My boyfriend has no money and no house, and the family disagrees and is upset

I'm not married yet, so that's it, I think we should be cautious.

Let's talk about this man first, I think he should be honest, if you don't have money, you don't have money, you should just say, don't be out of money when the time comes.

If you really put it on, you can't help it, but the wound doesn't heal well, and every time you think about it, you get angry.

His family is not good, because they are afraid that their family will not be able to change themselves, and they will not be able to burden themselves.

It's not good for you, if he doesn't borrow it, it will be very hard for both of you, and if he borrows it for you, there will be a shadow in your heart at that time, and maybe it will not be good for you because of this.

Such a man is too stingy, too strict, and has no room for himself, and sooner or later he will get tired of it.

Let's get married, just find someone with good character and a little money.

The problem you have is something that you must consider before you get married, think about yourself and do you really love him

Does he really love you?

It's understandable for men to be selfish to the people they love, but not too much Everyone should have their own living space.

Otherwise, you will have a lot of unhappiness when you get married together in the future!

He should not lie to you, two people should be honest with each other, and mutual trust should be built on the basis of honesty.

So think about it, are you really happy?Love is something that can't be forced.

Finally, I wish you happiness!

Your problem is my problem, in fact, it is also the problem of many male compatriots, in the face of today's society, it is normal to have no house, you only have to face, frankly and frankly say to your future parents-in-law!If you lie, it will only hurt you even more!You can only work hard, strive for the other party to be able to measure, and let the other party think from your point of view!

Lovers who are in free love, as long as they are affectionate, can be supported together with four hands.

That's true.

Such a marriage will not be happy.

It's better to divide it.

The pain is only temporary.

I can understand.

You're so suspicious of you before you're married, so don't do it.

Is this a test for a truly loving couple?It can be said that 90% of men in China are like this, how many can be really rich?

From this question, it can be seen that the boyfriend is financially strapped and wants to save enough for a down payment to buy a house. But the girlfriend wants to enjoy the company of her boyfriend, and financial support, and expects her boyfriend to care more about and take care of herself, that is, she is willing to spend money, which leads to her girlfriend's confusion and dissatisfaction. Therefore, to analyze the essence of the problem, it is necessary to pay attention to many aspects such as economy, emotion, and life.

First of all, from an economic point of view, buying a house requires a lot of money, which requires the boyfriend to plan and save accordingly. If the boyfriend has made it clear that he wants to buy a house, then his girlfriend should understand the decision and actively support her boyfriend's efforts, and cannot complain and reprimand her boyfriend for being reluctant to spend money on herself, only by understanding and supporting each other can each other better move towards the future.

Secondly, from an emotional point of view, everyone wants to be loved and cared for by someone they love. Girlfriends can take the initiative to communicate with their boyfriends to understand their financial pressures and home purchase plans, and at the same time express their emotional needs, such as wanting to get along with their boyfriends more, participate in meaningful activities, share love and happiness, etc., especially in terms of spending money, they should communicate in a timely and correct manner, and don't be bored in their hearts and create estrangement. Through mutual communication and support, the relationship between the two will be deeper.

Finally, from a life point of view, the girlfriend can take the initiative to participate in her boyfriend's life, make a reasonable budget together, plan travel plans, and make full use of her time, financial resources and abilities to help her boyfriend achieve his plans and goals. At the same time, girlfriends can also look for some excellent low-budget activities where the two can experience the wonders of life together, which can not only relieve emotional stress but also make life more interesting.

To sum up, girlfriends need to understand and support their boyfriend's home purchase plans, while expressing their emotional needs and strengthening their feelings through mutual support and communication. In addition, the girlfriend needs to be properly involved in her boyfriend's life, plan life together, find low-budget activities, create a meaningful life, and help the two of them move towards a better future.

If you shout that the relationship between the two of you is good, it means that some things are fought for by your Zheng Hao and the two sedan chairs together, if the relationship between the two of you is not good, it is useless for you to ask him, so to say that this is to say that you want to develop and create yourself.

Because the man has no money and the woman's parents do not agree, then it depends on the reason for disagreement, this one, or other aspects.

Most parents love their children, because the man has no money and is afraid that his daughter will suffer after marrying and regret it later, most of the purpose is for the good of his daughter and the happiness of his daughter.

A small number of parents are afraid that the person their daughter marries will have no money, and they will lose face because of their own desire for control or vanity.

Don't face your parents for love, your parents will be more opposed, and don't give up the person you love easily for your parents, so as not to regret it for life.

The woman can not rush to get married, on the one hand, let the parents know the advantages of the man in other aspects, so that they can know more about the man and have more good feelings. On the one hand, let the man work hard, and the two of them work together for a year or two, so that he can behave well, so that your parents can believe that he has the ability to make money, and you will not suffer with her.

In this way, the man's economic conditions will improve through one or two years of hard work, and through these two years of contact, the woman's parents will understand other aspects of him, thinking that their daughter will not suffer if she marries him, and he is also sincerely good to his daughter, so there is no reason to object.

First of all, it's not wrong for your parents to do this, this society is becoming more and more materialistic, and your mother just wants you to be comfortable in the future and not have to make your life unstable for a house or a loan, and you have to understand that.

Secondly, now that housing prices are so high, you have more and more of this situation. If he can withstand this pressure, it is enough to prove that he loves you deeply enough and can also reflect whether he is a self-motivated person; If he loves you enough and is self-motivated enough, I'm sure your mom will still accept him.

As a person who has come over, for the sake of the stability and harmony of you and your family in the future, I will give you some practical and feasible suggestions:

1. If your family conditions are good enough, then try to let your boyfriend be your son-in-law; If your boyfriend refuses, and you are very much in love, then you will drag it until you reach a certain age, and your mother will accept him.

2. If your family conditions are not very good, then I think first of all, your mother has no right to ask the man to buy a house; But if your mom must ask for this, and you love your boyfriend very much, then take this opportunity to observe your boyfriend's self-motivation, if he is a potential stock, then you and your boyfriend have been sticking together, and your mom will eventually compromise.

3. If your boyfriend can't resist the pressure or shows the intention of withdrawing in the face of this difficulty, then I think you can give up on him, because he can't hold on to the belief that he is with you, and it won't give you long-term happiness.

Don't bother, just wait for it to change. Because it's not easy to persecute on either side. This kind of problem can only be dragged on, and who compromises first at the last critical moment will seem to love you the most.

I think most likely, your mom compromised. Because your mother's love for you is impossible, it will be shallower than your boyfriend's love for you, right?

Hey... Your mom is also good for you... I don't want you to suffer and be wronged... Pity the hearts of parents in the world·· Think for yourself...

The best of both worlds is that you rack your brains to build a house, you really can't get it, you have to consider which is more important, if you think your boyfriend is a good man, his personality is very good, give up him and you will regret it for the rest of your life, you just talk to your mother, communicate with your mother, your mother should be sensible and long-term. If your boyfriend doesn't do his job and is idle all day, such a man... Your mother is also good for you, after all, she is a person from the past, I want you to have a more stable life in the future, there are a lot of trivial things to worry about when you get married, and there is always a stable house.

See if the other person is self-motivated! This is important! Is it worth it or not. Otherwise, it is yourself who regrets it.