Should I have another one, and should I have another one?

Whether or not to have a second child actually doesn't affect the crisis of the world, right? But according to you, your father-in-law wants to have another grandchild, so what if you give birth to a daughter? Think clearly, the child is yours, not for someone else.

If you have money, you will be punished, anyway, there will be fewer and fewer relatives for the child in the future, and there will be no one to take care of, and many brothers and sisters are good.

Don't say it's buddies upstairs, the little woman's opinion represents a personal opinion. Children and grandchildren are free and children and grandchildren are happy, and people's value should be created by themselves, and they should also earn and work hard by themselves to eat and dress. It is enough for children to study and learn, and it is up to them to decide what they want to do.

Dare to ask you, if you think about the affairs of future generations, and worry about trouble, is it a bit redundant, and mediocre people disturb themselves? Will your son not be able to eat or drink in the future, and your parents will have to worry about it?

The two brothers upstairs were right, and I basically didn't have to say anything more.

But think about what you're going to do with your grandchildren.

If there are more children and grandchildren, education will become a problem, and we must take a long-term view of things.

Let's give birth, I don't have much money and want to give birth to two, hehe, it's okay, Darwin's survival of the fittest wheel, what are you afraid of.

If you meet the regulations, you can have a second child.

Rather than pleasing your father-in-law, I think you should think about the survival pattern of the whole world, please don't be too selfish, you will ask questions on the Internet to show that you are still very qualified, I hope your quality will not be confused by your family and do foolish things.

Hehe, the buddies upstairs must have lived a life of fine clothes and food, right? So who will pay for your children and grandchildren?

To provide you with a data, the world's food prices in three months this year **50%, the fundamental reason is that there are too many people, not enough food to eat, I have no prejudice against the rich, but the rich should think more about the poor. Although this is not a duty, it is the conscience and obligation of a human being.

I won't model Sun Zhaoyan to regenerate one. Getting married and having children is the choice of most people. However, there are also some people who choose to have children out of wedlock, which will face more difficulties than normal marriage and childbirth.

Specifically, the difficulties faced by having children out of wedlock include the three aspects that one's life will be affected by having children out of wedlock, raising children after giving birth out of wedlock, and having children out of wedlock is not good for the growth of children. 1. Your life will be affected by giving birth out of wedlock. Under normal circumstances, after getting married and having children, you can live a stable life and be guaranteed in all aspects.

But the situation of births out of wedlock is very different. ......The most prominent problem caused by having children out of wedlock is the state of being unmarried, which will make it impossible for you to live a normal married life, and if you give birth in this state, you will encounter many difficulties in life and it will be difficult for you to deal with them. 2. The situation of giving birth out of wedlock will bring a lot of difficulties to raising children.

If you are married and have children normally, you can raise children with your lover on the premise of having a stable life, which will make the burden of raising children much lighter. ......However, the state of giving birth out of wedlock will affect one's own life, and it will also be out of sync with one's other half in raising children, which is very unfavorable for raising children and will bring a lot of difficulties to oneself. 3. Giving birth out of wedlock will affect the child's education and is not conducive to the child's growth.

A child's growth and development progress requires a good education, which needs to be completed by both parents. For married couples, this is a natural thing to do, and if you do it easily, your children will get a good education. ......But the case is different for children born out of wedlock.

Since both parents are not married, there will be problems in the education of the child, and the child may also be affected in matters such as schooling, which is not conducive to the growth of the child, so the birth out of wedlock will bring more difficulties to the parents of the child and the child itself.

I will, because I love this person, I love everything about this person, including children.

How to treat both parties in a remarried family with children.

Treat each other's children fairly, and be slightly biased towards each other's children! Remarriage is a rebuilding of the capacity to love. If a remarried person wants to have a harmonious family, he or she must strive to change himself, adapt to his new role, and abandon the following 4 pathological psychology:

"Comparative psychology", that is, in the couple's interaction in a restructured family, comparing the current spouse with the previous spouse is often the fuse of many family conflicts.

defensive psychology", not being honest enough in dealings, "keeping a hand" in terms of economy and property, or wanting to control both parties, being too sensitive in terms of feelings, unable to get out of the shadow of the first failure, and suspicious of everything.

favoritism", so trembling down on each other's children, favoring their own children and regretting it; "Inferiority complex", some people (especially women) think that divorce is a dishonorable thing because of the failure of their first marriage, feel inferior, blindly give to the current one, and lose themselves.

Do you have to have another child if both parties to the remarried family have children?

In a restructured family, most of the time, at least one parent has children. There is a lot of pressure in society nowadays, it is easy to have children, it is even more difficult to raise children, and raising children is more of a responsibility, rather than for your feelings, to become the so-called bond of your feelings. has experienced some emotional ups and downs, and should know how to cherish it.

If the remarried family has its own ghost and has to rely on the children to maintain it, such a relationship is estimated to not last long. Having another child is actually extremely irresponsible. Manage your marriage well.

Maintain the relationship between the members of the restructured family. And if you have the financial means, the energy and the time, you can consider having another child.