What are the unfilial behaviors, and the top ten unfilial behaviors

1.Let the elderly stay alone in the empty nest At present, this is a common phenomenon Children work in the field, rarely go home during the year, the older the parents, the more they want them to be around, even if they go home more to see, but they will always refuse under the excuse of work, and would rather have fun with friends than accompany their parents, which is "unfilial piety".

2.Parents are old and should have children to support, even though most parents now have pensions.

Or prepare some money for their own pension, do not need them to support, and should never ask their parents again, some children can't ask for it, but complain about their parents, this kind of gnawing old behavior is the biggest unfilial piety.

3.Let the old people take their children "The old people with the baby" has become a trend, young people are born, the elderly are raised, the most terrible thing is that many young people still take it for granted, thinking that they make money to support their families, and the elderly have nothing to do, but they did not expect that their parents are already old and need to recuperate

4.Parents who do not support themselves, for the parents who raised us, when they are old, we, as children, do not support them, many urban and rural areas have this phenomenon, it is not uncommon, and some parents take it to court.

There are many kinds of unfilial behavior, and failure to fulfill the responsibilities of future generations is the most unfilial.

Source: Mencius said: "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great." Shun married without telling him, and he had no queen. The gentleman thought it was too much. ”

Interpretation: There are many kinds of unfilial behavior, and failure to fulfill the responsibilities of future generations is the most unfilial. Shun married a wife without telling his parents, and he failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a descendant. The gentleman thinks it's better to tell his parents.

The other two unfilial behaviors are: blindly obeying one's parents, and not persuading one's parents when they see them making mistakes, which is trapping them in injustice. The family is poor, and the parents are old, so they don't support their parents with their own money.

The meaning of filial piety.

The meaning of filial piety lies in the fact that "it begins with the family, the middle is in the matter, and finally the body is established." A person can be benevolent and virtuous, obey filial piety, and be able to love his family and filial piety in the family, and will not become a rebel son who is not filial.

In their work, they will be able to act conscientiously and loyally, and will not become selfish, corrupt, corrupt, and corrupt. For themselves, they can become sages and gentlemen who stand up to the sky, and will not become a scum who only knows how to eat, drink and enjoy themselves and endanger society.

1. Give your parents things they don't want, such as mobile phones; 2. Let your parents do your laundry and cook for you, and don't help sweep and cook when you get home from work; 3. Impatience with parents, such as teaching computers for half a day, they will not be irritable; 4. Go home to see your parents only once a year, such as once during the Chinese New Year; 5. Gnawing on the elderly, such as asking the family to pay the rent and not paying it back; 6. Let the parents make a down payment for the purchase of a house, such as asking the parents to sell the house to make a down payment; 7. Let your parents help you take care of your children, such as asking your parents to help take care of your children and not giving you money for milk powder; 8. Love travel, such as never taking your parents on a trip but flying around all over the sky; 9. Play games, such as chatting with your parents to change the time in order to play a copy; 10. Those who are not married at the age of 30;

1.I dislike my parents for being poor, and I don't give myself money to spend. 2.

I don't care about my parents' physical and mental health. 3.Parents don't go home to help when they are in difficulty.

4.When parents are old and frail, they do not take the initiative to honor their parents. 5.

Parents who are sick do not seek medical advice from their parents. 6.When parents give little red envelopes to children, they scold their parents and beat and scold them.

Mountain shirt height 7Don't listen to your parents, collapse and dislike your parents' nagging.

1.Throwing tantrums and yelling at parents.

Emotions need to be regulated by each of us, and it is also a reflection of emotional intelligence. Parents are dignified and worthy of gratitude in the eyes of their children, and if their children often show tantrums, parents should pay attention to them. People say that "poor raise children, rich raise daughters", daughters generally grow up in the love of their families, and are accustomed to the unconditional dedication of their families to her.

However, parents should not be pampered without restraint, which will make their daughters develop an arrogant personality, and it will be difficult to correct them when they grow up.

2.Selfish and unwilling to share with others.

China's original family planning policy meant that many families had only one child and had little interaction with their peers before going to school. The family is bent on giving the best to the child and has never asked for anything from the child. As a result, many children take all this for granted and have no awareness of sharing it with others.

Nowadays, many parents are "daughter slaves" and adopt rich education methods for their daughters, resulting in many girls being accustomed to "princess disease" and not knowing how to share. Parents should change it quickly, otherwise their daughters will be prone to disobedience in the future.

3.Shirk responsibility and do not admit their mistakes.

Having a sense of responsibility is an indispensable quality in the process of growing up, and we often focus on boys and tell them that "a manly man, be a responsible person". In fact, parents of both boys and girls should cultivate their sense of responsibility.

1. Try to build a more intimate relationship with your child.

When children grow up, they are unwilling to be grateful and unfilial to their parents, largely because their family life is unhappy, which leaves a psychological shadow on their childhood. This also provides an idea for parents to educate their children: let their children live in a happy family environment.

a.Review yourself.

Parents can first think about the relationship with their children, judge their strengths and weaknesses in daily life, try to overcome their shortcomings, and let their children see their efforts and be slowly influenced.

b.Communicate with your child.

The function of language is to strengthen our relationship, not to cause a "storm". It is very normal for parents and children to have different cognitions at different ages, and parents should take the initiative to talk to their children and understand their inner dynamics in a timely manner.

2. Set an example for your children.

It is said that "parents are children's first teachers", and many of the practices of children are actually learned from parents. In terms of filial piety, parents can set a benchmark for their children through their own behavior, so that they can realize the importance of filial piety as a traditional virtue. In many festivals, China pays attention to family reunions, and parents can vividly explain the connotation of "gratitude" by helping the older generation to do housework and caring for the older generation.

3. Educate children on gratitude.

Parents can select stories about filial piety in a targeted manner, share them with their children, and teach them the right concepts. In addition to this, there are also stories about "gratitude" that happen in real life, and parents can use it to educate their children.

Children will encounter some problems in the process of growing up, and if there are bad signs, parents should take quick measures to make their daughters become filial and lovable children.

1. Contradicting parents and making them angry.

As I said before, some children are pistachios at home, so there are naturally "bomb nuts" with pistachios, such as this kind of child.

We see no shortage of similar children on "Metamorphosis", who have no respect for their parents, and punch and kick their parents when something goes wrong, just because they don't want their parents to feel good.

When the child begins to contradict himself, parents must figure out whose fault it is, if the fault is not their own, then they must not become accustomed to the child's love of contrarianism.

2. Lack of gratitude.

Parents are tired and tired of working outside to earn money to support their families, but some children do not pay attention to it or are grateful, they just open their mouths and clothes to stretch out their hands, and they just ask their parents for money if they have no money.

How did such a child come out? We might as well think about it, after the family has dinner, the child pushes away the rice bowl and then goes to watch TV, what is delicious to eat for the first time, and will not share, is the second parent accustomed to this?

Parents should not interfere with their children, nor should they take care of everything, and it is not impossible for children to experience the hardships of life.

3. Occupation. This kind of hegemony is not the maintenance of one's own sovereignty, but the attitude of such hegemony even towards parents, such as food.

If the parents of a child who is accustomed to arrogance do not guide him correctly, but say "he is still just a child", then it will only encourage the child's arrogance, and it will be even more impossible for his parents to tolerate his parents taking anything from him when he grows up. This kind of child only sees himself, how can he be filial to his parents?

Fourth, shirk responsibility.

Children who are accustomed to shirking their responsibilities do not take responsibility, which is not only detrimental to the child's future development, but also due to the doting of parents, children develop self-centered habits, and when they encounter things, they will only push away their parents, and there is no sense of responsibility, so it is very likely that their parents will have no one to support them when they are old.

Whether children are filial or not is related to the word "love", it depends on how parents understand love. Spoiling children should also master the size, and must not let the children take it for granted, otherwise the cultivation of unfilial children is only a matter of time.

Filial piety or unfilial piety can be seen from the face! The so-called "filial piety first", filial piety is something that every parent wants to see, but not every woman has a grateful heart and will be filial to you; Among them, many children are rebellious in their hearts, rebellious in character, and can even be said to be an unfilial daughter. So from the perspective of physiognomy columns, what kind of characteristics will an unfilial girl have?

Physiognomy 23 First, we can look at the physiognomy of the sun and moon angles.

The sun and moon angle is located above our eyebrows, which is the position of the middle part of our eyebrows, and the sun and moon angle is also called the parental palace, which has an important connection with the fortune and relationship of the parents, not only that, but also from the face of the parental palace, you can also see a person's filial piety; In other words, whether she is a filial girl or an unfilial son can be seen through from the sun and moon on her face.

According to the theory of physiognomy, if a person's Japanese corner is relatively full, a person with such facial characteristics is a person whose parents have good luck and are very filial to their parents, and have a very harmonious relationship with their parents, so they are filial sons with most of them!

Physiognomy 24 But if a person's sun and moon angles are sunken, and there are scars on the sun and moon corners, such a sun and moon angle physiognomy actually implies that his parents are not lucky, and the relationship between them and his parents is tense, and people with such facial features are still a very unfilial person, they even have hatred in their hearts, thinking that all their misfortunes are caused by their parents, so people with such a face are particularly unfilial!

Secondly, we can look at the physiognomy at the corners of the eyes.

Filial piety is from the heart, a person's filial piety or unfilial piety, can be seen from the corner of a person's eyes, after all, the face of the eyes is linked to our heart, and what we think in our hearts are related.

According to the theory of physiognomy, if a person's eyes are very divine and upright, such a person with facial characteristics has an upright heart, a clear distinction between good and evil, and a grateful heart, so it will be a filial girl, they can be filial to their parents and elders, and take good care of them!

Physiognomy 25 But if a person's eyes are crooked, and the corners of the eyes are hanging, forming the physiognomy characteristics of hanging eyes, then most of the people with such physiognomy characteristics are selfish villains who are weak in family affection, unkind, and will take revenge, and a woman with such a face is also an unfilial son!

Secondly, we can also look at the physiognomy of the eyebrows.

The face of the eyebrows is related to a person's family affection, six relatives, brothers' fortunes, etc., the eyebrows are sparse, thin, and people without eyebrows, most of them are people who are unaffectionate and cold in their hearts, such people are selfish and self-interested, and their hearts are not filial.

It's not like you are acting against your parents in everything, not caring about your parents, not being filial to your parents, often quarreling with your parents, either beating or scolding.

First, if you are not filial, you can't be close to your family, that is, you can't be filial to your parents and don't love your family; Second, unfilial piety is not able to serve the king, that is, it means that you cannot abide by your duties and act loyally; The three unfilial piety is that you cannot stand up and do the way, that is, you cannot become a virtuous man and gentleman.

However, a sentence that has always been well-known to the public is "there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest", and it is generally believed that not having children is the greatest unfilial piety. But this sentence was said by Mencius when he commented on Shun's marriage, and his original meaning was not to mean this, but to say that Shun married on his own without informing his parents.

Three unfilial piety] refers to framing relatives and injustice, not seeking eunuchs, and having no children to worship.

Meaning] Three kinds of disobedience to parents.

From] "Mencius: Lilou Shang" "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great" Han Zhao Qi Note: "There are three things for unfilial people in Yuli: it is said that Ah Yi is obedient, trapped in relatives and unrighteousness, and one is not filial; The family is poor and old, not for Lu Shi, and the second is not filial; Don't marry and have no children, never worship ancestors, and don't be filial.

Among the three, no queen is the greatest. ”