Why do I always have guys talking to me about their problems? Busy, but not good to refuse, what sho

Updated on psychology 2024-07-11
60 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Hungry, you're exactly like me! I really feel annoyed, and the relationship is very good, I have always been patient to talk to him about his problems, but now I really can't stand it!

    I think people still have to focus on their own lives, although they don't mean to, but they do affect your life, so don't wronged yourself, tell him clearly what you think, or hint to him about your feelings.

    In short, don't force yourself, and don't blame yourself for your friend for saying what you really think, he can't see that you're unhappy, and he's wrong.

    This is my point of view, I don't know if it's different from yours

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    They trust you, because I'm like that, so I understand.

    But I don't know how to say no, after all, it's good to feel the trust of others.

    I have to be patient and help every time, after all, it's good to have more good friends, I think.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's good that he trusts you and tells you his secrets, and you should be glad you have such a friend.

    If you're really annoyed, don't reply to him, saying that you forgot to bring your own mobile phone.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You don't have to be invisible on QQ, as soon as they talk to you, you say I'm a good friend or sister or something, she's out, and when you're done, get off QQ, Europe!

    **Well, let's just say that you were imprisoned by your parents, and they never wanted your parents to know about it!! Hey.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Generally speaking, I like you. At least the subconscious mind is like this.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That's how good it is, you have to help them, because they don't know how to deal with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask one by one, "Do you like me?" and no one asks you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    See if you like him or not, this is a time to be a brave ...... for girls

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell him. It is he who you love.

    Not anything.

    Everything in the future can be done with him.

    Let him have confidence.

    Tell him. You won't drag him down at any point.

    Pay silently.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on whether he has a future, and if he has no future, give up as soon as possible, so as to save him from suffering.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Continue

    Rare good boys

    Help him get rid of his low self-esteem

    good luck~~~

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    ContinueTell him to have faith in himself.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you are a person who does not pay much attention to the family environment, then don't give up for your own happiness, but sometimes if you don't give up, your family will persuade you to give up, which is a big resistance, but I think the family environment doesn't say anything.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The time has come to test your feelings.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He gave up on his own, what else do you have to fight for??

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Maybe it's because of the economic conditions and family background, maybe it's because of his personality, maybe he focuses on his studies or work and has no intention of talking about friends, for fear of disappointing the person he likes, so he rejects her.

    Of course, there is also a possibility that he doesn't like this girl at all.

    But if you can say that you don't like it, you're a good boy, unlike some boys who just play around.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Wrong, it's that he doesn't like that girl.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, any outsider could tell that the boy didn't like the girl.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's all a reason to shirk, just tactfully, to reject a girl for your own bad reasons, maybe you are not the type he likes, and you don't want to refuse too bluntly, because this will hurt the girl's heart; If that's not the case, he's really not good

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Excuses!! Don't like that girl!! It's not you, are you!! Hehe!! Top you!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Excuses, excuses.

    It's just that men don't like women.

    I don't want the two of them to tear their faces.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    It's an excuse. The subtext is that girls aren't good enough.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, he has a crush on you, but you have to take your time to see who he is before deciding.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you think he can't talk when you meet you, and you don't mind socializing with him, then talk to him, and if you think he's a veteran of relationships, see if he can be responsible for you.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you like to talk to him, it's okay to talk, but if he wants to chase you but you don't feel for him, it's better to avoid it a little.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There may be no confidence, your appearance, you may stutter physically with disabilities, these may be, yes, first make you fall in love with him through QQ, when a woman falls in love with a man, she will ignore the defects of her body, otherwise I really don't know why.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Love is nothing else, you can't be embarrassed to refuse, otherwise people will misunderstand, it's not good for others, and it's not good for yourself! I don't like him to tell him directly, even if he is very sad, but it will be fine after a while, love can't be secondary!

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If there is nothing particularly unacceptable, you can try to accept it, and give people a chance is also give yourself a chance.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I guess it's the same with the girl I like.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Do you like him? Do you feel it? Or do you hate him so much because I also like a girl, she didn't say she likes me, she doesn't say she doesn't like it, I've always been nice to her, and now I'm still waiting for her What about you ? Is this person annoying to you?

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    You can tell him: I don't want to be in a relationship right now. It's a bit dirty) to tell you, oh, you don't like him, and accepting him is the real hurt!

    Love is not sympathy, if you really don't have any special feelings for him.

    Just tell him that you prefer to be friends with him.

    It's okay to stick to your ideas!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's best not to hurt the other person. You can be friends with him first.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You go find someone you like, and he'll give you up.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Find another boyfriend you like.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's uncomfortable! It's better to be straightforward.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    To put it bluntly, procrastination is more painful ......

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    You're that guy, right?

    I can only say that that girl doesn't like your type.

    Another person might still be chasing you.

    Right? Don't think too rigidly.

    Believe in yourself. It's going to get better.

    I just fell out of love today.

    Isn't it much better now?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Not back then, it's just that this girl didn't like it or wasn't suitable, there are thousands of beauties in the world, there is always one suitable for you.

    Repeated defeats and battles show the true colors of men.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    She doesn't like you, it doesn't mean you're bad, it's just that you haven't met someone who likes you

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Radish and cabbage personal love, a person doesn't like you, it can only mean that you are not the type she likes, and other girls may still like you very much. If all the girls don't like you, then you have a problem.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    On the other hand, you imagine that you have no feelings or dislikes for a girl, will you reject her??

    She thinks you're not a good fit for her, so she rejects you!

    You can't give up the whole Hainan Island for a coconut tree! Brothers!

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    , how can you let others evaluate your own worth, 100 people don't recognize you and it may mean that you can't do something, and it's impossible for one person to deny a person.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    No, why hang yourself from a tree! The poplar doesn't like you, the willow probably likes you.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It only shows that this girl will not really appreciate this boy, and boys don't have to waste time for people who don't appreciate themselves!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    No, think of it that way.

    There's a girl who likes me, but I don't like her, and yet, this girl has other boys who like it, and you don't know.

    Think about it from the heart, and sometimes you have to learn to empathize (very important).

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's not bad, it's just that the two sides are not suitable.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Let a friend give it back to him for you. Send him a text message to tell him what you think.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Find a thick-skinned friend and help you pay it back!

    Thank you, but not acceptable!

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Or dun yourself

    Go and return it to him, and give yourself more courage! ~

    Thank you DAO for your kindness! I know the answer! But I can't accept your courtesy!

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    He said to him, "Thank you, this gift is beautiful, but this gift will surely find a better owner." ”

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I think the most euphemistic way to do this is to wrap it in paper and attach a letter to it, explaining your thoughts. And then give it to him (don't say anything, let him be depressed).

    Supplement: Tell her directly.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    I don't think so, it's normal to refuse and be rejected, and I didn't chase it to show that the other party thinks there is something inappropriate between you. You can start all over again.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    No, it can only be said that their personalities are different, and not being suitable does not mean that it is your fault, and no one is wrong, but she is not the person you want to spend your life with.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Sometimes rejection is not a bad thing, otherwise there will be no divorce, as for what you said that if a boy chases a girl and is rejected, does it mean that he is going to be a bachelor in his life? This is the real reason why you are rejected, you can see your arrogance and self-confidence from these words, the most important thing in life is proportion!

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    It shows that the other party does not have a good impression of you, that is, the feeling of the relationship between men and women, and you may not meet her (?).Such as height, appearance, family, capital, etc.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    No, it can only be said that the two of them are not suitable, everyone will have his other half waiting for him in this world, don't worry.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    ……It's so funny today......

    Chasing a girl and being rejected will be a single ...... in this life

    What kind of logic......

    Unless the matriarchal creature on Earth is the only one with that girl, there is no such possibility...

    The landlord is innocent, ......

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    How can the equation be drawn in this way?

    Of course not!

    Fate is unattainable, don't force it if it doesn't belong to you, and when the fate that belongs to people comes, you have to continue!

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    It shows that the man can find a better one than her.

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Find the reason, but you can't find it, don't be discouraged and don't blame yourself, maybe you will have another side of yourself that you have to know anew.

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