Talk about troubles, are troubles the same as troubles?

Of course, I would gladly accept it.

Who doesn't like to talk about their troubles with the opposite sex.

In fact, you had better talk to the friends you chatted with, it doesn't matter if you like it or not, you can also talk to the same sex, of course, you can also talk to the person who likes you, because he likes you, so he will care more about your feelings than others, and you can also get catharsis, but pay attention to proportion, if she likes you and you don't like her, you should grasp the scale, don't let him misunderstand, so as not to hurt her in the future.

The girl is very willing to talk about some things in his heart with the person he likes! Actually, I think boys should also talk to the people they like! Don't hold it in your heart!

That kind of girl is unhappy to see you like that, and she feels uncomfortable! Don't hide everything in your heart! Sometimes there are unexpected gains when you say it!

Most people say that they have been very troubled recently, which means that everything is not going well and they are in an unhappy mood, and they will feel very annoyed when they encounter people or things that they are not happy with.

The Buddha said that ordinary people in the Three Realms are all troubled beings, but there are some rich and handsome, white and rich people who live a beautiful life, they don't seem to have any troubles, and even if they do, they can easily settle it, is there something wrong with what the Buddha said?

Actually, the Buddha is not wrong, it is that we do not carefully understand the thing of afflictions, what are afflictions? It is a state of mind, a state of unrest, far from serenity and serenity.

It is stated in the Collected Treatise: 'If there is a Dharma, even if it arises in an extremely unstatic state; From his birth, so that the heart is continuous. It is extremely not quiet, it is a troubled phase. ’

To put it simply, if there's one thing that makes your heart very unsettled, because it causes your mood to fluctuate, it's troubles.

So the question is, isn't this just a nuisance? Do happy things still make us feel uncalm and uncomfortable? Land hand slag.

Yes! This is because we have some situations where it is difficult to detect the state of unrest, and we can only recognize the coarsest form of unrest, such as anger.

When we are angry, our breathing is faster, our hearts are beating faster, our faces are red, our muscles are exposed, and our anger is rising, which is easy to detect, but when we are faced with the rolling red dust that we like, our hearts will be like a drop of oil stuck to the morning cloth, and it is difficult to separate the whole heart by sticking it to it.