Why do you still hate me so much for bringing up your daughter?

The ancients said that life is a hodgepodge, and life has all kinds of flavors. Fathers and daughters are the same, daughters have grown up, and their outlook on life, values, and worldview is different from that of their parents. The times and experiences are different.

So it is inevitable that there will be times when fathers and daughters do not understand and quarrel. It may be due to some external conditions, family conditions, love for vanity, etc., resulting in mental imbalance. I still have some resentment towards my parents.

But the main thing is that the communication is not good. Strengthen communication and greet the cold and warmth at ordinary times, I believe that my daughter will understand her parents, and the son wants to be filial and not treated!

Bringing up my daughter with hard work means that there is a problem with communication with the child, which is why this happens, so it is necessary to communicate well with the child.

It may be that you have only neglected the issue of your child's education, so the child does not remember your good.

You think too much, and the meat ** that falls off your body has so much hatred. There must be some misunderstanding between the two of you, talk to the child and see if the problem arises.

It depends on what the reason is, so that it can be resolved, and the so-called grievances should be resolved rather than settled.

Your daughter doesn't know how to repay the favor, she has no gratitude, she thinks that you should help her take care of the child, and now you want to have a child, she feels that you are taking the child's love, so she speaks coldly to you.

To see if the way of paying is incorrect, sometimes the pay is inappropriate, not only will cause others to be disgusted, but they are also both thankless, but there will always be a return to pay, over time with the increase in age will always understand, it may just be that two people get along in different ways, different ages, then the way is different, the views are different, try to talk about the heart, understand each other more, ask your daughter what she really wants.

In today's society, children are rebellious. You help them do ten things, take one that doesn't suit their hearts, they deny it all, either noisy or screaming, they lose the word "filial piety", only the word "money", as the richest man. Don't you hate them?

If you want to open up and live a happy life! Let them go their own way and go with the flow.

Don't be sad, there must be some misunderstanding in the middle.

A tailor who can't drive is not a good cook. Do you understand?

Possibly your daughter. It's the rebellious period of youth, every child will be more or less with adults at this stage, what do you do, especially for the child to be patient, don't always order him to do what to do can talk to him like a friend, after all, the child grows up, needs a certain amount of space, in fact, he also knows that you bring him up very hard, but he doesn't want to say. Let's get along, or the situation will escalate.

The daughter is the mother's warm padded jacket, which you brought up, and should like you very much, if you don't like you, is it that you usually give him not enough love, usually accompany your daughter more, talk to her more, don't talk as an elder, as a friend.

It's not about liking or disliking, father and daughter may be together for a long time, the daughter's personality may be different from the father's personality, there may be some small contradictions and disputes in life, which cannot be alleviated through effective communication, resulting in a misunderstanding between father and daughter, after all, blood is thicker than water.

I can't talk about whether I like it or dislike with my child before, and the first child can't understand a lot of things when he is young, and he doesn't understand. The second may be that you are more strict with her, so she doesn't like it, but she will like it when she is older, and if she is filial to you, she will understand that you are good to her, and know that it is not easy for you, and sometimes she usually has to mention more that it is not easy for her to pull a child.

It only shows that you have fulfilled your parenting responsibilities. Also show that you are interested in educating children. Communicate with your child.

There is a big lack of understanding and understanding of children's thoughts. There will always be a period of rebellion in children. You have to fully understand.

And positive and upward guidance. Maybe your daughter likes you. It's just not good at expressing it.

How can this be, first of all, my daughter is not good at talking? Are you an introvert? Maybe you are too strict with her, and she does not approve of your family education style and is resistant?

The one who is in her is that you are too negligent with her emotions, let it go, follow her temperament, not responsible enough, she will not understand the gratitude, she does not get your love for her. No matter what the situation, you should know best, you should communicate with her well, get to know her, know her heart, be a qualified parent, bless you and your daughter, happy every day.

This has to be analyzed from all sides.,I don't know if the subject is a man or a woman, so she feels that her growth lacks the company of the other half, and it's a little angry with you.,And maybe you usually don't care too much about the child, or care too much about the child, so you don't have secrets to speak of, you may not like you very much.,So you have to find clues from your relationship.。

It's not that he doesn't like it, it's that there is a problem with your education, or it's a rebellious period, and he has his own ideas, so he can't understand that your approach is love now, and when she understands maternal love, she will change her opinion of you.

Daughters have feelings for their mothers, maybe you are too strict with her, but she still loves you in her heart.

Is the discipline too strict, or is it too lax?

You should know this question best, you are the first person in charge of the scene!

I don't like my mom either, but I know she's good for me.

I don't like my mom because she's really bad.

It is essential to distinguish between these two situations.

How old is she? Rebellious period? Maybe she's not grown up yet, and she can't understand your good intentions.

Sometimes you need to empathize with them, you can't impose your own ideas on the child, you have to communicate more with them to understand his inner thoughts.

Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you, and do unto others as you would have them do unto you. I don't know the desires of people, and I don't enter the hearts of people.

Maybe it's because of the way you love, and your daughter hasn't grown up yet.

There is no love without a reason, and there is no hate without a reason.

It's a single mother, I work very hard alone, raise my daughter, and provide him with college, but the daughter who goes to college is always not as good as outsiders, as if you are too strict with him, so he will feel that you are not as good as outsiders to her.

It's not easy for a mother, and her daughter doesn't know how to be blessed in the midst of happiness, and she is speechless. But as a mother, do her best, work hard, and provide for her daughter to finish college, she will always understand her mother's love in the future.

Because your daughter may not appreciate it, she is not sensible, and she will grow up slowly.

It's really hard to be a mother, and the daughter should know something, so it's necessary.

I'm a single mother, and I've worked hard to raise my daughter by myself and repay her for college, but my daughter who is in college always thinks that I'm not as good to her as outsiders?

The rebellious period is good slowly.

This may be the rebellious psychology of adolescence, and after a while he will think that you are good.

always ignores the people closest to her, and her family takes it for granted how good she is, and the small favor of outsiders thinks that she is super good to herself, probably everyone is like this.

Maybe it's because we love it too much, sometimes we should let it go, don't be too strict, they will be disgusted.

What a white-eyed wolf! Children of single parents have personalities! Lack of communication, no sense of security!

This is a very normal phenomenon, children have a psychological phenomenon, always feel that their family does not understand them, and they are not good enough for themselves. You may be more strict with her, and she will have the psychology of feeling that you love to control her, so she will have this kind of thought. Your daughter is also in college, and you don't need to care too much about what you should let go, you just need to give her a bottom line that you can accept, they are all adults, and she can understand what you say.

Don't talk to her too often, once a week is fine, slowly improve the atmosphere between you, and she won't have that kind of thought.

My daughter:

Read your composition. Mom and Dad were very happy and very touched. Glad it is:

Your essay tells the story clearly and clearly, and there are some sentences and words that we feel are at a very high level. What touched us is that through this essay, we see that you are growing healthily.

Hopefully, on the one hand, our daughter's writing skills will continue to improve, and on the other hand, she will grow up healthy and happy.