What do you think of the phrase become famous as soon as possible ?

Everyone's situation is different, and some people have high understanding, so they may become famous earlier and achieve their goals earlier; But some people are not very perceptive, so we will be down-to-earth step by step, make plans and move towards our goals, and one day we will also achieve our goals and live the life we want to live. Being famous doesn't matter sooner or later, as long as you make progress with yourself and get closer and closer to your goal.

In the so-called "become famous as soon as possible", "as soon as possible" is not wrong. The reason is very simple: it is a good thing to be able to seize the opportunity for life development earlier.

However, if you take being famous as soon as possible as a requirement for yourself and try your best to become famous as soon as possible, then this matter is wrong.

Generous and late-blooming". It's the best of times, and it's the worst of times. Unprecedented reforms, let this era hesitate, the road ahead is boundless, a sentence to become famous as soon as possible is the sadness of the times, please don't let your short life pay for the times.

The particularity of that era made Zhang Ailing issue such a sentence "become famous as soon as possible". Thousands of people take this sentence as the guiding ideology for doing things. But I really didn't see Zhang Ailing's nearly 20 years of accumulation.

In the midst of the suffering of life and the great oppression of the times, Mei is arrogant in the cold winter era. This accumulation, this perseverance, such talent, this education, how many of you and me can there be even today?

This statement is true, because many things, if you can't get them when you're young, you won't get them for the rest of your life.

On the surface, this kind of behavior may bring a temporary fame, but in reality, such fame is very short-lived when a person has no real ideological foundation, talents, and talents. ‍‍

It's gold that always shines, if you really have these conditions like Internet celebrities, then you will eventually become famous, why bother worrying about whether to become famous or not.

Zhang Ailing once said that "you should become famous as soon as possible", this sentence was once considered the truth by many people, but becoming famous early has put many people under too much pressure.

I think it's time to get some things that don't taste like that, even if you get through time.

Sooner or later is not the key, the key lies in the accumulation and precipitation of comprehensive ability and quality in a certain professional direction. ‍‍

Probably, at this time, you have both youth and wealth, and you can have the opportunity to do what you want in the best years.

This is what Zhang Ailing said. Because she thinks that if she becomes famous late, it will be meaningless to be famous when she is old. This is her personal opinion.

If you become famous early, if you come too late, you won't be so happy.

When Zhang Ailing said this, it was not just a literal meaning, but also related to the background of the times at that time. We know that Zhang Ailing is actually not very firm in her political position, she is a writer who is more focused on writing, and hopes to make money by publishing books to satisfy her emotional and tasteful life. At that time, the times were changing rapidly, and she also hoped to succeed quickly in a stable period, otherwise her personal reputation would be easily drowned by the waves of the times.

Why do you say that you should become famous early! Now whether it is a star or a company backbone, or an ordinary professional, the age is generally getting younger and younger (young and energetic), and some company backbones are less than 30, and they do lead a group of employees like his uncle and father.

Nowadays, I feel that there are two divisions, either they are very self-disciplined and motivated, or they are very freewheeling, and they live a chaotic life completely day by day. The former is destined to be strong, and they deserve to be excellent!

Before the age of 25, you must plan your life, you can give yourself 2-3 years of trial and error, and after determining the direction, you will go on firmly, you can't say 100% success, but most of them are successful, and a few will not regret if they don't succeed!

Why do you say that you should become famous as soon as possible, in my humble opinion, I will not be arranged by my parents because of my age, I will not do what I don't want to do because of money, and I have more choices and confidence than others.

When we were young, we were told by our parents, told by our teachers, and told by our elders that "if you work hard, you will definitely succeed!" "We are convinced of this and have put a lot of effort into it. However, the truth is that despite everyone's hard work, there are very few people who are truly successful.

On the other hand, those who have succeeded have already defined their goals and acted on them. This is probably the so-called "one step ahead, one step ahead." ”

For those who became famous early, they already know what they are best at at a very young age and take it to the extreme; What you want, try to acquire the ability to learn by yourself. And what we, as parents, can do for our children is not to tell him what to do and how to do it? Instead, I always ask him what he wants to do in the future and what kind of person he wants to become.

The clearer his goal, the more he will naturally learn relevant knowledge and acquire relevant abilities; And we don't need to judge his decision, we just need to support him as much as we can.

So for children who become famous at a young age, what is their advantage over their peers?

First of all, I think they have more self-confidence. It's not blind self-confidence, it's based on a clear understanding of their abilities, and they know what they like and are good at.

Second, their self-learning ability and goal drive are better than their peers. They have a clear understanding of their goals and know how to achieve them through learning.

Third, they are able to focus on what they are passionate about, which is critical to their success.

Fame needs to be early, this is also a positive feedback for the child's efforts, so that he is more determined in his goals, and has the drive to continue to move forward, may our children no longer be confused, live a confident and wonderful life.

Ever since I saw Zhang Ailing's phrase "become famous as soon as possible", I have been like a thorn in my chest. When will someone like me become famous? And as soon as possible, isn't this a rush to death?

Zhang Ailing has been considered a genius since she was a child, she began to write ** when she was four years old when she was in a private school, and began to publish ** in junior high school, and officially began her writing career at the age of twenty-three, and successively published the novella ** "Agarwood Crumbs The First Incense", "The Second Incense", "Jasmine Tablets", "In the End is Shanghainese", "Love in a Fallen City", "Golden Lock" and so on. But after the age of thirty-six, he slowly fell, until the evening was bleak. He died in his Los Angeles apartment in 1995 on the Mid-Autumn Festival without anyone around him.

With her talent, she can become famous in her early years, but she can't avoid the bleakness of her later years. How can we, ordinary people, do better?

There are many such examples in life, a celebrity was caught taking drugs, and a celebrity ......was killed by a drunk driver. A big boss ran away, and a certain boss was locked up .......

The reason is that Wang Bury has increased with his fame, but his mind has not matured with it. As wealth increases, the ability to harness wealth does not. In the end, the money is lost and the debt is heavy.

It's like having a sports car all of a sudden, but only the level of driving a tricycle, you can't control it, and in the end the car is destroyed and people die.

Peach Blossom Fan" sang: "I have seen that the Jinling Yushu warbler is dawning, and the flowers of Qinhuai Water Pavilion bloom early, who knows that it is easy to freeze!" Seeing him raise the Zhu Tower, seeing him feasting guests, seeing his building collapse.

It is a daughter who can have a daughter.

After some people become famous, they get lost, begin to lose themselves, lose their original intentions, and finally fall into disrepute. Think about it at the beginning, it's better not to be famous.

Be famous as soon as possible" is like a golden rule hanging there. Motivate people to move forward, especially in this Internet era, they all want to be famous and popular. To this end, everything can be done, and there can be no right and wrong, no discipline, and no bottom line. I don't know how many people were crushed to death under this sentence.

But few people have ever thought about what happens after becoming famous?

In fact, after becoming famous, it is a downhill road. It's like climbing to the top of a mountain, and every step after merging is downhill. How can I stay on the top of the mountain for a little longer?

It depends on your mind and cultivation. It's best to hone yourself before becoming famous. Otherwise it's a flash in the pan, or a flash in the pan in slow motion.

I want to change "become famous as soon as possible" to "become famous too early". Be when everything is ready, or you will be burdened by fame. Many child stars tend to put in more effort in the future, and some people fall directly. It's the so-called "it's too small, it's not necessarily better."

In a person's life, the days of smooth sailing are only a few years, more than ten years. How to prolong this period of time is the most important issue.

Jiang Ziya was humble for half of his life, worked as a butcher, and sold wine. But he has always studied diligently and assiduously, military strategy, and studied the way to govern the country and secure the country, but until he was 70 years old, he still lived at home. At the age of seventy-three, he went out of the mountain, assisted King Wen of Zhou, Xing Zhou, and destroyed Shang, and became a god in the first war.

Jiang Ziya still didn't achieve anything before he was seventy years old, if you have Jiang Ziya's talent, then what are you anxious about? And if you don't have that talent, you don't need to be in a hurry.

First of all, although the heart of fame and fortune is shared by everyone, it is understandable, but compared with serving the country and the people, compared with altruism, and compared with all kinds of lofty and beautiful moral ideals, it is not a noble thing after all, and it is rather tacky.

Secondly, wealth and glory are all fleeting, and life does not bring death to death. If you can't see through this, you can't say that you have a sober view of the world and life.

Finally, the matter of being famous must not be deliberately pursued, and the more you want to be famous, the less likely it is to become famous. It is the so-called intentional planting of flowers and flowers that do not bloom, and unintentional planting of willows and willows. People who want to be famous don't really like what they're doing, they just use it as a means to be famous.

And if you want to do anything well in life, you must have a heartfelt interest in it, and if you only use it as a means to make a name for yourself, you will never do it well, and therefore you will not be famous.

"The snail horn is famous, and the fly's head is a small profit", which is the disdain of the high-ranking people for those who chase fame and fortune. However, compared with fame and fortune, it has a richer and deeper meaning.

Sima Guang said in the "Inscription of the Academy": "Those who draw from the famous, still draw from the benefit, how far apart are the differences!" This means that the seeker of fame is much nobler and greater than the seeker of profit.

Why is that? According to Sima Guang, the Song Dynasty engraved the names of the counselors on stone tablets, so that later generations would point to the names of the officials and say, "You see, this is loyal, treacherous, upright, and tactful."

It can be seen that it is a prudent thing to make a name for future generations. The name of the ancients after their death is the praise of those who have achieved fame, and some of the names look like a small **, no wonder the ancients said: "The deeds come from oneself, and the name is born from others."

I have done things all my life, and in the end I will get a good name or a bad name, but it is up to others to decide.

The name is a huiyi character, the upper part is the word xi, and the lower part is the word mouth. Why is it called by name from the early evening? Xu Shen said in "Shuo Wen Jie Zi":

name, pretentious. That is, when it was dark, people could not see each other, so they called out their names so that they could recognize each other. Over time, these names have been remembered by everyone, and I hope that being famous is such a poetic and life-like way, rather than a common and ugly way of being famous in the current impetuous society.