Many girls say that it is very difficult to find someone to love, so what are the factors in this?

Updated on healthy 2024-07-02
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Many girls say that it is very difficult to find someone to love, so what are the factors in this? The older I get, the more I feel close to me and myself in despair: Am I going to die alone?

    Is it really that hard to meet someone you like?

    It's not difficult. There are really more and more excellent and attractive people in this world. There are really more and more people who match the traits you like.

    However, you can look at it and think it's good. Like. Glittering people probably don't like you.

    Everyone is very narcissistic in their hearts, looking at places that are several levels higher than themselves. I didn't think so before, but as I grew up over the years, I really found out. Human beings are really good at wishful thinking, and their own ugliness is too much because of the ugliness of others and the situation where toads want to eat swan meat, and they can only fall into a dead knot that they can't see each other.

    The main reason why so many people lament that they can't see love is because they misunderstand love. Love is the colorful bubble of fantasy in everyone's heart, jumping wildly with hands and feet, watching each other be happy all day long. This does happen, but it's really not the everyday life of ordinary people.

    The more restrictions you want, the less options you have. The more capital and strength you have, the more choices you have. If you want someone who is so good, be a good person yourself.

    For adults, it is unrealistic to pursue the heartbeat of a year-old face. What we have to face is that as we get older and gain experience, it becomes more and more difficult for us to be tempted. It's like a saying, it's not that it's getting harder and harder to love others, but that we're becoming more and more able to tell that it's not love.

    I found that the patience and energy required for the whole process, whether it was finding someone I liked, starting a relationship, or falling in love, was far underestimated by a single dog of deep depth like me. Some people look like they see love, but there are signs of peach blossoms and they will soon back down. Because it's really difficult to start a relationship, it's never comfortable and free to be alone.

    There is a lot to give for the sake of sweet love. Only by maintaining innocent enthusiasm and vitality and slowly enduring can you meet that love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because my requirements are too high, it is very difficult to find someone to love, and I can lower my requirements appropriately, but the principle must not be changed.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because people are very open-minded nowadays and don't want to pay unilaterally, it is especially difficult to find boys who are good to girls unilaterally. Boys are also reluctant to give unilaterally.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    1.The girls are too demanding.

    2.The girl wants to find a very well-rounded boyfriend.

    3.There are a lot of scumbags now.

    4.Didn't have the courage to fall in love.

    5.Experienced a breakup and didn't want to fall in love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, we're all visual creatures now. If you don't look like it, you don't want to get to know you. Secondly, people nowadays are more fast food, and they don't have that much time to get to know another person.

    In the end, even if two people are together, there will be many differences. These are all things that need to be run-in.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because everyone has a different view of love, so there are many requirements for love, and after having a other half, they will always interfere in each other's lives, and they can't run in between two people, so they feel that it is more difficult to find a person who can fully tolerate themselves.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In today's society, it is indeed easier for girls to find that it is indeed easier for boys to love themselves.

    Just like now, there are more than 30 million singles in China, and no matter how ugly a girl is, or a little disabled, there may be boys who are willing to live with her for the rest of their lives.

    No way, because there is no choice.

    And boys are different, now girls are looking for husbands, and the requirements for boys are particularly high.

    For example, if you want to have a house of your own, it can't be too small, you have to have your own car, which must be four-wheeled.

    You also have to have a stable job, people can't be too ugly, and you can't be too short.

    It's really a lot of requirements, so as a boy, you can only force yourself to work hard, and if you don't let it, you can only live a lifetime alone.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's not easy, it depends on fate, as long as both men and women have a fate, it's very simple, sometimes it may be love at first sight, as for girls will attract boys, it depends on how women look, this first impression is important.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love for each other should be quite difficult to meet. Cherish it when you encounter it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's hard, first of all the person you find doesn't necessarily like you, and secondly the person you like doesn't necessarily like him.

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