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As a daughter, first of all, she should often go to her parents' house to walk around, talk to her parents more, and help her parents do more housework, especially during the holidays or especially the holidays or parents' birthdays, remember that even if you don't take any valuables, you have to go home to see, what parents value is not gifts or gifts, but family affection. Usually we should pay more attention to the health of our parents, food, clothing, housing and transportation. Even if you can't stay by your parents' side and do your filial piety, you must fight more and communicate more.
If possible, if possible, bring your parents to you as much as possible, and fulfill your responsibilities. It can also make parents happy with their families.
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Filial piety must be long-term, not temporary: our parents have dedicated their lives to us, and even if we cannot live with joy for life, we should provide for it for a long time, so that we have nothing to lack. Filial piety must be substantive, not superficial, and there are about five things:
One is diet, the second is clothing, the third is daily life, the fourth is disease, and the fifth is pleasing relatives.
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There are too many places for daughters to be filial to their parents, first of all, don't let your parents have no money, do your best to let your parents have no worries about food and clothing, and secondly, you should often go home to accompany your parents, regularly clean and clean your parents' home, wash and change, our parents raised us from a young age, we have to raise our parents well, which is what children should do.
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I would often go home to visit my parents, chat with them, eat with them, snuggle up to my mom and watch TV with her.
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Filial piety comes first. First of all, be kind to the elderly. I believe that only when the elderly are satisfied in both spiritual and material aspects, can children truly fulfill their filial piety.
Therefore, in life, children should try their best to obey the elderly, communicate with the elderly, and soothe the spirit of the elderly. In terms of material, we should also try to meet the needs of the elderly, so that the clothing, food, housing and transportation of the elderly can be guaranteed. The old people hope that their children will find some free time, find some time, and take their children home often.
In terms of the filial piety needs of the elderly, their spiritual needs are better than their material needs, and the so-called spiritual needs are to hope that their children will communicate and exchange more with themselves, so that their lives are full of family affection. In addition, older persons need respect and kindness from their children. In life, older people expect their children to fully respect their life choices.
Therefore, children should respect the elderly everywhere, even some shortcomings of the elderly, and children should be more tolerant and understanding.
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When children honor their parents, they should deeply understand and appreciate the great amount of energy and blood and sweat that their parents spend in the process of raising themselves, as well as the most sincere, greatest and most selfless dedication they have shown, so that they can care, care for and serve their parents with a loving heart that reciprocates their parents' kindness, so that they feel comfortable, happy and satisfied. Specifically:
First of all, care for and take care of the lives of parents, and fulfill the obligation to support parents. Children should carefully consider their parents' daily life, food, clothing, and work, and make thoughtful arrangements to create a good living environment for them, so that they can work energetically or spend their old age in peace. When parents are sick, they should be diagnosed and treated in time and taken care of carefully.
During the New Year's holidays or parents' birthdays, buy some food that suits their tastes to express a little filial piety for their children. If parents are in trouble, children should do their best to help them, preferring to have difficulties themselves rather than allowing them to make things difficult for them. What the elderly need more is spiritual support.
The living conditions are better, the economy is not worried, and the feeling of being happy when I saw my children come back with some money and something no longer exists. It is better to just see if the child is fat and thin, and to be willing to cook a meal for him, which will make the old people get a kind of pleasure that cannot be obtained financially, and this feeling from the psychology will be more lasting and more real.
I didn't realize the need of parents for their children before, but it wasn't until my son went to boarding school this year that I suddenly lost a lot of my heart, and I realized that my parents must have lost this kind of loss for me. We are always immersed in the life of "busy, busy, busy", but we don't know the true meaning of life. What we need is not more money, no more recognition from the world, in fact, just the knowing smile of the family.
When you put your parents in the same position as your children, you will be delighted by a knowing smile from your parents.
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My parents are very traditional people, they live very regular lives, but there are also some habits that I feel a little unbearable because of this.
First of all, they are very clean and hygienic. They have to wipe the floors, do the laundry, wash the dishes, clean the windows, and so on every day. Although this is a normal behavior, but sometimes they keep cleaning the same place, which makes me feel a little overhygienic.
For example, they will rub the same floor over and over again until it shines, even though it already looks clean.
Secondly, they like to watch TV in the morning while they have breakfast. Every morning, they would turn on the TV and watch TV while eating breakfast. Although it is a habit of theirs, I feel that this habit is very time-consuming and not very healthy.
I think you should focus on breakfast and not watch TV when you eat it.
Also, my parents were a little too frugal. They often collect things that I don't think are useful and keep them at home. While frugality is a good habit, sometimes their frugality strikes me as a little too extreme.
For example, they will save some expired food and continue to eat it, although it is not good for health, but they always think that the food is still edible.
In the end, they always like to interfere in my life. They always think their lifestyle is the best, so I should live my life their way. While their approach is a more traditional one, I think everyone has their own way of life and choices, and we should respect each other's choices.
Overall, while I respect my parents' habits, I also want them to understand and respect my way of life. I think everyone has their own habits and choices, and we should respect each other's differences and live together on the basis of mutual understanding and respect.
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The first is to be healthy. As we age, everything in the body's functions is slowly degrading, just like an old machine, due to long-term friction, all parts are not very bright, and need to be well maintained and maintained. Decades of experience have taught us that everything is outside the body, and only health is the most important.
Therefore, the first thing we need to do is to take good care of and maintain our body, that is, to be kind to ourselves. Don't always think about bringing grandchildren for your children and so on, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, the previous decades of efforts are enough, now you should think more about yourself. Start with yourself and be kind to yourself.
Second, to fulfill the dream you wanted to achieve when you were young. For example, studying, a variety of hobbies that I always wanted to learn when I was young but couldn't learn for various reasons. For example, traveling, seeing the beautiful rivers and mountains of the motherland.
Don't always be confined at home, as long as your body allows, you can go out for a walk every year, and enjoy the beauty of rivers and rivers in a limited number of years.
Third, if you have the ability and desire, you can also choose to continue working and give full play to your spare heat to the best of your ability. Because people who are always in the state of work appear younger and more energetic.
Fourth, hold your money bag tightly. If you want to have a secure life, the economy is the key. Don't pin your old age's happiness and hope on others, and children are no exception.
Fifth, have more fun and exercise more. It is often said that it is important to maintain an optimistic and cheerful mood when you have a smile. The other is to exercise more and strive to improve physical fitness and quality of life. We must not only live long, but also live happily with dignity and quality.
I think that having the above should be the greatest happiness of the elderly.
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I am willing, I am from the countryside, and my parents are frugal enough for me to study, so I am determined to let them live a better life, and I am working hard.
After working for four years and thousands of miles away from home, the traditional Mid-Autumn Festival Dragon Boat Festival is unable to go home, and can only express feelings of longing through **. Alright, let's get down to business.
Gold earrings and bracelets (the father only bought her a ring, which is a must for his son), especially when she sees the mother's smile on her face wearing these items, no matter how hard it is, it is worth the effort. You can imagine the look on her face when someone asks who bought her bracelet when she washes the dishes.
My father loved to drink liquor and buy liquor. Love to drink tea and buy tea. The razor I bought for him has been used ever since. In short, things are not necessarily precious to me, but I can do my best to make them feel my filial piety, and I am very happy.
While it was their greatest wish to find the one with whom I would spend the rest of their lives, I still had a lot to buy for them until then. My father loved to listen to the radio every day to learn all kinds of information (I was using English from my college days, it's been seven years), and it was time to give him a new one.
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First, we must be moderately tolerant and slowly reformed. From unfilial piety to filial piety, there is often a process. Most children do not experience the hardships of parenting until they give birth to children, and only then do they realize that filial piety is the reward for the kindness of their parents.
It should be noted that children's filial piety to their parents is a basic requirement of human affection. The crow still knows how to feed back, and the lamb can kneel to suckle, not to mention the spirit of all things, a human being with rich feelings? Trust your children to understand this.
Second, we must adjust our mentality and comfort ourselves. The elderly should realize that it is their duty to raise their children, and that parents do not want to return their children's efforts. Some people say:
Children are a natural debt. "Raising children is to pay off the debt, and after paying off the debt, you will be relaxed, and your attitude will be open-minded.
The third is to seek truth from facts and avoid comparison. To be honest, there is no unified standard for children's filial piety and unfilial piety. Children have the elderly in their hearts, and it is already good to be able to buy some food that the elderly like to eat, help the elderly to do something, and give the elderly spiritual comfort.
The elderly should not always compare their children with the children of other people's families, because the family background is different, and they should think more about their children.
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