An essay that allows us to get along with each other with a sense of proportion

First of all, we must be bold in getting along with others and correctly deal with the contradictions that arise in getting along. We must realize that it is very normal for some conflicts and disputes to arise in our dealings with relatives, friends, classmates, teachers, and even everyone else. Teeth and tongues sometimes "fight", not to mention that we are ordinary people with different personalities and preferences.

This? There is a saying: "No one is perfect without gold."

Each of us inevitably has shortcomings of one kind or another. When there is a difference of opinion and a conflict of interest, we often expose our own shortcomings, and we have a lot of arguments with the other party. Contradictions breed and disputes arise from this, and harmonious and friendly interpersonal relations arise.

This casts a shadow. Being in such a situation will inevitably have a great negative impact on our study and life. If we fail to take a correct view of it and resolve it in a timely manner, it is easy for the contradictions to expand and even cause unimaginable consequences.

On the contrary, if we have intimate and harmonious interpersonal relationships, we can be like a fish in water and greatly improve our learning efficiency. It's a good thing for others and for yourself!

Secondly, we must carefully learn how to get along with others and be good at communicating with others. Getting along with people is also a profound science, and there are many skills involved in it. I believe that the first thing that stands on these skills is the "golden key" of "sincerity" to open the "door of the heart" of others.

The sincere support they sowed. There are many such examples, and students must have experienced them as well.

Of course, sincerity alone is not enough, we also need to have a generous and broad heart. I remember the saying: "Wider than the ocean is the sky, and wider than the sky is the heart".

What a good saying! Savor it, and you will definitely be able to receive a soul "baptism" and understand the true meaning of being a human being. Yes, we are to be honest with others, and we must be kind to others with generosity.

When others offend you, when others trample on your dignity, we should strive to turn hostility into a good one on the basis of sticking to our principles. That kind of "tooth for tooth" and "needle to wheat" way of doing things is really not advisable! That will only make you walk into a "dead end", it is difficult to advance, it is difficult to retreat, why not shake hands and make peace, take a step back and open the sky?

Students, the society we live in is changing rapidly, and in order to survive, people's sense of communication will become stronger and stronger. With the rapid development of society, interpersonal communication will become more frequent and close, which will put forward higher and higher requirements for our communication quality. Let's uphold the sincere and generous way of life, and get along with others enthusiastically and bravely!

You will be delighted to find that the eyes that pay attention to you are so warm and friendly, and how gratifying it is to give you in return!

There is an extremely difficult realm in the world to grasp - proportion.

Proportionality is a kind of language, a kind of etiquette. We must act in a measured way, interact with others in a measured manner, speak a word in a measured manner, and look in a measured ......

Proportions are suitable shoes, neither big nor small; Proportionality is the spring wind, neither cold nor hot; Measure is to know the rain of the season, neither later nor early; The proportion is the salt put by the famous chef, which is neither salty nor light.

Good and bad, beautiful and ugly, good and evil, love and hate, joy and sorrow, often change according to the proportion. What is there in the world that does not need to be measured? Touching the dragon said that the Empress Dowager Zhao spoke just right, not a millimeter, nor a thousand miles, and the proportion was extremely accurate.

Candle Zhiwu retired from the Qin Division, lobbied tactfully and to the point, and his attitude was humble and neither humble nor arrogant. It can be seen that since ancient times, proportion has been everywhere. Nowadays, football is very popular in sports.

On the field, the football shoots, the bottom line is crossed, and if you miss the point, the ball may reach the opponent's feet. It's not okay to interact with people in life if you're too enthusiastic, too cold, or too critical. It's hard to get the right balance.

Doing things just right is the university question of life; Being a proper person is the high state of life. It's really tiring to get the right sense of proportion.

When chatting with people online, get a ——— sentence

Beauty to five points, learn six points, eat to seven points, love to eight points, filial piety to nine points, do not do ten things. ”

I replied to him: "You mean, everything is about proportion, and accurately grasping the proportion is the only way to be wise?!" "Enlightened! "That's human.

Indeed, if you can't do ten points, you must leave a gap for yourself to break through, leave a little height, and surpass ......

In fact, it is not only human beings who are conscious, but everything in the universe knows its proportions.

The moon knows how to measure. It slowly lacked, and slowly rounded again. It has always been changing without losing measure, and it will always make people look forward to the day when it will be completed.

Today's people don't see the ancient times and moons, and this moon once shone on the ancients, and this eternal moonlight has always condensed the vicissitudes of the world.

Time is measured. It gives everyone the same amount of time, neither long nor short, fairly. It moves at a constant speed every day, neither fast nor slow.

Nature knows how to measure. It gives spring vitality, summer greenery, autumn ripeness, and winter cleanliness. The seasons rotate in a regular manner, changing just right.

I don't know if you've learned to measure things by now. It is extremely important and extremely difficult to grasp. It can be described as an art of life. When you master this art, you also control the destiny of life.

Everything must be measured, it is not advisable to be spontaneous, it is not advisable to be in a hurry, it is difficult to choose the road in a panic, it is not up to speed, too much of a thing, although it is beneficial but not for it, and the things within it, although it is not profitable to do it, it is the way of proportion.

Love is the encouragement of failure, love is criticism when mistakes are made, love is the love of parents, love is an expression of emotion.