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As the saying goes:"See through it, don't say it"Sometimes we can see through the essence of things that are inappropriate to the people around us, but because of the object, occasion and timing, it is not appropriate to say it.
Otherwise, it is easy for people to not get off the stage, and it may hurt their feelings.
How many polite words are hidden in interpersonal communication, we can't debunk them one by one, if we want to maintain good interpersonal relationships, we must know the truth of not debunking.
Sip a cup of coffee and read a life.
Sometimes, when someone else does something bad, we don't have to debunk the other person.
It is completely possible to remind the other party through skills, so that the other party can understand in their hearts.
Life does not need to be exposed, and managing yourself is more important than anything else;
In interpersonal communication, we don't need to be straightforward, and it is good to see the lies of others, but to say them will cause unhappiness on both sides.
A straightforward person can say whatever he wants, and when he sees someone making a mistake, he will immediately point it out and tell the other person.
To a certain extent, such behavior is still praiseworthy, and it is often easy to make both parties unhappy.
Don't take everything too seriously, and sometimes you have to distinguish the occasion, depending on the situation"
As the saying goes:"Don't hit people in the face, and don't expose their shortcomings when scolding"When others make mistakes, we should find the right time and the right place to let others accept their mistakes convincingly, and when we find others to make mistakes, we should avoid making others unable to get off the stage.
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This question is good, in fact, people with high emotional intelligence know how to "debunk?" Some people are often afraid of offending people and do "just know it", but find that when others infringe on themselves, once they resist and resist, they will become the unjust party, and the surrounding people are all watching the excitement, in fact, "not debunking" is the manifestation of low emotional intelligence, and the real people with high emotional intelligence are people who "will debunk", but they will not make people feel that they are debunking something, but let the essence of the thing itself be exposed, so, in the face of false things, you can choose not to debunk, But that doesn't mean you're emotionally intelligent.
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I won't be able to wear it if I dismantle you. The so-called high emotional intelligence is to make everyone not so embarrassed, try to joke about it.
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There are the following, 1. "Then do you guess I miss you".
When a girl says this, it actually means that I miss you too, but it doesn't sound too boring to say it, and saying this sentence will make men want to talk to you.
Because he will guess whether you have a similar answer to him, most of these answers are for the kind of girls who are more humorous, and girls who are a little more humorous will generally be more fun-loving. I only think about how to make chatting more fun, so that a rhetorical question will make the boy more curious and more interested in this girl.
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You're so good, you've seen through all my thoughts, and it looks like you'll have to pay more attention next time.
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You're always that nowhere to the point, it's painful.
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Is it? How did I not know? I didn't hear you say wait.
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"Hahaha, you're so cute" That's it.
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