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<> fact, I believe that many people will have their own opinions on this issue, that is, when two people are together, do you think it is important to like it, or is it important to be suitable? I believe there will be different answers for people of different ages.
For young people, I think it's more important to like it in their hearts, but at my current age, it's more important for me to choose the right one. Maybe people will continue to mature with the growth of social experience, so they will not choose to be emotional when facing problems. And after the explanation of big data, to a certain extent, the people who can finally enter the marriage hall are generally more suitable than love, so this also brings us a lot of warnings.
But in the same way, we should not lose confidence in love, after all, to a certain extent, the development of feelings can only continue through love, but often with the growth of time, love may slowly become a kind of family affection, but it will be more worthy of our trust. So sometimes we shouldn't use a simple sentence to judge our views on love at will, and often it depends on which approach is more suitable for the individual. Maybe for some people, he does think that love is more important, after all, love is the foundation of everything, although the difficulties faced in the end are often very many, but as long as you have love, I believe that anything can be solved in your own way, isn't it?
So never disbelieve in love, and never look down on suitability, because this will often become the final direction of each of our feelings, so in a relationship, whether it is career or love, they will be our choice for another person. Maybe in the process of marriage, you will find that suitability is far more important than love, after all, the three views are similar to ensure the stability of your marriage, isn't it?
Of course, this is just my personal opinion, and I hope it can be helpful to you.
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I think it's more important to be suitable, if two people are together and they like each other very much, but because the three views are not particularly suitable, then the two will have a lot of contradictions.
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I think it's important for two people to be right together, and it's very rare to have someone who likes and fits well.
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That must be more important than liking, because even if it is suitable, two people may not be able to get married.
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I think the most important thing is that two people are right together. Because two people are together, although they like it, but it is not suitable to be together. Such a relationship, even if it is really together, is not necessarily happy, but two suitable people together can be cultivated slowly.
Like and love.
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Two people are together, I think the right is the most important thing, you like each other, but the two of you are not necessarily very suitable, only the right kind of feelings will appear tacit understanding, will trust and understand each other.
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I think it's most important for two people to be together, if two people don't feel for each other together, then life after that is relatively boring, and suddenly someone who has a good impression of your relationship may break down.
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It's more important to be suitable, because if you're not suitable, you won't be able to go on for a long time, but you also need to have some liking.
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In fact, there is overlap between these two issues. Since it is suitable, it is definitely preferred. But liking doesn't necessarily mean that's appropriate. So it's very important to be suitable.
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Whether it is love at first sight or love between two little guesses, it is what people yearn for. Like Weaver Girl and Dong Yong, Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo, as well as the earliest folk songs that have been handed down in my country, so I put love in the first place; Feelings are the most important thing. Feelings can be cultivated, and two people never recognize each other, that is, two people need to have an emotional foundation from falling in love to getting married.
Without an economic base, everything is illusory. Tolerance is an important asset in life. Tolerating the faults and faults of others is your greatest asset.
Because you will win the respect and fit of others because of this, and bring happiness and joy in life! Life is a mess, and there are small knots that can't be solved.
The main three views of two people together must be the same, in order to get along for a long time, all aspects of tacit understanding, similar topics, there are always scooping endless words to pour, and invisibly happy and happy, the most important thing is to cherish each other, each other's every move is very precious, when they are together, they always feel that time is very fast and quickly passed. Two people get along, and most importantly, understand and be tolerant and tolerant. No flowers are red for a hundred days, people are good for a thousand days, no matter how deep and good the relationship between two people is, there must be times when they get along for a long time and they are noisy and angry.
This depends on the nature and quality of the two people, who are cheerful and understandable.
Even if the quarrel is turned upside down, once the noise is stopped, both parties can think calmly, the noise just now is not worth it, it can be met by fate, it is lucky, we must know how to cherish it. Love requires emotional investment and a material foundation, but it does not mean that you can enjoy love with money. In the sea of life, countless ideas are born every second, and every moment is indeed easy to be confused and overwhelmed.
However, worrying about a hypothetical outcome every day is a bit of a mediocrity.
It's too early to draw conclusions about a relationship when nothing has happened. Moreover, things like feelings are the most unbearable to think about, and thinking too much often means that the more you think about it, the more you will feel that this is not good and that it is not good. Suffering from gains and losses will not give you peace of mind, and thinking about it will not make things go smoothly.
There is no relationship that is sweet all the way from beginning to end, and there is no life that can not have a hurdle, only if you live the present well, can you have a future to look forward to.
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The most important thing is that the relationship must be in place, if the relationship between two people is very good, then it may go on forever, if it feels bad, then there is no way for two people to be together.
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The most important thing is to be sincere about something, to understand and tolerate each other, and not to make mistakes again and again.
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I feel that the most important thing for two people to be together is trust, as long as there is trust, two people can go on well, and they are very happy.
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Companionship and trust are especially important for these two things, and when two people are together, they can build a relationship foundation with these things.
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What is even more rare is courage and enthusiasm, whether it is love at first sight or love after two small guesses, it is desirable. Like Weaver Girl and Dong Yong, Zhu Yingtai and Liang Shanbo, as well as the earliest folk songs in China, I put love first; Affection is the most important thing. Feelings can be cultivated, and two people never realize that they need to have an emotional foundation from love to marriage.
Without an economic base, everything is illusory. Tolerance is an important asset in life. Tolerating the mistakes and mistakes of others is a person's greatest asset.
Because you will win the respect and recognition of others and bring joy and joy to life! Life is numb, and there are small knots that cannot be solved. The main three views of two people together must be the same, so that they can stay together for a long time.
They work together tacitly and have similar topics. There are always endless words, and I am very happy and happy both physically and mentally. The Lord cherishes each other's every move.
When they are together, they always feel that time flies. The most important thing for two people to get along is to be understanding and tolerant. There are no 100 days to spend, no 1,000 days to live well, no matter how deep the relationship between two people is, there will definitely be times when they are noisy and angry after getting along for a long time.
What to do if you are noisy and angry?
It depends on the character and quality of the two people, who is cheerful and who is bright. Even if the trouble is turned upside down, once the trouble stops, both parties can think calmly. The noise just now wasn't worth it.
If we are lucky, we should know how to cherish it. Love requires emotional investment and material foundation, but it does not mean that you can enjoy love with money. There are countless ideas born every second in life, and every moment is easy to get lost and overwhelmed.
However, worrying about a hypothetical outcome every day is a bit of a mediocrity.
When nothing happens, it's too early to draw conclusions about an event or a relationship. Moreover, things like feelings can't be thought about. If you think about it too much, you will feel that this is not good, that is not good.
If you're doing well, you'll be covered with a layer of dust before you go down. Suffering from gains and losses will not give you peace of mind, nor will it allow things to run smoothly. No relationship is sweet from beginning to end, and there is no life without hurdles.
Only by living in the present can there be a future.
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I think the feeling of two people being together is the most important thing, two people don't have the feeling of love, those two people being together is a kind of torture, and money alone is not enough.
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The most important thing should be the three views of two people, only the three views are the same can go far, and there will be no frequent quarrels because of different concepts.
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Hello dear. The most important thing for me to do is trust each other. Trust is a bridge that connects two people's hearts.
If two people don't even have the least trust, then I think it is difficult for this relationship to have results, maybe a short period of suspicion, distrust can still be accepted, but marriage is a lifelong thing, so suspicious all day long, there will always be a day of impatience. Since we have decided to be together, we must believe in each other. I hope mine can help you, I wish you a happy life and a happy day!
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I think the most important thing is for two people to trust together. As long as there is enough trust. Two people will be very happy, and they will not quarrel often.
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The most important thing is that two people are comfortable together, if they are happy and happy, it means that two people are more suitable, and they break up if they quarrel often.
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