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It seems that you are of the same type as my father-in-law, and indeed I don't like it, and I hate it too. But after going through a lot, it has restrained a lot when facing me. So I understand your inner feeling very well.
I think communication is very important, it's your personality, you have to change it, and after a few years you will find out that you have changed. Now is not the time to rush to make it disappear right away.
At the right time, in a situation where you can be sensational, when your roommates are there, talk to everyone about these words in your heart, and tell them that this is no longer your intention, but it is difficult to change. I hope that everyone can help you together in your life, and hope to get everyone's understanding when you "get sick", this is the most important thing. Be honest, I think everyone will like honest people.
In the absence of pressure, I am trying to remind myself to be a low-key person from time to time. Because low-key does not mean inferior, low-key does not mean that you are inactive, low-key makes you become kind, makes you calm, and makes you rational.
Come on, you're sure you'll forget about the irrelevant things you used to like to say. If you think about it, you can't remember it. Because you have matured, you have grown up, you have learned to be humble and understanding, and you know how to communicate sincerely to be resonant!
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First of all, calmness is a must, if you don't say it, it will be annoying, just listen to the softer ** to relax, and, if you drink coffee, tea or something, you can also stop drinking it yet. Make sure you get a good night's sleep, and slowly get rid of it
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If you talk too much, you will lose, and when you want to talk, you can sing a song, at least it is better than talking nonsense...
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Since you love to talk, it's not a bad thing. To practice eloquence, to be a host or something.
It's also a bad thing, the trouble comes from the mouth, shut up, endure it.
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I really can't help it, my son is like this, he is annoyed, he didn't eat a light meal, and he listened to all day long.
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Every time you want to talk, pick up your phone and talk to your phone, just like talking to someone.
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Do what interests you.
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I think this has something to do with people's personalities, some people are like talking fish, once they open it, they can't stop.
The real reason should be this, a person who can talk for a long time has a strong sensitivity to many words, most of the words can be linked to some of the information he obtains, he can associate a lot of topics from a word, and every time he says one more sentence, the more likely it is to generate more topics.
There may be only one word that can cause association in two or three sentences, but through the communication of two people, this word will branch out like a sapling, and constantly generate new topics, so there are more and more topics, and there are more and more things that can be talked about.
At this time, I suddenly understood why some people who talk a lot always like to talk "nonsense", they may say "where is home", "the weather is good", "the exam must be passed", and the recent news hotspots, I have not understood in the past, but now I finally understand that these are essentially planting seeds for the subsequent topic outbreak, whether it germinates or not, anyway, plant it first, and then say, when there is a germination, start watering and fertilizing it (invest in this topic, and constantly create new topics) to help it grow.
Now that I think about it, before I introduced the word "Yangtze River", I also said a lot of "nonsense", but without their foreshadowing, I guess we wouldn't be able to talk for long.
In this way, chatting is actually like a probability event, every time you say a word, it's like pressing a switch, half of the chance of generating a new topic, and half of the chance of not having any topic, so if you want to talk for a long time, you have to keep putting in new "nonsense"!
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Research has shown that the more nonsense a person says, the more he will be happy when he lives, this is a basic phenomenon of bird names in real life, and the happiness of a person's life has something to do with how much he speaks, because those who are silent and quiet are usually dull and do not like to talk to others, so the bishops of life are that dull and low, unhappy. So for these people around you who are very fond and easy to talk nonsense, understand them as much as possible, and try not to communicate with them as much as possible, which can bring happiness to your life.
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Maybe it's a lot of talking, or it's boring, or it's just going to talk when there's nothing to say. I've known a person before, for example, when the teacher asks a question, someone shouts the answer below, and she has to repeat it, or she has to repeat what others have said, and it feels like her own, and I think it's no different from nonsense.
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It may be that they are not good at speaking, but they prefer to talk, so to put it simply, it is just those few words, and others sound like nonsense. It's also possible that they're bored, but they don't have much to talk about, they're silent and don't speak, and they're too embarrassed, so they've been talking nonsense.
In addition, it may be that they talk a lot and can't stop talking. You have to say something, and your heart will be happy. But there are also some people who are not like this to everyone, talking nonsense to you is sometimes the subtext that I want to be good to you, it has nothing to do with love, it is a manifestation of caring about people.
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I have to admit that talking nonsense is one of the ways to decompress. But not everyone wants to listen to nonsense, and I think that even if a person likes to talk nonsense, he should take into account the feelings of others. People who talk nonsense are decompressed, but people who listen to nonsense undoubtedly absorb a lot of negative energy.
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There are many reasons why people who love to talk nonsense, first of all, their language organization ability may be weaker than others, so when speaking, the language organization is not in place, so there will be such a situation, the method is fast and accurate, and organize their own language, then they will use nonsense to pave the way, so if you see people who often talk nonsense, then their language expression skills may be relatively weak.
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I think liars are especially fond of talking nonsense, because in order to convince others of their lies, they will say a lot of unimportant things to weave it to make it sound more real and effective. And people who never get to the point also like to talk nonsense!
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I think one of the most important reasons is that she wants to be noticed by others, and she feels that if she doesn't say it, she has a special itch in her heart, and sometimes she knows what other people are doing, and she asks, "What are you doing?""。
If she asks like this once, she doesn't think it's okay, but if she is like this all the time, she knows what other people are doing, and she has to talk a lot of nonsense, and she thinks that he has the biggest shortcoming, that is, he has no self-knowledge.
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I think it varies from person to person, maybe you think it's nonsense, but in the eyes of the person who talks nonsense, these words are not nonsense, he is sharing his happiness and sadness with you, he may be because of his poor language organization skills, but he is expressing his emotions with you. People who like to talk nonsense should be kind people who express everything and not hold it back.
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Those people may want to insert themselves into the conversation and express their opinions, get attention, and not be ignored. There is also a fact that everyone knows in their hearts, but they didn't say it, but he said it, and he felt that what he said was nonsense, and there were many situations
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Isn't this a kind of funny and humorous person? 1. A person who loves to talk nonsense, proving that his mind is active. Occasional funny humor, nonsense, can liven up the atmosphere.
2. A person who loves to talk nonsense, but also a person who wants to express the problem clearly. Say a few more words, and he might remember what he said.
3. A person who loves to talk nonsense is really a verbose person. Poor language organization skills. I want to express it clearly, but I can't say it clearly.
If you talk nonsense, the artistic conception is different, and the meaning of the expression is different.
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To be honest, sometimes I hate people who talk nonsense. If there is anything that needs to be said, just say it, there is no need to talk nonsense. In my opinion, some people like to talk nonsense for none other than these two reasons.
1. Get the attention of others. People who like to talk nonsense are generally the more extroverted kind of people. In a very quiet space, not talking would make him very uncomfortable.
My roommate is a guy who talks a lot of nonsense, and the dorm is pretty quiet, and everyone is doing their homework. He came to me and said something inexplicable, even though I knew he was joking, because the dorm was so quiet that someone needed to talk to him to make him less depressed.
Second, the character is like this. Some people are such people, when they talk about some needs, they will always say a bunch of nonsense before they start to get down to business. Maybe he wasn't such a person at first, and it became a habit to talk too much.
However, it is also because some people like to talk nonsense that life is so interesting.
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Sometimes, most people don't like particularly annoying people, it seems that this annoyance is a kind of "torture" for themselves, the more chatter, the more nonsense, the more uncomfortable, the feeling is that there is no topic, deliberately want to find a large number of topics to talk about, the atmosphere is very embarrassing, and can not quickly stop this topic, but there are many people who don't know, some people's annoyance is not nothing to say, nothing to say, they just want you to pay more attention to them, there will be so many so-called "nonsense", Today we are going to talk about the constellations that talk a lot of nonsense in the constellations, they are not speechless with you, they often attach great importance to you, and they will find ways to communicate with you in various ways.
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Hello! We're happy to answer for you! The most effective way is to sternly point out that his behavior is uneducated and uneducated, and use the perspective of empathy (assuming that you use this behavior to him) to fight his moral and psychological defenses, so that he will be ashamed of the public, and at the same time, it is very important for you to not be angry, otherwise it will cause the excesses of the other party on the spot and cause unnecessary trouble.
People have a sense of shame, and no matter how bad a person is, it's important for you to grasp a scale.
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Others say they like to talk nonsense to you, how to reply, kiss hello, you can reply like this: I like to talk nonsense to you because you are the person I care about the most, everything I want to tell you, I hope you can fully understand me as a person, you are very important to me, I can't wait to receive your information 24 hours a day, I have a lot of words to say to you every day, I really like you, you are the baby in my life! Reply: Please don't use such vulgar language to tarnish your image, even though you don't agree with the idea I've proposed.
You should also be polite to me, and showing your personal qualities is the only choice. Only by replying to each other with such humor, so that he knows how to be a human being and treats each other politely, can two people communicate happily and live more harmoniously in the future. Nonsense can be so humorous Qi rude brother replied that I am not nonsense in front of the stool, I just let you feel my own true psychology, I feel that I am a very humorous person, when a girl says nonsense, it means that she shows a very disgusted psychology towards what you say, at this moment she should adjust her attitude to do something very touching, so that the girl feels that she is also a gentle person, only in this way can the relationship between the two sides be deeper.
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Recently, the popular "listen to your words, such as listening to a seat", "bananas are big, banana peels are also big", this must be nonsense, right? Then listen to this paragraph again, "CCTV refers to the famous mouth" Bai Yansong talking about football. "Everything we do today has nothing to do with football.
Just, he can, he can not like it, you can not like it, but all the things they do, all, they do everything you don't like. What do you do? Ah, you like it, you don't like it, but why is it that when we come to this point today, we all like football together, can you give us a chance to make all of us like football?
I know I'm, ah, a lot of people around me are saying, ah, ah, this, this football we like, yes, we too, we all like it. But why not? "I, the representative of the Chinese language class, was directly blinded after listening.
It feels like something has been said, and it is as if nothing has been said.
If you are still developing, you can do exercises like climbing ladders and rope ladders regularly, which will help to correct your flat feet better.
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