Hey, family conflicts, let s have someone who understands to guide the maze!

Brotherly love is deep, and brotherly marriage should also be considered comprehensively.

The relationship between concubines and concubines is not very easy to handle.

Since your sister-in-law has calculated the accounts so clearly.

As your sister-in-law did at the time.

It stands to reason that you should go back to the processing fee now.

Your sister-in-law shouldn't have anything to say either.

If you don't accept your wife at all, you will be unbalanced.

If you are a person who can be a big brother, you should be given some processing fees.

Actually, give my brother-in-law an explanation.

Your wife doesn't necessarily have to charge your brother much money.

I guess it's because of your sister-in-law's practice that makes your wife breathless.

You can discuss it with your brother in private, how much does it mean, the eldest brother is supposed to take care of the younger brother.

The most important thing is to make what your brother has to say well.

Perform a play in front of your wife.

In this way, the family relationship will be harmonious.

After all, brotherhood is deep and difficult to beat the pillow wind of his wife.

Give it a try!

In my opinion, you are still doing it more correctly, and you can't just look at the immediate benefits when you are a man. After all, he is his brother, if you can't spend all the money that day, then the family affection may be gone, and when you get old, you will regret it when you recall the past. Maybe your brother did it wrong, but he always has a big belly.

But you can explain to your brother and sister-in-law why you don't want their money, because you value brotherhood.

Family conflicts are a very sensitive topic because each family has its own unique circumstances and dynamics. However, I can give some general advice to help you deal with family conflicts.

First, try to communicate with family members in a peaceful and rational way. Don't make decisions or make statements in an emotional situation, as this may make the problem worse. Instead, try to express your point of view in a calm manner and listen to what others have to say.

Second, try to find a compromise point in Lingzhou. In a family spear shield, there is usually no one perfect solution, so some compromise is required on both sides. It may take some time and effort, but if you are able to find a solution that works for everyone, then this will help ease the tension.

Third, seek professional help. If you are unable to resolve family conflicts on your own, seeking professional help may be a good option. You can consult a psychologist, family therapist or other professional who can provide advice and support on how to deal with family conflicts.

Finally, keep in mind that dealing with a home spear ruler wide shield takes time, patience, and effort. Don't give up, although it can be a challenging process, if you're able to stick with it, you'll end up with good results.

Based on my algorithms and data analysis, the following talks are some suggestions that may be useful:

1.Communication: Communication is the key to resolving conflicts. Try to have an open, respectful, and understanding conversation with family members to bring out your emotions, needs, and confusion. Avoid accusatory, offensive or provocative language.

2.Listening: Listen to the other person's point of view and feel the loss, and try to understand the other person's position and situation. Avoid interrupting, criticizing, or explaining the other person.

4.Seek third-party help: If the situation requires it, consider seeking professional support, such as a psychologist, marriage and family specialist, etc.

5.Stay calm: Conflict resolution will not happen overnight and will take time and patience. Avoid acting aggressively driven by impulses and emotions, stay calm, and don't let the conflict escalate.

Now that you have children, you don't want to get a divorce, do you? As long as you don't want to divorce, don't stiffen the relationship with your mother-in-law, and you don't have any friends to borrow money from? Let's borrow 10,000 yuan to pay back some to my mother-in-law first!

As long as you repay your friend's next time, you just borrowed these debts after thinking about them, and it is the most correct thing to borrow money temporarily to ease people's urgent use of money, and it is not a debt to pay it off slowly! As for the problem that she treats your parents badly, you try to coordinate in the middle, now that the child is still young, don't always quarrel and affect the child, you can wait for the child to be older and let the child help you persuade the mother, especially as a parent, you should be a good example for the child, you can consider writing your thoughts out to her, maybe you can soften her! Being good to your wife can make your wife good to you, your dissatisfaction and your expression will betray you, and your wife and children will not be happy if you are unhappy, this is because people's feelings are mutual, and if you want to change others, you must first start by changing yourself.

Use your actions to influence the other person to change.

Every family has a difficult year, who can tell you how to do it, if you have something unpleasant in your heart, find a place to find someone to talk to, and then you still have to live well, work hard, these things can't say who is right and wrong, as long as you have a clear conscience. Big things can be solved, I wish you happiness.

I feel that you are quite miserable, and there are indeed a lot of things wrong with your wife. If there is a disagreement between husband and wife, both parties are responsible, you should communicate well and tell her some of your ideas, after all, they have come together and organized a family, so don't give up easily.

Be more considerate and understanding, and hope you can live well.

Something honest but not good. When you can easily take out millions. The situation is completely reversed, and now it is difficult to find a wife who honors her in-laws and feels sorry for her husband.

How to deal with family conflicts, that is, we need to help each other, communicate more, be less careful, and smile more harmoniously.

Hello friends, to be honest, from your point of view, it is a bit difficult to deal with this problem.

It is said that marriage is a matter of two families, not two people, and the girlfriend you mentioned talked about marriage is 1. If you don't agree to get married without a house, 2 go to your hometown and get married in the countryside, 3The name of the house in my hometown should be written on me.

Also, you said that the two of you are "counted" to be the ones who are determined to live your whole life. It seems to sound a bit contradictory, if you don't have a house, you won't agree to get married, 2 go to your hometown and get married in the countryside, 3Is it a bit of a conflict between the name of the house in my hometown county town and the person who is sure to live a lifetime?

You should know this better than I do. She hasn't thought about you from your point of view, has she? Your parents don't like your girlfriend, I think it makes sense.

I want you to think about this relationship first.

This problem is not that you can buy a house now can be solved, the woman attaches great importance to the material conditions (of course, this is the mainstream concept of society now, there is nothing to blame), even if you solve the house problem now, if your subsequent growth and cash flow is not good, she will still be dissatisfied, if the two people are deeply in love (this love can only be believed by young people), then the small couple discussed and coordinated the flexibility to solve it, if the love is not deep enough, then you can do it yourself.

Dude, understand your feelings! And empathize! Parents want their children to have a better life, which is not wrong in itself, talk to your girlfriend well, if she really loves you, she should know how to tell her parents.

On the contrary, you should also communicate well with your family. This kind of thing must learn to take advantage of the situation. If the parents still stick to the original point of view, the problem that they don't want to solve is not a problem.

Both of them have to be filial sons. Don't delay. If you are in debt because of marriage, it is still the two families who suffer!

Look before you leap.

Your money is to buy a house in your hometown, you should write your name, I think you two live, even if your parents pay for it, write your name alone, what is it to write theirs, and you will have to pay a fee for the transfer in the future. But now you can't change it, you can only talk to your girlfriend about it. The gift money problem is not a problem, I think it is mainly a house problem.

You can list all the problems in depth and detail, and then negotiate them one by one, I think the relationship between the two people is good, there is nothing that cannot be solved, besides, just your son, everything will be yours in the future. When you make money in the future, you will find a suitable opportunity to change your name. Don't worry, fate is here, she will follow you if you don't have anything.

1. Beware of arrogance and rashness, children's education is not a short-term thing, it is a long marathon, and it is not wise to drag your child to accelerate in the middle.

2. With a normal heart, you have to realize that the child is an ordinary person, not a genius, and don't set a seemingly beautiful but distant goal for yourself. You can't get fat in one bite, Rome wasn't built in a day.

3. Every time you surpass your past self is progress, learn to affirm your child's progress, give your child confidence, and let your child feel that you love his progress rather than love his top. Keep improving, and excellence will come naturally.

4. Avoid the child's rational discussion and coordination with the lover, and reach a consensus on the child's educational goals. Don't be arbitrary.

5. If the child really does not have the talent for exam-oriented education, try art, Chinese medicine, preschool education, etc. Letting children do well in the exam is also to have a stable income in the future, and exam-oriented education is not necessarily the only way out.

When you say this, it means that you don't really realize your mistake at all, or you are used to taking your own wishes first, and always trying to impose your personal will on your children under the banner of thinking about your children. The child's grades are lagging behind, because the early learning is not solid, and more importantly, the child may be tired of school from the heart and has no motivation to continue learning.

If the child cannot move forward on his own, how can parents push him? You only see that your child's current English is not good, but do you see your child's resistance? See a problem with your child's habits?

See overall family getting along problems? These are the root causes.

If we don't eliminate our own problems from the root cause, solve the long-standing problems in family relationships, and help children establish a healthy and normal mentality, then how can we make children learn to be progressive? It can be seen that it is impossible to do.

It's good that you want your child to read English aloud, but is he willing to cooperate? Is he willing to think positively himself?

If the car in front of you is very close to you, choose to change lanes or loosen the throttle, the speed of Kesan is so slow, the speed will come down as soon as the throttle is released, and you can also step on the brakes appropriately. If the car behind you is close to you, you can keep your lane and don't change lanes at will. Be relaxed.

Although you were born in the countryside, it is one thing to feel that having money in your hands can bring a sense of security.

On the other hand, your husband's family doesn't treat you as their family, and always feels that you are an outsider, especially when it comes to money.

If you don't fight past you're thinking about your own Zen grip birth, and you're embarrassed to argue, it's become like this, and sometimes you can splash a little bit.

Besides, it's better to be kind to yourself, if you want a stronger woman, you can not get a certificateAt least one of the large pieces of base age is in your name.

The man doesn't seem to be able to do that, I can't do that anyway.

It's okay! Don't worry! Think too much!

Your father-in-law's family has a son from your husband! When the time comes, it's all his! Besides, your husband is not stupid!

It's impossible to get the house into someone else's hands! Don't worry about the house problem! I don't understand this place without a certificate!

But you're in this together! And there are Kiriun children! It should be a legal husband and wife!

My husband spends your money to buy a car, maybe he doesn't have any spare money at the time! What's more, it's convenient for both husband and wife, don't care! If you don't have money, he will support you from time to time!

Your husband may be more machismo! So don't worry about the money! Otherwise, it is easy to quarrel!

As long as he loves you!

First of all, the heroine of the story is strong. Able to face life's setbacks. I feel like we should pay tribute to her. It's true! It is really not easy to get out of the shadow of bereavement, live a strong life, and raise a child so big.

But, think about children. In the story, it is said that the mother-in-law is a troublemaker. I don't think the child can be raised in the mother-in-law's house. The child's guardian is the child's first teacher. The environment in which the child lives will affect the child's future personality and attitude to a certain extent.

However, it is absolutely impossible not to give the child living expenses. After all, it is his own daughter, how can he bear not to give money to the child, not to mention that in such an environment, it will definitely intensify the relationship between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, although the mother-in-law will definitely not have a bad child, but the child is not young and sensible, this approach is not afraid of a crack in the relationship with the child in the future.

It's better for the child to be by his side, watching the child grow up by himself is more important than anything else, you can find a job again, but there is only one child. Although this man doesn't give the child living expenses, he still wants to hang the relationship like this, and he still takes advantage of so many cheap things in the world. Such a person with no sense of responsibility got a divorce ......However, in the long run, if the child lives in a single-parent family for a long time, it is not conducive to the child's future growth, and the child's future personality will also be biased.

It is recommended to communicate well with the child's father, although the relationship story is very good, but everything is for the child I hope he can understand, after all, the child is not just a person.

If it's really not appropriate, or the man is messing around, then it can only be solved by legal means, while the child is not particularly big, if you can find a father for the child, find someone who can really treat the child, I believe it will also be good for the future life of the child and the heroine. If it really doesn't work, find a good lawyer to solve it.

Please be strong in the face of life's setbacks, and I believe that you will get through them!