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Now there are fewer and fewer people who know how to be shy, so let's keep it.
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1. Face yourself up and admit your shyness. If you want to change your shyness, you must first face yourself, clarify your shy personality, and at the same time admit and accept shyness. Moderate shyness is just an instinctive reaction or self-defense of human beings to the external environment, everyone has been shyness to a greater or lesser extent, shyness is not what makes you different, and it does not make you incompatible with others.
2. Believe in yourself and try actively. In the process of overcoming shyness, the importance of the "first step" is self-evident, and only by taking the first step bravely and confidently can you have the possibility of changing yourself. Therefore, shy people should overcome their inner fears, summon up the courage, and actively and actively engage in contact and conversation with others.
3. Be prepared to change gradually. Shyness is not only a character trait, but also a habit of behavior and a way of doing things. For a shy person to overcome shyness, it may take a long time.
Therefore, on the one hand, the shy person should be mentally prepared to withstand the difficulties that may arise in the process of change; On the other hand, it is necessary to plan well to cope with various challenges and gradually change yourself.
In addition, mastering some social skills is also beneficial for shy people to improve their social skills:
1. Smile and show people. If a shy person does not know how to respond to contact with others, they can first show them a gentle smile and make eye contact with them, which can not only relieve their nervousness, but also show kindness to the other person.
2. The voice is loud. When talking to others, shy people should try to speak loudly and clearly, especially when saying their name or asking for information, so that they can feel "uncomfortable" and not focus too much on their shyness.
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Overcoming a shy personality takes a certain amount of time and effort. Here are some ways that may help change your shy personality:
Self-awareness: Understand why you are shy and if there are any deep-seated reasons for this personality.
Learn communication skills: Improve your own communication skills such as social skills, eye contact, verbal expression, etc.
Increase social opportunities: Actively seek opportunities to socialize with others, and increase your social circle by participating in clubs, clubs, and other activities.
Practice self-confidence: Fill yourself with self-confidence and try to do things that you didn't dare to do before.
Accept criticism: Learn to accept criticism from others and learn from it.
Seek help: If you can't overcome your shy personality on your own, you may want to seek help from a professional, such as a psychologist.
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To overcome shyness and blushing, you can generally develop self-confidence, relax your mind, etc. 1. Cultivate self-confidence: Most patients who are prone to shyness and blush will be accompanied by anxiety, and they can set goals for themselves every day, and their mood will be satisfied and encouraged after completing the goals.
At the same time, patients can cooperate with positive psychological cues and become more confident. 2. Relaxation: Patients generally care too much about the opinions of others, which can be relieved by deep breathing.
Deep breathing usually relieves tension and anxiety and can improve shyness and blushing. Patients can usually wash their face with cold water, exercise**, increase their tolerance**, and avoid prolonged exposure to colder or hotter environments.
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