What my girlfriend said was very tangled, and what I said to my girlfriend was heartfelt

Updated on psychology 2024-07-28
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I've been breaking up with my boyfriend for half a year, and he was the one who proposed to break up, and his reason was that I might have liked someone else, and I was with someone else, "Actually, it's just his inference" because he heard a confession of love from someone else on my phone, and of course there are other reasons. But at that time, I didn't redeem it, and I didn't want to confess, I was angry with him for being selfish, sometimes stingy, and didn't love me enough, so the two of us broke up, three months after the breakup, I hated him very much, and after three months, the anger disappeared, and I missed him very much every day. I also think very rationally about the reasons that led to the breakup, we are in a long-distance relationship, we are all in love for the first time, I don't know what to communicate, it can be said that there is very little heart-to-heart communication between the two of us, so when he asked me if I loved him during the relationship, I really didn't dare to lie to him, or to tell the truth "I don't love him, but I like him very much."

    In the fourth month of the breakup, I left a message to him, hoping that we could do it all over again, but he didn't respond to me and told my good friend that he was rejecting me. I am very sad, and I am very responsible for the end of this relationship, because I didn't take the initiative to call him before, I didn't care enough about him, and I didn't face him positively with some of the questions he raised, making him mistakenly think that I don't value people who have other psychology. But I never betrayed him, nor did I like anyone else, and until now, he is my first man and the first person I liked.

    I knew my shortcomings, and I was very formal about them, but he didn't give me a chance. I feel very secure with him, and it is this sense of security that makes me like him, maybe many people don't understand, I didn't fall in love in college, and my first love actually chose a mediocre-looking man to fall in love. This is a me, a different me.

    If he could give me a chance, I think I already knew what to care about him, what to communicate with him, what to love him, but unfortunately I don't have this opportunity anymore, never again. If you still can't forget her, give her a chance based on your situation, maybe she is not as bad as you imagined.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    This is my opinion, and you can look at it or ignore it. This kind of girl is very similar to the one next to me, a typical selfish one, I advise you to forget about her, find someone who only has you in her heart and doesn't value money, if you reconcile with her, maybe one day she will still have a relationship with that rich man, and you don't know. A girl who values money very seriously and doesn't put you first, you can completely refuse her and stop associating with her, otherwise it will be too late to regret it.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Don't bird her, tens of millions of buddies are a little backbone, tell her that you don't want to get rid of what you want, and your entanglement is normal, which means that you are a single-minded person, so go find other good girls, she is not worthy of you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Since you are not happy, of course, you will think of the time of happiness, and since there is no result, you can comfort a few words. Your mood will change little by little with the passage of time, and time is the best lightener. Eventually, you'll find yourself getting better, but for now you need to tell yourself not to think about it.

    Once you think about it, tell yourself repeatedly in your heart not to think about the person who sees money, and you will be better if you read it a few more times, you can try. Hope it helps.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Most likely, she wants to be with you again, and she eats back grass. Because she couldn't get it, she expected the effect she wanted. For example: having money will be happy, happy, happy. But the reality is the opposite.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer for you. You can say this: 1. I don't care about your past, because all I want is your future. 2. I like the moment when I hug you tightly, it feels like I got the whole world.

    3. I hope that when my face is full of wrinkles, you will still be by my side.

    4. You are a beam of light, bringing me warmth and love.

    5. If you can give me a future, then I will give you happiness for a lifetime.

    6. The most beautiful happiness is the touching you give.

    Heartfelt words to my girlfriend.

    Hello dear, glad to answer for you. You can say this: 1. I don't care about your past, because all I want is your future.

    2. I like the moment when I hug you tightly, it feels like I got the whole world. 3. I hope that when my face is full of wrinkles, you will still be by my side. 4. You are a beam of light, bringing me warmth and love.

    5. If you can give me a future, then I will give you happiness for a lifetime. 6. The most beautiful happiness is the touching you give.

    7. The happiest thing for me is to be your angel. 8. You and I don't need any triviality to prove the weight we care about, only a self-evident tacit understanding. 9. Many people yearn for crystalline love, crystal clear without a single flaw.

    What more people have is a glassy love, which is also transparent but easily broken. 10. In fact, the sky is very blue, and the clouds will always disperse; In fact, the sea is not wide, and this shore connects the other shore; In fact, tears are also sweet, when your heart is as you wish; Actually, I want you to be happy every day!

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    I hope I can help you, thank you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Dear landlord.

    Glad for your question.

    Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.

    The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.

    Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.

    Please forgive me if my own is inaccurate!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    No. Don't be nostalgic anymore.

    I'm facing the same problem as you right now.

    So I thought about it a lot.

    My ex-girlfriend also told me that I didn't love anymore.

    Don't want to lie to me all the time.

    So. You don't have to be nostalgic.

    Because she already likes someone else.

    There's just a dependence on you.

    Loved the feeling of being with you.

    But she prefers her current boyfriend.

    So I say this so that you can break it thoroughly.

    Don't think she'll love you again.

    That's impossible.

    If you're still so persistent.

    will only be hurt by her.

    Of course. If you are afraid of leaving regrets later.

    You can also go for it.

    You can go and beg her.

    Touched her. But the odds of success. You should know that in your heart, right? Hehe.

    So. Let's leave the last bit of dignity for us men.

    And. Men should be themselves.

    Don't be so indecisive.

    Hehe. You should go find someone prettier than her.

    Gentler than her. Girls who are more obedient than her.

    Re-put it in your psyche.

    Replace the original one with her.

    You'll be better off that way.

    You can forget about her slowly.

    I'm sure you'll have a good life in the future.

    Trust God more to be fair.

    That's what I want to say to myself, too.

    If in doubt.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    In fact, it is normal for your girlfriend to say this, but what he says seems very realistic and sharp. But in fact, you can't help it, ask the other party to be unconditionally good to your parents, after all, people like you, and it's normal to want to be good to you. But if your parents have a bad attitude towards him, how can you ask your girlfriend to be good to your parents too?

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's normal to say this, after all, your parents are strangers when they don't have children or raisers. There is no blood relationship, and people are right, you don't want to be angry, this is normal.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is normal, without you, they are indeed strangers, but after living together for a long time, they will develop feelings, after all, you are the person they love together.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think girlfriends, generally have big brains and a lot of pits, so whatever he says, you think it's right, it's the midfielder.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think this situation is also relatively normal, and it may be that your girlfriend didn't think too much about it when she was talking at the time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's not rough to say, she likes you, not your parents.

    If she can do her duty and be good to your parents when she gives the bride price, it will be impeccable. , frequent questions will not be restricted].

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