Should I choose between a former boyfriend who knows what I m thinking or a current boyfriend

After reading your heartfelt words, I was full of emotion, you should feel extremely happy now, and you shouldn't be distressed, because there are two men pursuing you at the same time!

In fact, no matter how we give you ideas, we can only represent our own opinions and feelings. You should think more rationally, calm your heart, as far as you say, both men are very good to you: one takes care of you like your big brother, you don't need to think too much about things, you love him very much, but you don't like his mother's nagging very much; A man who cares for you very much, and he is afraid of losing you again.

If these two people were to be replaced by me, I would choose your current boyfriend, although his mother is a little nagging, this is not an excuse for you to leave, the only excuse is that you don't love him anymore, and besides, you don't live with his mother, and it's nothing to listen to his mother's nagging once in a while, most of the old people are like this, and there is no such thing in the world as expected, what do you say?

Let's talk about why I wouldn't choose your ex-boyfriend if it were a different story, although I still had love for him for many years when I proposed to break up, and he didn't strongly refuse the proposal to break up, let alone change his behavior that he didn't care about you. If he turns back, he is equivalent to taking regret medicine, will there be a second breakup? And how do you explain to your current boyfriend, you love him, he loves you, but you left him and broke up with your current boyfriend for no reason, this doesn't make sense, can you guarantee that you don't regret a day?

By that time, will your current boyfriend give you regret pills?

It's hard for you to decide because you have love for both of you, and which love has the heaviest weight and the most real?

Of course, the weight is measured in your own heart. And when it comes to the most real, there is no definite answer, only the possibility, and my opinion is that your current boyfriend is the most real one, the reason is, of course, that your past boyfriend (although you have been in a relationship for five years) is too floating!

Finally, I would like to give you a word: what people can grasp is the present, do not live in their own past, and it is impossible to control the future, as long as they grasp the present, the future will definitely be in the plan, and the plan must be made by absorbing the setbacks and experiences of the past.

The above is a personal opinion, please consider carefully before making your own choice. Wishing you happiness and happiness!

Now that you have broken up with your ex-boyfriend, the relationship will not return to the past, no, you have already chosen, think about your decision at that time, you are willing to break off your five-year relationship, it means that you really want to leave him, "the happiness you have never had" and "the sense of security like a child" are not enough for you to choose your current boyfriend?!

You don't want to be in the midst of happiness and don't know the blessings, you must wait until you find out that your current boyfriend is your favorite, and then run back to ask for a reunion like your ex-boyfriend?

Don't make decisions that you regret, you have to think clearly, none of us can make decisions for your life, but we all just want you to be happy!

Good luck!

Elect the incumbent. That's right. The predecessor is unreliable.

If you like that a little more, you can choose that.。。

Choose which one you truly love.

Whichever you like, choose whichever you like.

I don't talk about a boyfriend with money in front of my current boyfriend, I don't think it's worth mentioning, and it feels like a contrast when you mention it.

1. The relationship with the ex-boyfriend has become a stranger

After breaking up with my ex-boyfriend, the two of them have become completely strangers, although they were a little reluctant to break up at the time, but after all, the two people really can't get along, there is no need to get involved, and it is more painful to be involved. Since they have broken up, let the other party be the past, and there is no need to mention him again. Everyone has become strangers and has their own lives, even after they meet, they just say hello as ordinary friends.

Second, men also don't like women to keep mentioning their ex-boyfriends

To be honest, as a woman, I also don't like it when my current boyfriend keeps mentioning his ex-girlfriend. The reason is the same, because if you keep mentioning your ex, the other party will think that you still have feelings for your ex, why do you always compare yourself with your ex. Or keep mentioning your ex in front of yourself, do you miss your ex and break the thread, and you still want to rekindle your old feelings.

So I don't think it's necessary to keep going to my boyfriend to mention my ex, is there anything to brag about and show off. <>

3. Let the past become the past and grasp the present

It is possible that some girls want to use this method to urge boys and make boys care more about themselves, but in fact, it is easy to break men's hearts. And from time to time, I mention the various behaviors of my ex-boyfriend, in fact, I want my current boyfriend to be as good as my ex-boyfriend. The more these things are mentioned, your current boyfriend may form a picture of you and your ex-boyfriend in his mind.

Actually, this is also in"work"。If you want to make a relationship more stable, you should let the past become a thing of the past.

Grasp the present. <>

"Ex" is a very sensitive word, or don't mention it casually, no one will be so generous and listen to it every day.

The other party said about the ex.

No, because I feel that I have broken up with my ex-boyfriend, so there is no need to mention each other in front of my current boyfriend.

No, if you do this, it will affect the relationship, which is very bad, I think you will break up and break up, and there is no need to talk about it anymore.

Of course not, if you talk about your ex-boyfriend in front of your current boyfriend, how does your current boyfriend feel, it's like a comparison. A lot of men don't like to hear that name, and they don't like to hear about your king.

I think it's best not to talk about your ex-friend in front of your current friend, so it's easy for the other person to think that you haven't let go of your ex and are with her, and you don't really love her, which will affect the relationship between you.

I think it's best not to mention the previous relationship in the current relationship, which will leave a lot of trouble in the love life of two people, because the other party will think that you compare the current relationship with the previous relationship, or think that you always mention the previous relationship, is it not satisfied with the current relationship?

I think it's best not to talk about your ex-boyfriend in front of your current boyfriend, so it's easy for your boyfriend to feel that you still think about and love your ex in your heart, and it's easy to hurt the feelings between you and cause a breakup.

Occasionally I may mention it, but more often than not, I just avoid talking about it, after all, no one likes their girlfriend, and they still have emotions when talking about other men, so you must pay more attention.

Would you talk about your ex boyfriend in front of your current boyfriend? I don't think I should be, because the past has passed, why do we always have to hold on to these 1000 sad people, we have to plan our future life well.

I don't talk about my ex-boyfriend in front of my current boyfriend, because that's all in the past, there's no need to rehash it, now I just need to love my current boyfriend well.

Don't mention it, mentioning the predecessor is nothing more than challenging the current one, and I believe everyone will know that the former rival does not want to face it.

Occasionally, we talk about it, but I only talk about my ex-boyfriend if the other person agrees, because talking about my ex-boyfriend can affect the relationship between the two of us.

If you don't ask, you won't take the initiative to talk about your ex-boyfriend, because your boyfriend may mind, so it's better not to talk about it.

It will definitely not be, and it is not something I am honorable to do, and telling him will only increase his troubles, so it is better to bury it in his stomach and hide it.

Summary. If it's not a matter of principle, just because of a misunderstanding or a petty fight, then you must face your heart, if you really love the current and have no nostalgia for the ex, there will be no problem.

What was the reason for your breakup with your ex-boyfriend?

If it is a matter of principle, then there must be no turning back, and problems that have not been solved in the past may not be solved with the passage of time.

If it's not a matter of principle, just because of a misunderstanding or a petty fight, then you must face your heart, if you really love the current and have no nostalgia for the ex, there will be no problem.

Being able to ask this question shows that you still have nostalgia for your ex and don't like your current one that much.

Can't forget your ex.

But there is no way to let go of this incumbent.

Is it convenient to ask why you and your ex broke up?

Because he was talking to the woman, he apologized to me later and told me to go to him.

But I can't let go of my current boyfriend.

Trapped in memories.

You can't forget your ex because the reason for your breakup seems solvable to you, or do you just think about his good qualities and think it's worth looking back on.

Your ex and other girls crossed the line with words, you couldn't accept it at the beginning, but now you can accept it again?

If you still can't accept it when you think about it, don't look back.

The problems that led to your separation, and the problems that are still unforgettable for you now, mean that they have not been resolved.

You only cherish the good memories of the past, or maybe the current is not as good as your predecessor in some aspects, or the two of you are not good enough for you to forget the past.

But if there is an irreconcilable contradiction with your predecessor, you must not look back.

It's important to cherish the moment.

It's better not to. It also gives you a chance to rekindle your old feelings.

You may be drowning in the good memories of your past and forgetting the present.

And it's not fair to the incumbent, isn't it.