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First of all, I think that girls read too much, not because they can't get married, but because I can choose not to marry or have a higher vision and higher requirements. In the ancient era of male ploughing and female weaving, women may lack autonomy and then will be subordinate to men to survive, in modern society, first of all, highly educated women have different values, may produce higher pursuit goals, take the principle of preferring shortage to excess, has always felt that there will be a better choice, so has been choosing to drag or wait state. Moreover, after higher education, many people may first pursue the realization of self-worth or the idea of breaking into the world, and then pay attention to their private life, and at this time they have basically reached the stage of older leftover women, so it will be very difficult to get married due to the problem of age.
In addition, in modern society, everyone has their own social circle, friends, family, and their own economy, and highly educated women will be more independent in life, not dependent on anyone, and have independent financial ability to support themselves. In fact, if you are not particularly concerned about loneliness, it is easier to satisfy when you have your own social circle or hobbies, and it is not so important whether you get married or not, because you can also live well without relying on your husband. The higher the girl's education, the purer the pursuit of love may be, unlike ordinary people who only consider whether the other party has a house and a car, whether he is raising me and the like, because even if a highly educated woman marries a poor person, she can buy a house and a car by herself, which meets her material needs, and they are more concerned about spiritual pursuit, the pursuit of like-mindedness, the pursuit of pure emotion, and now the society wants to find pure love is also very difficult, so, I think this is also the reason why highly educated women don't marry or can't marry if they want to.
The last one should be at the level of a strong woman, she has her own career and life goals, all their energy is focused on the hard work of their careers, and they have no extra energy to focus on their feelings, and for various reasons, they will not be lonely, just like Coco, the founder of Chanel, she has never been married in her life, and she is still living well. Therefore, there are many reasons why highly educated women do not get married or do not want to get married, and it is not simply "unable to get married".
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It would be wrong to interpret this sentence unilaterally. On the one hand, the reason why girls can't get married after studying should be caused by themselves, and girls who read a lot have a sense of superiority in their hearts, so that when they look for a boyfriend, they naturally block men with lower education than themselves, so in the eyes of most men, they have become synonymous with arrogance and hard to chase; On the other hand, the reason should be men's inferiority complex, they think that girls who read more and have high education will look down on themselves, if they find such a girlfriend, it will make men uncomfortable, rather than find someone with lower education and ability than themselves, which can also stimulate men's sense of superiority. So these two reasons cause girls who read a lot to give the impression that it is difficult to marry.
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It's just that I personally think this sentence is still not very reasonable, whether you can marry or not, it has nothing to do with how many books you read, it may just be a matter of time or later, maybe some people have a doctorate or something, and then they may not be so feudal in their thinking, and they will not be so backward, and then they will not think about getting married or something, they may also want to work hard in their careers, so they marry relatively late, but it doesn't mean that they can't get married, and then they may not be able to marry if they read less books.
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Hey, I'm afraid I can see the man's little tricks clearly, and it's not enough for her to play. At least tell us that there are more scumbags in history than now, and we should cherish the good ones. Reading books is to learn to live better.
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Hello friends, people say that a girl's marriage is a second reincarnation, and it doesn't matter if you don't read the book well. The most important thing is to marry the right person.
First of all, be clear in your heart. You are going to marry a person, not his family, his family background. It's not his personal relationship, which is the most important thing.
Marriage is the most important thing in a woman's life. If you marry right, you will be happy for the rest of your life. You don't have to worry about food and clothing on weekdays.
The old man in the family is kind. His own children are very sensible and well-behaved. It shows that you are very happy in your married life.
Opposite. If you look away, you marry a particularly hypocritical, particularly lazy, and unenterprising person. Then your life will be particularly unsatisfactory.
You will feel particularly aggrieved and aggrieved. Life like this, the more desperate it becomes. There is no hope in this man.
There is no future.
That's why girls are looking for boyfriends and looking for marriage partners. Be sure to pay attention. Looking for one.
Come with a kindness. Have a stable job. And one more.
Strive for an upward heart. A boy with a sunny personality and a special responsibility.。 Be a husband.
In this way, life will be comfortable. Find such a husband and live a life. You will be happy and satisfied.
It was especially meaningful. In this way, you will have hope and prudence in your future life. This is the thrill of being married.
Advice for women who are not married, girls. I hope for those. Girls can find one.
People who love themselves, love themselves, and understand themselves. Happiness to old age.
Good luck.
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Whether you marry well or not, it has nothing to do with whether you read more or not. The most important thing is to meet the right person who really loves each other, so that we can be happy together, as long as it is a passionate and honest, caring girl believes that she can marry a good man and be happy.
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I don't agree with that.
It is a wrong statement and perception that girls who do not study and have no education, and it is difficult to marry well. Now if a girl wants to marry well, she must study more, because rich families with good conditions like educated girls, and for the sake of their face and for the sake of their offspring, they will look for educated and highly intelligent girls. So now it is difficult for girls who do not study to marry.
Girls can study more in order to be independent, improve their social status, and have their own lives. A literate girl can stand taller, and she will go hand in hand with her husband to build a harmonious family, so that it is possible to enter a Kochi family and be valued by a family with good conditions. If a girl does not study and has no education, and relies on her husband or in-law for everything, then she will have no status, and her life will not be happy.
In today's society where men and women are equal, girls should read more books to improve their social status and have independent personality and self-esteem. Only if you have culture and status will you live a chic life that others can afford, if you just have beauty and no knowledge and no connotation, even if you find a husband with better conditions after old age and decay, marriage will also enter a crisis, especially when people are old and yellow, it is possible to embark on the road of divorce, and there will be nothing at that time.
Girls don't read too many books, it's better to read than to marry well, this is a wrong statement, it is the practice of teaching fate to others, even if you are beautiful, you can't be without culture, it will only be a vase without connotation. After marrying a beautiful vase, a person may cherish it for a year or two, but after a long time, he will get bored, and it is possible that a new vase will come into his sight, and the original vase will be replaced. Therefore, girls should also study more, improve their social status and temperament through reading, so that girls can marry better.
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About this sentence, I think it's like this, you said don't read too many books, I think it's definitely wrong, there is a ** house in the book, I think both boys and girls can read, you say don't read too many books, I don't know what level you say this is talking about, don't finish the first grade, the second grade or the third grade, anyway, I think you say this, the first sentence must be wrong. There is no doubt about it, I used to know a lot of girls, and because they read well and studied well, then in this case, then I think they can find a better job, and that's it.
7. In the second sentence, I said that it is better to read than to marry, and I still agree with this sentence, because no matter how good a girl reads, if she marries badly, it is also a very bad thing, and it is also a very heartwarming thing. I've seen a girl before, her academic performance is very good, but she didn't marry very well, and then divorced, in fact, I think it's a pity, I think it's like this, anyway, I think you have these two sentences, the first sentence I can never recognize, the second sentence I can say to you 80% depth, it's such a thing. In fact, the quality of reading is very high for a person's cultivation, if he can continue to move forward in the future, it must be a better thing, but if you say that girls can't read, or that you don't need to read too many books, I Duan Doubury must think it's wrong.
The words of the ** material in the book are not false, but a real case, anyway, I think this is the case, the words in real life are always full of various setbacks, if he reads less, then he sees less of the world, then his life will definitely be unsatisfactory in the future. Anyway, I think that if you hold a girl, you should read, and if you read, you shouldn't be less than what you read a boy, at least you should read the same, but the second sentence is not as good as marrying, and I should approve of this sentence.
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I don't quite recognize this sentence, and girls also sing the song of reading more in the town, because only by reading more, can their minds be more open, and at the same time, they can also think more open-mindedly about marriage.
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Of course I don't agree, I think that now men and women are equal, and even girls are better than boys, and most girls now have a very independent concept of rotational rent. It's best to rely on your own wild lead.
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I don't agree with it, because I feel that if a girl only wants to make her life rich by marrying a good man, right and wrong are often easy to be abandoned.
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The requirement for a rural man to marry a wife is to be obedient, and the spiritual level of a woman is not high. Therefore, women with low education are more in line with their view of mate selection, while women with high education have their own opinions and cannot blindly obey, so this kind of woman has become a man's second choice, and there are the following reasons:
OneWomen who have not studied entered society very early, and it is their wish to find a man to marry.
Women who don't read have low requirements for men, and as long as men ask for warmth a little, they will be very moved. This kind of woman often has no opinions, and when she hears others say that she should marry someone as soon as possible, as long as she meets a similar man, it is easy to marry herself.
IIThe women who did not study were relatively young, and most of the women who did read were in their twenties after graduation.
After finishing college, they are generally about twenty-two years old, and if they work for another year or two, it is easy to become an older leftover girl. If you have a high degree of education, your vision will be high, and your requirements for men will be high, and they will not consider men who have little knowledge, and for men, this kind of woman is not their first choice, not obedient enough, and does not meet their requirements.
IIIMost men marry wives mainly to have children.
And women with high education do not have a strong desire to give birth, and feel that children are hindering their lives. So it's contrary to the needs of men. The concept of Chinese men is generally still very traditional, and they can't accept the fact that women don't have children, so they are more willing to marry a woman who is willing to have children.
The poorer the place, the lower the cultural requirements of men for women, they generally demand to be young and beautiful, and women who have not studied just meet the requirements of men. And the richer the place, the more men tend to pay more attention to the woman's education and spiritual level, and at this time, the woman's education can add points to herself. But the current society has not yet developed to that level, so women with low education are more popular.
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The pattern of girls who have not studied is different from that of girls with high academic qualifications. Girls who don't study have lower requirements for life and the other half, so it's easy to get married. Highly educated girls tend to pursue a high quality of life, so they will have higher requirements for their other half.
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Because most of the girls who haven't studied are relatively young, young is the capital, and then those girls with high academic qualifications, girls who have read a lot, should be not young. It may not be so easy to marry, and my vision has also become higher.
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