I was diagnosed with lymphoma and suddenly felt so depressed, what should I do if my child is only 5

I was diagnosed with lymphoma and suddenly felt so depressed, what should I do if my child is only 5 years old?

Presumably, not to mention that you already know the severity of lymphoma, because you already know that you have lymphoma, then the next thing is to cooperate with the doctor's **, relax your mind, anything can happen miracles, maybe the next miracle is you.

Many people talk about cancer and associate cancer with death. In fact, now that medicine is so developed, the survival period of cancer has become longer and longer, it can be regarded as a chronic disease, and there are many people who have survived with cancer for five years and ten years, so don't be too pessimistic and optimistic about life.

Now that you have been diagnosed with cancer and can still undergo chemotherapy, you are still quite lucky, some people find that the cancer is terminal, and there is no hope of cure. At least you still have hope, you can still heal, Lady Luck will take care of you, you have to have a good attitude yourself, mentality determines everything.

Life is impermanent, and no one knows what tomorrow will be like. The problems that occur can only be faced, and they can be faced by whomever they are. Facing it positively, miracles can also happen. Nothing is impossible.

It is true that fate will not be fair, everyone's fate is different, but there are certain reasons. Cancer doesn't happen in a day, and it may be that your family, work, and emotions are unsatisfactory, and it will affect your health for a long time.

Besides, the examination in the hospital is not necessarily accurate, and it is not necessarily malignant, so it is better to say that chemotherapy is good for a period of time. In fact, it doesn't matter if you want to open it. Life is only a hundred years, there is always a death, in fact, when you die is not particularly important, the important thing is to live every day, live one day at a time, be happy one day, and face it optimistically.

But I sympathize with you, the child is so young, you still have to endure so much pain. But it has happened, and there is no way to change it, so I can only face it. It may also be that the positive ** is not as serious as imagined.

When people come to the world, they will encounter many difficulties, either this or that, all kinds of pain to bear, all kinds of difficulties to face.

In your free time, you can read a book, listen to **, adjust yourself, take 10,000 steps back, and be mentally prepared if the result is really not good. Do what you want to see and do without regrets. Actually, facing is the best choice.

I think in the face of this situation, we should keep a positive attitude, we should actively accept **, after all, the child is still very young, we should strengthen our physical exercise, help fight cancer, so that we can accompany the child.

I think you should keep your mindset, don't think too much, and then go positively, believe that everything will be okay, and don't put too much pressure on yourself.

You've been diagnosed with lymphoma and your child is just 5 years old, and it's a pain for anyone to face it, but you need to be brave and strong in any case.

Second, don't take certain issues too seriouslyYou must know that life itself is a tragedy, and no one can live forever, it is just a matter of going a few decades early and a few decades later. What is the difference between walking early and walking late? Although the timing is different, the end result is the same.

As the saying goes, the early bird gets the worm, although this example is not appropriate, but I still hope you can understand a truth, good and bad, even bad luck is not pure absolute. So, why care too much about what happens sooner or later, it's already here, why bother too much.

Finally, I would like to send you my most sincere wishes: I hope you will recover your health soon!!

Seeing this problem, I felt the need to say a few words.

First of all, I suggest you watch the BBC documentary "The Story of Life".

I've watched it many times. Every time I read it, I have a new understanding of life, and I want to say that any life is meaningful, and in the same way, any death is also valuable.

In fact, if the baby is counted as the beginning of life, people have already begun to walk towards the end of life. So, the width of life is more meaningful than the length of life.

The knowledge and understanding of the meaning of life can calm one's mood and have a positive attitude towards tumors, which is helpful for **and**.

It is impossible for people to eat whole grains without getting sick, and getting sick is worthy of sympathy, and when you get sick, you can only listen to the advice of professional doctors, and you have no choice.

I'll tell you about my father's cancer until he died, and I hope you can help me.

My father went to the hospital for a perforated stomach and was found to have advanced stomach cancer. After a comprehensive examination, the lymph nodes on both sides of the spine, the lymph nodes of the abdominal wall, and the pancreas had metastases, so the hospital in my hometown only did gastric perforation repair, and the blood did not stop after the operation.

I studied medicine and worked in medical education. I consulted with many doctors in Shanghai and finally settled on a set of conservative ** drugs.

After taking it for half a year, the situation has improved greatly, and the person has gained weight, has a good appetite, and is in good spirits.

My father went out on his bicycle and met old friends.

Old friends asked, didn't I hear that you have cancer? How did you come out to play?

With such a sentence, my father began to deteriorate, he didn't eat this, he didn't eat that, and he said that he would starve the tumor to death. As a result, he died half a year later.

During the year, I had several follow-up examinations, CT and other examinations by the same doctor, and then sent me the examination materials.

It can be said that the tumor itself does not expand at all, and even the tumor has a tendency to shrink in some parts.

As a result, my father had harmed himself and lost psychologically to the tumor.

If the tumor has not developed, it is necessary to eat and drink, and strengthening nutrition and enhancing physical fitness is an important means to fight against tumors.

Lymphoma is actually a malignant lymphoma, there are many types, different types are not completely consistent in the sensitivity of radiotherapy and chemotherapy, and some can survive with tumors for a long time.

So, it's really important to have a strong belief and be able to defeat cancer.

Technically, professional things have to be done by professional people.

Follow the advice of doctors in regular hospitals and cooperate with the doctor system to have a plan**.

Finally, I wish you a positive attitude towards the tumor and actively cooperate with the doctor**.

Also, you have to eat more, better, think about it, what will be the result of a normal person starving for a few days? It should be unable to get up, unable to walk, listless. What's more, lymphoma is also a wasting disease, and fever is a drain on energy and physical strength.

I think that even if you are diagnosed with lymphoma now, the possibility of recovery is still very high, and you can't give up. If you have a 5-year-old child, you need to face life positively and show an optimistic attitude in front of your child, which is also very helpful for your own condition.

Me too, I have been treated for more than a year now, all the indicators of the body are normal, from the day I was diagnosed, I firmly believe that I can be cured, so as long as you adjust your mentality, you must have the belief that you can be cured, actively cooperate, don't treat yourself as a patient, insist on exercising every day, and you will get better.

We must adjust our mentality, face life positively, have confidence in our children, a good attitude may make us have unexpected gains, there have been examples of enjoying decades of prosperity because of a positive attitude, come on!

It's easy to say, it's really hard to do, the child is a concern that you can't let go, and it's also a pain in your heart I don't know how to comfort you Anyone's comfort may be useless, but one thing you have to understand No matter what you do, you have to face it Everyone can't accept it when they see their life starting to count down All you can do is try your best to cooperate with the doctor Now that medicine is very advanced, there are many that you can** Strive to prolong your life Let yourself be with your children more.

I think you need to be optimistic about life, although it is very bad for such a thing to happen, but you must also be positive.

I think you should be brave to face it, don't be afraid of lymphoma, and cooperate with **.

Everyone will encounter difficulties in life, and we must have an optimistic attitude and believe that the difficulties will pass.

Positive**, mindset is important. I have nail cancer in my family and metastases in my lymph nodes. Have a good attitude!

Come on, relax, the acquaintances around me have been lymphatic for more than 8 years, or the most difficult type, the first three years are more difficult, chemotherapy and radiotherapy, don't transplant easily, easy to have many complications, my friend just didn't choose transplantation, although the doctor recommended, but found that the effect of radiotherapy and chemotherapy is not bad, so I didn't go to transplant, I took some Chinese medicine during the recovery period, improved immunity, and slowly maintained my health, and now I am recovering the same as a normal person, and I no longer take any medicine and go to work normally.

Are you unlucky? Don't think so, there are more unlucky people than you! My father's cancer surgery last year, my mother's hyperthyroidism ** after hypothyroidism for several years, take medicine to control it, I was diagnosed with malignant lymphoma in April this year, and the child is only 3 years old!

Aren't you so unlucky? It's already on the stall, it's useless to feel sorry for yourself, good **! Most lymphomas are relatively easy to control!

Be optimistic and may we all be healed!

Chinese medicine can be **, it's fine.

Even if it is not for yourself, but also for the child, so you should work hard to face this disease bravely and positively, correct your mentality, cherish every day and the time when your child grows up, do not complain or be sad, and be the best example for your child. May you overcome your illness!

Parents are the most powerful backing for children, they must be strong, take their children to see a doctor positively, and look at life optimistically, only in this way can children have hope.

You should give yourself a little confidence and tell yourself that having lymphoma is not a big deal and that the disease will definitely be cured.

You should face it positively, because the child is still so young, he has such a disease, he must be more sad, you must be optimistic in front of him, to bring him courage.

Lymphoma, regardless of radiotherapy, radiotherapy and chemotherapy, should take medicine (traditional Chinese medicine), a combination of traditional Chinese and Western medicine. This one is yes.

Usually we always say "integration of traditional Chinese and Western medicine", when encountering this kind of serious disease, it is really the time to integrate traditional Chinese and Western medicine, should be comprehensive, not just one method.

Moreover, cancer is a lifelong disease (cancer cells are killed by radiotherapy and chemotherapy, even if they are killed cleanly, there are always cancer cells in the body, and with the accumulation of time, the ** rate is high.) Therefore, cancer is a lifelong disease), we must insist on taking medicine, and we can't think that everything will be fine after radiotherapy and chemotherapy (after radiotherapy and chemotherapy are over, there is still a long way to go, and the main task at this time is to prevent **). It's medical common sense.

Many patients think that they have been cured after surgery, and the doctor clearly says that "the operation was successful", and they have undergone chemotherapy and radiotherapy. This is obviously a lack of medical knowledge, and as a result, it suffers from this loss). You should take the medicine after the western medicine, and if you don't stop the medicine, you can't ** is already a great achievement.

Not to mention not taking medicine.

Chinese medicine can be fully considered. It is treated with traditional Chinese medicine pills for dissolving stasis and dispersing knots, detoxifying and reducing swelling, and for pimples and tumors. As long as you find the right medicine, it is not difficult for you to know.

Due to my work, the author is well aware of the charm of traditional Chinese medicine, and has witnessed a large number of typical cases of breast cancer, lymphoma, brain tumor, stomach cancer, intestinal cancer, esophageal cancer, etc., which have verified the uniqueness of traditional Chinese medicine in the motherland. Traditional Chinese medicine in the malignant tumors, for resisting the development of cancer cells, shrinking the volume of tumors, reducing the pain of patients is very obvious, the color of the affected part of the disease changes, the patient feels energetic, the amount of food increases, and so on, the contrast effect patients are more satisfied. If you have undergone surgery or chemotherapy, one of the obvious effects of traditional Chinese medicine is that all kinds of uncomfortable symptoms of the patient will be significantly reduced and improved in the short term.

Usually pay attention not to eat spicy, fried, barbecued, these are hot and dry foods.

Lymphoma is a disease of the immune system circulation, which is more difficult due to the presence of lymph in many parts of the body.