Should I get divorced if I have a baby? Why?

Introduction: Some children will be very distressed when they see their parents arguing often, and they don't know what kind of things are going on between their parents. If there is a relationship problem between the two parents, you must learn to think that the child should not make the child feel very sad.

If you have a child who wants to divorce, you must first consider the child's thoughts, and don't let the child have a bad situation, which will make the child appear a shadow.

Many people are very sweet when they are in love, and after having children, they will have more ordinary things, and two people will wear out their feelings. If the relationship between two people is really gone, they always want to divorce, but also consider the child's feelings, the child needs the love of the parents when he is young, at this time the parents must learn to give the child the appropriate choice, if the child has no way to face the parents, the parents should give the child a good example, to give the child a good freedom. When children are young, they want to get more love from their parents, so they should take time to spend more time with their children, and they should not let their children lack the love of one party, which will make them feel insecure.

Some children are more afraid of their parents when they are young, so they should actively encourage their children, do not let their children have uncomfortable emotions, once the children have uncomfortable emotions, children will feel that their parents do not care about themselves at all.

If two people often quarrel, they must learn to communicate, and at the same time communicate to face each other positively, do not let themselves appear bad, and the child must think about the child's situation when he is still young. If you always quarrel, you have to look at the time when two people once loved each other, learn to tolerate each other, and even if they make mistakes with each other, they must solve them in time, and they can't keep procrastinating. If there is a problem, it is necessary to communicate appropriately and not make the child feel uncomfortable.

If a child sees that his parents are constantly arguing, he will not want to be around his parents and want to run away from them.

If the two of you are no longer emotional, you should choose divorce. If the family education is not good, in order to avoid divorce for the baby, the impact on the baby is actually very large.

With a baby, if you really can't get by, you can also divorce, because not necessarily divorced is the family is broken, and the baby will also have a father and mother who love him very much, but the parents will not continue to live together.

I don't think you should choose divorce after having a baby; Because the divorce of two people is the biggest harm to the child, it will cause all kinds of problems on the road of the child's growth.

Legal Analysis: The law stipulates the freedom of marriage, and there is no provision that there is no divorce if there are children. On the one hand, if the relationship has indeed broken down, the divorce should be granted if mediation fails; Second, if the relationship between the husband and wife has not broken down or has not completely broken down, even if mediation fails, the divorce should not be granted.

Therefore, the legal condition for a people's court to grant a divorce can only be that "the relationship between the husband and wife has indeed broken down".

Legal basis: Article 1079 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife. Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted. Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

For people whose relationship has broken down, divorce is inevitable. But if both parties have children, they must think twice before considering divorce. Many people will be motivated by the fact that their children need a complete home, that their children need the love of both parents, and that divorce will cause serious harm to their children.

1. The child needs to be complete, so the divorce cannot be done for the sake of the child.

For children, a complete home is of vital significance, with a complete home, children's lives can be more comfortable, happy, and children can have a happy childhood. Therefore, for a child, a complete home has an extremely important impact on his life. Those couples who want to divorce, for the sake of their children, cannot be considered divorced.

2. Children need the love of both parents, so couples with children cannot divorce lightly.

The love of both parents is indispensable for a child, whether it is the love of the father or the love of the mother, it has an important impact on the growth and development of the child. Those children who lack the love of the father or the love of the mother will be greatly affected on the road of future development, so for the sake of the children, parents need to really take responsibility and share their obligations to raise their children, and cannot divorce lightly.

3. Divorce will bring serious harm to the children, and the husband and wife cannot divorce for the sake of the children.

Divorce is a very big harm to both husband and wife, and for children, the damage caused by divorce will be even more serious. After the divorce of the parents, the child loses the love of one of the parents, and even more so the complete home. It will put the child's life in trouble, which is extremely detrimental to the child's growth, so a reasonable couple should not do anything that harms the child's copycat.

If you have conflicts, you should actively resolve them, and you can't divorce rashly.

Try not to divorce, single parents know that the boring family has great drawbacks for the growth of the child's heart, even if you don't think about yourself, you have to think about the child's life in the future, since you have chosen to have a baby, you must fulfill the obligation to support him to the end, please respect every life.

No, because two people who have children must maintain a stable marital relationship, they cannot divorce casually, and they must be responsible for the mental health of their children.

Try not to divorce after having a baby, an incomplete family has a great impact on the growth of children, and children are particularly vulnerable to grievances.

According to our law, divorce can still be filed if you already have children. The main criterion for divorce is not whether a child has been born, but whether the relationship between the two parties has broken down. As long as the grounds are sufficient and reasonable, a divorce can be filed.

In principle, the man cannot file for divorce while the baby is breastfeeding, but the woman can. The man may not file for divorce during pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months of the termination of pregnancy. If the husband has special circumstances, such as proving that the child is not his own, he will file a divorce request with the court, and the court will still hear it in accordance with the law.

Legal basis: Article 1076 of the Civil Code Where both husband and wife repented and voluntarily divorced, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Legal Analysis: Yes, but there are limitations.

According to our law, divorce can still be filed if you already have children. The main criterion for divorce is not whether children have been born, but whether the relationship between the parties has broken down. As long as the grounds are sufficient and reasonable, a divorce can be filed.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1081 The spouse of a serviceman on active duty who requests a divorce shall obtain the consent of the serviceman, except where the serviceman has committed a major fault in the search.

Article 1082:The man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after giving birth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.