Failed interpersonal communication in college, what problems are college students prone to in interp

Friend, after reading what you have written, you know that you are being separated in the dormitory. There are a few points of view: first, you are a shrewd and meticulous person, in fact, it is better to be confused about some things in life; Second, life is full of principles, and people without a principled position can never stand up to their backs, and they can't find friends who know each other in the world; Third, to grasp a scale, not only to adhere to the necessary principles, but also to be confused, how to grasp this scale has deduced thousands of successful examples of life; Fourth, schools, especially universities, are condensed and intertwined with various social contradictions, and conscientiously handling these contradictions and interpersonal relationships will undoubtedly be of great help to enter the society in the future; Fifth, these roommates of yours are not lacking in cuteness, in the interaction with them, you will gradually adapt to the current society, and should not avoid them or even abandon them, as long as you do not avoid abandoning them, they will not avoid and abandon you.

Friend, when a mature person looks back on the past, he will find that on that vast road, there is no encounter that can be omitted, and no mood can be surpassed. The course of life is like a chain that is intertwined, you can see clearly and clearly, and you must go through the road you are willing to take or the road you don't want to take. Many of these realizations can only be attained at a certain stage.

I believe that you will gain many warnings on this path of life, so that you will radiate your charm of life to your surroundings.

Friends, when I was your age, there were many old friends, including my teachers, elders, and professors, who erected one monument after another in my heart. When I feel confused and lost along the road of life, these monuments are the source of my strength and wisdom. It can be said that whether a person is successful or not is inseparable from whether he can handle interpersonal relationships correctly, especially whether he can correctly treat the people around him day and night, and what kind of friends he has made.

It would be my honor if I could be recognized by you. Thank you.

Academic performance does not show whether a person is good or bad, and friends are also about fate. Connect with old friends and take your time!

Let's change dorms, or make it clear to them all! Especially the villain you said, don't let him think you're a bully! It's boring to be isolated like this when you're in college, and you think you're a child?!

Since it is slandering you, sooner or later, the truth will be revealed. But your relationships are also bad! Didn't have a single one to help you?

My day, I see that you yourself are a villain.

This kind of thinking of yours is destined for the situation you are in now".

You should learn to communicate with them.

Don't think about your wealth, their poverty, what their parents gave them, they can't change it now.

The real battle is only now on, with them and your hands, to start yourself.

I think you're the one who really cares, right?

We always complain that this person is so bad and that person is so bad, but often the shortcomings you say happen to show up in yourself!

Moreover, I don't think you're sincere enough with people, or why would so many people misunderstand you so easily? Also, don't define a person lightly, and don't overturn a boat with one shot!

Afraid of contradictions, often handed over to the side to make a book is not deep.

There are always some classmates in college who dare not have conflicts with others, even if they have different views with others, Yunhong may cater to them on the surface, or he has ideas and does not say anything, but he has opinions about each other in his heart, or he remembers this matter in his heart, which is a barrier. This kind of student usually doesn't have a deep relationship with most people, and others will talk to her about some things, but she rarely talks about her own thoughts.

Habits are different and don't look down on each other.

For example, the frequency of bathing, whether the table is cleaned up, how the quilt is folded, and eating habits may become aspects that are not used to each other, if you don't like it, you can help others develop new habits, why should others change themselves for you to like or dislike? How much help and benefit do you give to others?

So Hu Xu wants to help the other party change their habits, if she has this habit that has an impact on her present and future.

I don't think it's suitable for communication because of my different personalities.

College students can have a lot of different problems when it comes to interpersonal interactions. Here are some of the questions that Chang Xianfeng sees in the state:

I don't have a lot of friends and I feel very lonely.

Not knowing how to build a good relationship with the people around you.

No one can confide in their hearts.

There are a lot of conflicts with classmates.

No one can share the joy of learning with the servant himself.

It's easy to get nervous in social situations.

Don't know how to deal with those who misbehave.

The relationship with the teacher is not very good.

There are frequent conflicts with roommates.

These problems can lead to feelings of anxiety, frustration, isolation, etc., among college students.

One, I don't dare to socialize, I don't know how to socialize. It is also the most likely to have problems such as nervousness, fear of slow branches, strangeness, not knowing how to communicate, and not knowing how to establish a good cooperative relationship with people as soon as possible.

Second, some students may be more proud, these people try to avoid long-term disturbance and play, easy to have contradictions, but if there are contradictions, quarrels, to keep calm, first of all, listen to the other party's opinions, and strive to find the agreement between the two sides, you also have to look at yourself with a critical eye, assure the other party to consider his opinion, and thank him for giving his inspiration.

Three, you have to try to analyze things from someone else's point of view. To understand classmates, tolerate others, and adhere to the principle of equal interaction is to correctly evaluate oneself, not to be domineering just based on one's own strengths, and not to blindly feel inferior by only seeing one's own weaknesses.

Fourth, some people may not communicate with their parents much, which is also a difficulty, because communication can enhance the understanding and feelings between themselves and their parents, through communication, parents can really know their children's needs and inner feelings, and help their children solve their problems.

From these difficulties, we need to know some ways to solve the problem. In order to make our college life more colorful, learn to listen, be good at expressing yourself, and use rejection appropriately.

A lot, first of all, it's life, and when you interact with roommates, you will encounter all kinds of problems. For example, some people sleep but some people are playing games, some people have dried clothes but don't take them back, daily dormitory duty problems, water and electricity consumption problems, personal hygiene problems, etc., etc., too many to count, are all details of the early life of the life chain. In this case, you must tell your roommates in time, tell them your bottom line, if you don't say it in time or think about putting up with it, they will definitely do the same thing over and over again.

There is also the problem of daily interaction with friends. After two people get to know each other, there will definitely be all kinds of friction, and it is good to actively solve the problem. Don't have a cold war, communicate in time when there is a problem, so that you can better understand each other.

If you encounter cooperation problems in homework, you must first choose the kind of good students who are more active in class and have good grades, if you get along with some unconscious shack sparrows, there is a high probability that you will encounter problems, but it is not difficult to solve, go directly to the teacher and tell the teacher that this person does not participate in the completion of the homework, so that the teacher does not give him a score Tong Meng.

There may be two extremes when you get together with people who are different from your behavior and habits and do not agree with your three views, either you have a small quarrel for three days and a big fuss for five days, or you are tired of each other and do not get along with each other. College students are not very old, and they don't have much experience in society, and they are not very good at hiding their likes and dislikes, and they are often obvious in their emotions and likes and dislikes for a person, and the result is often a stiff relationship, looking at each other, and even finding an enemy for themselves.

Everyone's personality is different, there are cheerful and lively people, and there are introverted and quiet people. Some people are more introverted, what thoughts are held in their hearts, and they dare not say that they have opinions on others, and they may be quite happy with you on the surface, but you don't know when the dissatisfaction with you that accumulates in her heart will explode to you, and when there are conflicts, they are also used to escaping, which is not conducive to the maintenance of relationships with people around them.

Interpersonal communication is a challenge that college students have to face, but there are also many problems that can arise that can affect their integration into a new environment and achieve satisfactory friendships and academic outcomes.

1.Not adapting to a new environment: College students come to an unfamiliar environment, and if they can't adapt to the changes in the environment quickly, they will feel anxious and afraid about this new environment, and they may encounter a lot of difficulties.

2 .Lack of social skills: College students lack communication skills, make jokes, etc., and are easily despised by others, and it is difficult to establish interpersonal relationships.

3 .Material deprivation: The financial situation of college students is often not very well-off.

Ways to get along with roommates in college.

1. Communicate more.

You may come from all over the world, whether in language or living habits may be different, so you usually have to communicate more, talk about your hometown, talk about your hobbies and personality, talk about your ideals, etc., so that you can pull in the distance between you, understand each other, and let everyone have unnecessary misunderstandings.

2. Think more about the blind people of Belinghe.

The dormitory is generally four people, or six people live together, so the usual life and study habits are different, which leads to some people are not used to it, so we should think more about each other, and think differently, such as don't disturb the classmates who go to bed early at night, don't make a lot of noise in the dormitory, etc.

3. Participate in sports activities together.

Participating in sports activities can bring in everyone's friendship, and by sweating and laughing in the playground, it not only exercises the body, but also makes roommates closer to each other, like a family.

4. Care for each other.

Three or four years of college life, the time is not short, everyone will eat and live together a lot of the time, so we must learn to care about others, usually roommates are sick to help see a doctor, help roommates bring breakfast, help roommates carry hot water, etc. Helping others is also helping yourself, and through everyone's mutual help, you can increase everyone's friendship.

5. Have dinner together often.

Dinner is also a good way to enhance friendship, not necessarily good to eat and drink, but it is still good to sit together and talk about life while chatting and learning. Let everyone increase their friendship with each other in a relaxed environment.

6. If there is a contradiction, you should say it face to face.

If there is a conflict with any roommate, you should say it face to face, don't talk about it behind your back, the wall has ears, and it may not be when it reaches the other party's ears, it will only increase the conflict, so you must communicate clearly in person, explain the contradiction clearly, and resolve it.