I m thirty two, why do I feel so difficult to find someone sincerely?

It's inherently difficult to find someone who really cares, and when you have a problem like this, it just shows that you know what you want, and that's a good thing. On the contrary, it would be terrible if you found that a lot of people would fit in for you.

1.In the past, communication was underdeveloped and there was no instant messaging software. It took several months for the other party to receive a love letter.

Although there were not many exchanges, everyone cherished the opportunity of this exchange. But now, looking at each other's circle of friends, we can roughly form a preliminary impression of this person. If the initial impression is not good, we will not be interested in learning about it and will even be excluded from the candidates.

It's hard to have conversations and exchanges. If it is a straight man who can't chat, after a few words, the woman will lose interest, can't talk about falling in love, and may not even have the opportunity to meet. The problem with such an efficient way of communicating is that everyone has to pack their circle of friends in order to get the opportunity to communicate.

Those that are not packaged will be eliminated directly in the first round in order to pass smoothly.

2.As a girl, the general conditions are okay, and you can basically talk about it, but this kind of fit is only a fit between friends, and you also need daily communication to judge whether he is really good. Don't be blinded by the suitability in front of you.

If you want to find the right person, you have to choose, but not the conditions, but the character, and the people who can accompany you all the time. As a boy, it was very difficult. Many people say that as long as it's a girl, you can choose anything, but if you don't choose and don't like it, will there be one after marriage?

Maybe many people were also introduced by others, married someone they didn't like, and lived a good life after marriage.

Finding a partner is not looking for a babysitter, nor is it listening to you everywhere to please you. If that's the case, how to talk about feelings. Love is inherently selfish, but it is also generous.

If you love one another, you will love all people and do not compare one to another. When looking for a partner, it's important to fit, but don't take it too seriously, but once you have specific fitness standards, you'll never find a partner. The other party doesn't need to be good, as long as it's warm and worth it!

Because people nowadays are generally more impetuous, and relatively snobbish, they will care about money.

Young people's ideas about falling in love have changed a lot, many people don't take the time to find a marriage partner, and it may be that your life circle is relatively small, so it is difficult to find a suitable person.

This is because you have a very clear purpose, you know what you want, and you don't want to settle for it, so you find it very difficult to find someone.

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

As long as the effort is deep, the iron rod is sharpened into a needle.

Yes, it's so hard, it's so hard to find someone who really cares.

Four people encountered in a person's life.

The first is yourself, the second is the person you love the most, the third is the person who loves you the most, and the fourth is the person you spend your life with. First of all, you will meet the person you love the most, and then experience the feeling of love, because you understand the feeling of being loved, so you can find the person who loves you the most, when you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, only Duan Nucleus will know what you need, and will find the most suitable person for you, who can get along for a lifetime, but very sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, you love the most, often do not choose you, love you the most, often not your favorite, the longest, It's not the one you love the most or the one who loves you the most, it's just the person who appeared at the most suitable time. How many people will you be in someone else's life?

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, hope that he can be with the person he really loves, and will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him anymore, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession, you like the moon, it is impossible to take the moon down and put it in the basin, but the light of the moon can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes your eternal memory of life.

If you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good and his bad, love his good and love his shortcomings.

You must not want him to become what he wants to be because he loves him, if he can't do it, he won't love him, you can't really love someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to accompany you, the real feeling is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, there is no reputation at all.

After all, feelings must be given, not only obtained, separation is an inevitable test, if your relationship is not stable enough, you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

It's not difficult to find someone, but it's hard to find someone who really loves you.