Do you have to learn to swallow your anger first?

It's a good idea to learn from other people's techniques, but you don't necessarily need to learn to swallow your breath during the learning process.

First of all, it is important to be clear that learning from other people's skills is about improving your own skills and abilities, not about other people's evaluations or opinions. So, don't worry too much about what others think or evaluate, but focus on learning skills and knowledge.

However, in the process of learning, you may encounter some difficulties or challenges, and you need to learn how to deal with them. If you encounter unfair treatment or criticism, express your thoughts and opinions appropriately, but also learn how to deal with negative emotions and self-motivation.

In conclusion, learning from other people's techniques is a positive act, but remember that learning is about improving yourself, not for the perception of others. When faced with difficulties or challenges, learn to deal with problems and self-motivation instead of swallowing your anger.

Hehe, now the students, you are learning from others, you have not put yourself in the right position in your attitude, apprenticeship to learn art, the ancients are a year of hard work, hone your temperament, two years to let you try to do a knife, three years to let you try to complete a thing independently, you have to have the heart of apprenticeship, humble, respectful, naturally, the master recognizes you, naturally very willing to teach you.

Now society is no longer the era of masters and apprentices in the past. Who in society now is not for themselves. You learn from an individual, that is, on the surface, you don't charge tuition, but in fact, you usually take a lot of things, travel expenses, etc., and it depends on your face.

If you can't learn something, you won't have a place to reason. Personally feel unable to study with private. It's best to choose a good school, at least you can't learn, you can reason, you can negotiate, and there is no messy idle business that takes up your time.

And to be honest, now excavators, is there still a market? Big cities are generally building well. There are fewer places to need, and the social status is not high.

Think about it again, a friend of mine studied computer technology, and the school gave him a job, and now he is employed for more than 4,000 a month, and he feels okay.

Control your emotions and keep your mood in check.

Having a firm belief in my heart is to face and think calmly, rather than simply being angry and swallowing my anger.

Don't do things that don't work.

If you can endure it, you can endure it

I can't bear it, I don't need to endure it anymore

It depends on what kind of environment you are in, if it is a type of love, as opposed to love, then learn to listen well and understand, maybe it will be better.

It depends on what is most important in your mind.

The big picture is important, and you can't just focus on small profits. Morality is present, and don't forget righteousness according to the public. If you don't have your own ideas and bottom line, others will not respect you. And when others accept you, your value will be reflected.

Be yourself, think before you do it.

You see that the world is cruel, and the world will be cruel to you.

You see that the world is beautiful, and the world will be beautiful to you.

There are also several realms of swallowing anger.

Forbearing. Too lazy to get angry.

I laughed.

Laugh it off.

Don't annoy, don't laugh.

The cruelty of smiling when the chance.

It's normal to learn not to swallow your anger, and so do I. Young and vigorous... We've all been there, and if we can't learn it, we can just let him be like this. Young.. Only once, there is only one person, a unique one in the world, don't grieve yourself all your life.

Not getting angry is not a weakness, it's your strongest strength. Nothing is more important than health. Many people can't control their temper if they want to, and if you can do it without getting angry, it means that your self-control ability is very strong, that is, your mental power is very strong.

If you have a good brain, many things can be turned into small things and small things.

Hehe, because you're not strong!

I don't know how to enlighten myself, those setbacks and failures are not as easy to achieve as you think, even if you have figured it out, but you may not be able to do that.

Don't be as beautiful as you imagined, don't let yourself be decadent, it will pass, and it can be brilliant in the future.

It's a good quality to swallow your anger, but it's a cowardly act to swallow your anger because you're afraid.

I'm going to swallow it out of love.

I have had such an experience, but it depends on the object.

The most famous example of being able to "endure" in history is the humiliation of Han Xin's crotch, when Han Xin was down, and he had no intention or ability to fight with the evil Shao, so he had to endure the humiliation and crawl under the evil Shao's crotch. Sun Bin endured Pang Juan's humiliation is also very famous in history, pretending to be crazy and stupid, for fear that Pang Juan will kill him. What was the result of these two people who endured great humiliation?

Han Xin left a useful body and finally became a general, if he was vindictive at that time, I am afraid that he would be beaten to death by the evil youth; Sun Bin saved his life and finally cleaned up Pang Juan! If he couldn't bear it at that time, he would have died a long time ago. There is also Goujian, the king of Yue, who has been lying on salary for 20 years, in order to make a comeback in the future.

Whether it is Han Xin, Sun Bin, or Goujian, the king of Yue, they are all "endure the anger of the moment and strive for the benefits of a thousand years", which is worth learning from those young and vigorous people today. Today's young people often scold and fight with others, and if they encounter a slight injustice, they have to fight hard, of course, they are not unreasonable, but they must consider the consequences.

When you're vulnerable, it's hard to have room to show yourself, like a trapped beast. When some people encounter such a situation, they often let their temperament act according to their own emotions, and if they are humiliated, they simply fight with them; was scolded by the boss, so he simply slapped his table, threw him things, and then walked automatically! Don't dare to say that doing so will ruin your life, because life is difficult to say, and sometimes it will even be a "blessing in disguise"!

But if you don't have patience, it will definitely have a negative impact on your career, and there are not many people who can't bear it, and most of them are not very satisfied, and they will always sigh and say in middle age: "It was really young and vigorous at that time!" "It's not that the fate of people who can't bear it is not good, but that people who can't bear it can't bear it, can't bear it, can't endure it, can't endure it, can't bear it, and always have to attack, escape, and resist.

Your current situation is very similar to what I am now. First of all, from the point of view of physical and mental health, anger hurts the liver. Secondly, emotionally, you will have fewer and fewer friends, because in your eyes no one will do things to your heart.

So, adjust your mindset and learn to look at everything that happens around you with a peaceful mind. When you're going to complain about someone, try to suppress your emotions, put yourself in their shoes, think about them first, and if you were her, would you do that? If you feel that you will do better than her, prove that you are better than her, and if you can't do as well as her, you should not complain about others.

Try it, who will like it. Slowly, learn to treat others with a peaceful and tolerant attitude. Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will never give you an angry face.

Only wide can accommodate people, and only thick can carry things. Tolerance is a virtue, we need tolerance in our life, we need tolerance in our work, and we need to learn to be "lenient with others".

If a man is not a sage, he can do no wrong." We can hurt others unintentionally.

In interpersonal interactions, we need to be empathetic and have an equal, respectful and friendly attitude towards people. Caring for others, respecting others, understanding others. If everyone can always and everywhere put themselves in the shoes of others, we can get along with others harmoniously and amicably.

It's just not to resist for the time being, and to endure things that are not satisfactory, even if you are unhappy, you have to learn more, ask more, and leave directly when you learn the technology here, and you don't have to retaliate or continue to be wronged.

Endure humiliation and bear heavy wages, taste courage, and learn from the king of Goujian.

Gou Jian, a descendant of Dayu, the monarch of Yue at the end of the Spring and Autumn Period, and the son of Yue Wang Yunchang. He was defeated by Wu and succumbed to peace. After lying on the salary, he tried his courage, worked hard to become strong, and eventually became a strong country, so he became famous through the ages.

As a king, he can endure the pain that others can't bear, and he is determined to strengthen the country, which is really impossible for ordinary people to do.

In fact, I think the service industry is very able to exercise a person's mentality and character, daily contact with all kinds of people, communication is a good help for you to overcome the introverted inferiority complex, but everything needs to be persistent, others think you are not suitable for you to prove to him that you can, rather than leaving and choosing to escape. That will only make people think that you are really not good, so you can do any job, communicate with people more, and there is a process to overcome your own introverted inferiority complex, and you must insist on not giving up.

First of all, you have to have filial piety! You and your parents are not good! How many true friends can I have! Even if it's your apparent friend! What do they think of you?

At present, learning computer science is still very good and good employment, computer is divided into many majors such as graphic design, UI design, Internet marketing, e-sports, animation, are very good employment majors, choose your favorite major.

If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan.

There's no need to make a fuss about a little thing.

Learn to endure in order to do great things. In the face of all-round torture in society, do you have such a kind of concentration and mental strength that is not shocked? If not, then be careful.

Two days ago, a friend left me a message saying: People with a peaceful mind will definitely be bullied. This sentence made me think for a long time, I think we can't control the words and deeds of others, but a person who becomes calm and broad-minded will have a long-term vision.

Maybe what others see in their eyes is bullying, but he himself can take it seriously. That is, to be able to endure.

If you don't have patience, it's easy to get into conflict with others because of small things.

People who could have been friends are likely to become enemies as a result.

And a lot of things that could have been successful, failed because they couldn't bear it.

Because of love, or because of survival, we must learn to accept and endure.

Love is an art, and patience is the pigment of a work of art.

Social life is made up of loving and being loved ... Happy and frustrated because of love. Maybe that's the meaning of life

Quite simply, what is it like to live without patience?

He is as sensitive as a hedgehog, hurts like a sharp knife when he speaks, does things as casually as a child, loves as ruthless as a prodigal son, is as shallow as a blank piece of paper, is as clumsy as wood, and sometimes his life is as fleeting as flowing water, and sometimes as long as a drum.

What does life look like when you grow up?

Three views are correct, can speak, do things neatly, lover single-minded, learn rich five cars, left and right, life is like a river, I walk on the shore, still in the water.

That's why you have to learn to be patient when you grow.

Patience is moderate, and patience is not the same as weakness

There is a limit to patience. It depends on something.