-
Well, first of all, it is not recommended that in a city like Beijing, white-collar workers have fled Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou, right? Also, Beijing's expenses are no longer what you can afford now, and even if you can afford it, what do you think you can develop in the face of n strong enemies? Any industry in Beijing has to do, do you think you can compete with them?
It's not that I don't believe in your strength, you have this strength, and your cake is much better than Hollyland, but people still go back to Hollyland to buy it, you know? It is recommended to go to a second-tier city, the pressure and cost of life are not beaten, and it is a little difficult to start at the beginning, but if you stick to it, you can settle down in this city, after all, Hollyland is still relatively expensive. Hollyland is just an analogy, not to ask you to do this.
-
Seduce the rich 2nd generation. If you are not afraid of hardship, you will go to a stall to sell supper and breakfast. Relying on majors, a lot of Beijing diplomas, and you want to learn fine after one year?
Impossible. Only by starting your own business and struggling. You have to look at your neighborhood first.
I'm talking about a late-night breakfast as an analogy. Start by looking at the market and looking for what people need most in your familiar environment. You can only ask for a general answer here.
In the end, you have to explore the relationship between the needs and understand it yourself
-
If you like the creative side of freelance design, which is suitable for advertising graphic design, that requires the use of photoshop software, you can use your working hours to study on your own, learn while you work, and then find a small company first, work on it, and then jump to a big company when you have experience.
Or learn a foreign language and do simultaneous interpreting, that's a lot of money, but it takes a lot of effort to practice every day and listen every day.
Or a certified public accountant, and there are very few people who have to pass five subjects, but when you do, you definitely have a job, and the pay is not low, but it's really sad.
There is no age limit for all of these, the competition is not very strong, and it can be said that there is a lack of talent.
-
Seriously, I personally think that mentality is very important, as well as your own efforts; Even though your life is not good right now, you have to cheer up and force yourself to work hard, and you can't go down like this anymore. Take time out to think about your future and think about it. Find a job that you are satisfied with, do it steadily, have a calm mind, be confident, and believe that your life will get better and better.
I believe that setbacks and difficulties are inevitable in this process, but come on! Don't give up! I hope you can be happy and have a wonderful and happy life in the future!!
-
Learn to face life and face each day happily.
-
Calm down and think about it.
Plan well. Once you've thought of a practical approach, make a plan that is as specific as possible so that it will be effective.
Strictly enforced. You can't talk about anything, you have empty ideas, you must strictly implement your plan, otherwise, you will become more and more confused in the future.
Don't be too ambitious.
When doing things, don't be ambitious, don't think about earning him 100 million at once, this is unrealistic for ordinary people, you must come according to your own situation.
Keep in touch with family and friends.
When you feel lost, keep in touch with family and friends to relieve anxiety and increase your self-confidence.
Embrace the usual mindset.
In fact, everyone has a time of confusion, this is normal, when you feel anxious, with a normal mentality, the boat to the bridge will be natural and straight.
-
Everyone may be confused at every stage, this is just a part of your life, you can't generalize and doubt yourself, so you must cheer up and start from the heart! Break a leg!
-
At this time, what you should do is to learn about the nature of work, content, prospects, current situation and other basic conditions of the industry through books, the Internet, and ask friends around you for advice.
-
The road is in the fog, first take the few steps in front of you, walk through it steadily, and then you can see how to walk after that. Life is a process of adapting while walking.
It is important that you pick your apples well today. After accumulating enough certainty, the uncertainty after that will decrease little by little.
Try to take the first step bravely, whether you like this major or not, you can stick to it first and get a diploma, there are many people who also go to university and don't like this major, and they will also engage in other jobs in the future. The theft of your phone is also part of the reason for your depressed will, just be true to yourself, don't take other people's evaluations too seriously, and remember who you are when others evaluate you. You can try to learn other things, such as chefs, pastries, and the western food industry.
To be honest, I'm in a similar situation to you. I just graduated from high school, and I've been studying hard, but my grades have never gone up. But I never gave up. >>>More
My mind feels confused, I think this method is not good, you have to be mentally focused every day, you can't spend every day in confusion, if this is the case, you will be decadent.
When I was 20 years old, I was still a stupid girl, I was not interested in love and not envious, basically every day at three o'clock, classroom, cafeteria, library, dormitory, living in my own small world, watching **, eating some snacks, getting some scholarships, and not being single. When I was 21 years old, I met a senior from a neighboring school, hazy, and said that he liked me, so let's have a relationship, this is not the first love, I ate a few meals, his roommates were together, and then it ended up without a problem, and I can't remember what caused the result now. There is no sadness, and there is no joy of returning to singleness, and I am dumbfounded. >>>More
According to the MBTI personality type theory, there are 16 personality types, each with its own innate strengths and weaknesses, which in turn match your interests and dislikes. These innate strengths and weaknesses are inherent and cannot be created or eliminated. If a person can continue to do what he is naturally good at, then he must be happy and successful, if it is the opposite, it is basically pain and failure. >>>More