he is not so rich, he can create a good life for you. If you live at home, he will only keep chasing you, and even shouting at you to crack the gods.

That also proves that this man is all selfish from the beginning, and the longer this kind of man lives, the lower the satisfaction, it depends on whether a man really loves you, and you also need to observe the level of his spending money for you, a man who is willing to pay, is usually worthy of your dependence. In the world of feelings, couples who have conflicts due to family conflicts abound, and if a man values his own interests more than you, then such a man must be selfish.

No matter what a selfish man does, the first thing he thinks of is himself, especially when it comes to his own profits, he will not hesitate to give up others and satisfy himself, this kind of man is selfish from the beginning, because we never think about others, nor do we care about others' investment in them.

For this kind of man, no matter how much perseverance you try, it is in vain, because we don't care about your so-called investment, they think about their legitimate source and sell rights. Living with this kind of man can be described as devastating, a selfish man can only think of his good, and at critical moments, he will also shirk the responsibility to you.

It is manifested in the owner's strong desire to control, not allowing the woman to communicate with others, and at the same time considering herself, the owner's extreme machismo.

Emotionally, at work, in life, in mentality, spiritually, these aspects will express their selfishness.

They will ignore the difficulties you face, or they will pretend not to see you and that they will never care if you are tired or not when you are busy with household chores.

Once a person is self-centered and evaluates others by their personal worth, he will become very proud and arrogant, which is one of the most striking characteristics of a "extremely selfish" man.

They often think that they are unique, that they cannot be surpassed, and that they cannot be criticized.

It's definitely a special picking.,And usually only think about your own feelings.,Special machismo.。

Self-centered, always feel that I am very powerful, and I am very capable.

For example, such a man will not buy you a diamond ring, and what he says will never come true, he is always proud and complacent, I have met him.

A selfish man has a habit of taking other people's kindness to him for granted. He can't see what others have done for himself, and he never says that he is moved by others' contributions, even if others are kind to him, he can remember, and the ascension will be quickly forgotten like a fish's memory.

Selfish people have very small eyes, as long as someone treats him badly, even if it is a little or a little bit or a quarrel, Bi is unintentional, this person will hold a grudge for a long time, and will find a chance to get back face, you can rest assured, selfish people will never forget everything you have done badly to him.

A selfish person will only think about himself in everything he does, he can't listen to other people's advice, he thinks that what he knows is the only truth, and a selfish person will be good to others, but you have to follow his wishes, if not, he will turn his face and quarrel, and selfish people never care about the feelings of others.

Selfish people often talk about things that they think are good for you, like to brag about being unreliable and crave praise from others.

Consider yourself in everything you do, never care about other people's feelings, often say bad things about others, always complain about life, always calculate others, and can't see that others are better than yourself.

If a man often breaks his word, and often cheats on a woman's feelings, or cheats a woman's money, then this man is of extremely poor character, and he must explain it when getting along.

The characteristics of such men are that they will do whatever it takes for their own interests, the concept of responsibility is very vague, there is no clear self-position, and such a man is very unworthy of deep friendship, it is recommended to stay away from such a man as soon as possible, and do not let yourself fall into a painful situation.