Why is the divorce rate so high in recent years? Under what circumstances are men prone to abandonin

Because people are particularly sloppy when they get married, this will lead to an increase in the divorce rate; There is no affection between two people, and they often quarrel or like someone else in their marriage, so they will choose to divorce their wives.

Because people are very hasty when they get married, two people will choose to get married without feelings, and the divorce rate will be particularly high at this time; If you like someone else, there is no affection between two people, and in these cases you will abandon your wife.

I think some men abandon their wives and do not choose to divorce for the following reasons, such as:

Disguised love, this disguised manifestation of love is especially annoying. When they talk about their marriages and their wives, they make their wives useless and make their marriages miserable, as if they would die if they continued to live. I have a friend who is one such person.

After getting married, he always complained. After his ruses were revealed, he became more restrained. Such people are not uncommon.

Some people really don't like their wives, and some just pretend not to like them. True or not, for such people, they cannot leave their wives. Even if this were true, it would not be worth mentioning compared to the meaning his wife brought to him.

Therefore, as long as such a man is not a fool, he usually does not divorce his wife.

Fear that the new is not as good as the old. This kind of man and the following two types of men really don't like their wives. When it comes to men who are only "afraid that the new is not as good as the old", their mentality is:

Although they particularly dislike their wives and want a divorce very much, they have concerns. The biggest worry is that after the divorce, the wives they marry are not as good as the wives around them, and even they are afraid that they will never find a wife after the divorce. From another point of view, the wife is still meaningful and valuable to them, at least the wife and he are still husband and wife, and he cannot be allowed to become an old bachelor.

This kind of man hates his wife, but does not divorce. To a large extent, he wanted to keep the "marriage". Even if there is no quality in marriage, even if the wife is not a good wife, they do not dare to divorce easily.

Suffering from gains and losses, this kind of man also wants to divorce, but he does not dare to divorce. Their psychology is similar to that of the person above. The only difference is that this kind of man is not worried about not being able to marry a daughter-in-law after divorce, but about the significant losses caused by divorce:

If I had the money, I would definitely choose divorce without hesitation. But in fact, I don't have any money, my wife has all my money. What's more, her parents paid for the house in the first place, and the house was her pre-marital property.

If I divorce her, I will definitely be asked to clean the house. At my age, I really can't afford to walk. While I understand the reason for the "comeback", I was too unsmart to have the courage.

If I continue like this, the rest of my life will definitely be difficult. Therefore, I think that some men abandon their wives and do not choose to divorce, there may be these reasons, and the above is purely a personal opinion.

Maybe it's because there are some face problems to maintain.

Maybe they don't think that's responsible.

Probably for fear that he would get his share of his property.

They want the last kind of decency.

Of course, a woman who has her own opinions and can be very self-reliant.

Today's marriage is really coming too fast like a tornado, if you say you get married, you get married, and if you say you get divorced, you get divorced. Of course, some of them are indeed because of the incompatibility of the personalities of the two people, so it leads to the divorce in the end; However, there are some reasons for divorce because one of the spouses has not fulfilled their responsibilities, or because one of the spouses has been unfaithful. But no matter which one it is, divorce still hurts both parties a lot.

But at the end of the day, who does the divorce hurt the most? Is it a man or a woman? In fact, to be honest, of course, it hurts both of them, but if there are children in the family, then the harm to the children is the greatest, why do you say that?

Homelessness

I saw a TV series, because my parents divorced, although the child was awarded to my father, but every time it was the New Year, my father would ask the driver to send the child to his mother's house after eating Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.

But every time I go to my mother's house, the child is not welcome, and I don't give the child a good face. The children of the family are looking forward to the New Year, and the children of this family are afraid of the New Year, because the children are really homeless. Do you think this will hurt the child the most?

Being ridiculed

Once it is divorced, the child will be ridiculed by the children around him, either without a father or without a mother. Sometimes it is possible to bully children with impunity. The child's weak body will bear the consequences of the parents' actions, do you think such a child will live well?

Aren't they all ridiculed by other children as wild children? Do you really want your child to be ridiculed? The child is innocent.

Bullied by his stepparents

The real thing we have there is because the child's parents are divorced and have remarried. The child was sentenced to his father, but after the father remarried, the stepmother was not good to the child, and did not buy new clothes for the child, but often let the child do some housework, and the young child pulled radishes in the snow, you said pitiful. This is not the most important thing, the most infuriating thing is that the child was not allowed to go to school.

Well, speaking of which, I want to tell those parents who have children, even if your relationship is not good, but please think about your children, and make good changes for your family, because children cannot be victims of your marriage.

Divorce not only ruins men and women, but the most regrettable thing is that children have become cannon fodder in divorce wars for no reason, they are all so-called freedom of marriage, men are equal, home is not a place to be reasonable, and daughters-in-law are accustomed to ......There is no way to do it, and it is also the most failed manifestation of society anyway, which is sad.

I think divorce is the easiest thing to ruin is the woman, because when a man reaches a certain age, if he has a successful career, it is still possible to renew his marriage, but once a woman reaches a certain age, she will look old and lose her personal attractiveness.

It is a man, because a woman is reborn after divorce, that is, a woman who faces all difficulties and will see the value and meaning of existence in the world, and chooses to raise children by him.

It is easier to ruin a woman, because women attach more importance to the family, and in general, divorce will hit a woman harder.

I think who to ruin depends mainly on a person's mentality, if they will learn a lesson in marriage, change themselves, and start in a better direction, divorce is not necessarily bad.

The two divorced women around me are both married for the second time, and now they look okay, they have no more children, and their quality of life is no worse than before the divorce. As for their ex-husbands, one of them has made money, and his life is quite nourishing; Another one who came back to divorce a female college student at that time, because she didn't make any money, the female college student ran away and is now poor, but she also found another woman who was not as good as her ex-wife to live with.

It used to be easy to destroy women, but now it's easy to destroy men, and the times are different

Whether you get married or divorced, the one who loses is the one who is weak. It's realistic, but we're living in reality, aren't we?

Whoever has a family will not consider his ex, and whoever has been single will be unbalanced in his heart, and he will slowly become extreme. Except if you don't want to find your next home.

The ex-husband who divorced in order to have a son and the divorced second-married woman gave birth to another daughter