How to deal with anti routines, how to counter routines?

What are the anti-routines for dealing with scumbags? How to recognize a boy's routine is a problem for all girls, especially in today's increasingly fast-paced business society. The following is my experience in the 20 years of specializing in routines, and I would like to share it with all of you.

1.The first rule of anti-routines is to assume that everything he says and does is a routine, and then extrapolate and verify it according to his details. This is very applicable whether it is in love or cooperating with Party B.

A good plan can withstand any details and pros and cons, just like a sincere relationship.

2.If you have drunk once or twice, you will take the opportunity to get stuck, so don't go out with him again. No matter how good his conditions are, how long Wu Yanzu is.

Men are always too easy to get girls who are easy to get and have a hard time, except for you to sleep with him.

There are also low-level routines that only call you at the wine bureau and only watch movies with you in the hotel, all of which are badly reviewed! This type of brainless scumbag generally casts a wide net in pursuit of physiological satisfaction. It has a relatively high degree of recognition, and the lethality of the routine is far less than that of the brain-shaped abdominal black slag.

3.Most men will make women feel dependent to a greater or lesser extent. Habits are very scary things, good night every night and the first greeting when you turn on your phone in the morning are like warm water boiling without knowing you.

If one day this habit suddenly stops, the fragile little girls will start to become irritable and lose the ability to think. Keep your sanity and keep yourself busy and fulfilled.

At night, it is not only his good night that gets you used to, but also the habit of reading before bed; It's not just his morning greeting that makes your heart beat faster in the morning, but also the daily stock index.

**Index.

One day a farmer caught a pig and a tiger. Suddenly the pig ran away, do you know why the pig ran away. It's a matter of routines. The details are as follows:

Method:

1. If you ask and the other party says they don't know, you can say that the pig is chatting with me.

2. If the other party is why, it can be said that it is because the pig came to chat with me.

Routine quote commentaryIn the eyes of sociologists, routines are a kind of thinking methods, techniques, and expressions produced in the traditional inheritance.

Psychologists say that taolu is an experience-based, low-risk pragmatism.

In the eyes of cultural critics, routines have become something that you may not like at first, but you have to accept it, and finally have a lot of fun yourself.

The above information refers to Encyclopedia - Routines.

If you want to learn the routine, there are 2 ways to have feelings for Yinqiao Blind Fang:

You have enough experience in communication. When talking, take the lead. Then the other person's mind will follow you.

To deliberately learn a set of rote memorization routines, this is also the easiest. It is also the most ineffective if the target is not in the control area.

If the other party is very sincere to you, you can also treat each other with sincerity, but if it is a person who is willing to play tricks, play some routines with him, but there is only one principle, people don't offend me, and don't easily offend people.

In work and life, generally good people will be easily used by people with ulterior motives, and even sometimes they may be helping others count money when they are sold, so keep in mind the following points to avoid being easily tricked or easily resolving the dilemma.

1.selectively talk about facts, do not talk about personal opinions, and do not take sides;

2.Inquire without knowing the intention of the other party;

3.If you don't understand the facts, you can guess and ask the other party;

4.There may be contradictory problems, and you can't pretend to be hungry and bright;

5.Almighty language, listen to the leader's arrangement;

6.Low status, rarely express personal opinions.

Routines are everywhere, whether in life or at work, there are many routines.

01 Debunk on the spot.

When you get into the trap, you react and see if he has intentions, that is, whether it hurts himself or is a joke, hurts himself, and doesn't show affection, then you don't have to be merciful.

02 Distinguish routines.

There are good and bad routines, you have to distinguish them, the kind ones can always bring us surprises, if they are malicious, you must also learn to protect yourself and not let yourself be hurt.

03 Be cautious.

Be careful to sail the ship of ten thousand years, this sentence is well remembered.

04 Avoid him.

For some people, they like to engage others in routines, this kind of person, if they can not contact him, they will not contact, and try to avoid him.

05 Learn.

It's not about learning routines, but going out to see the outside world and watching various events on the Internet.

06 Communication.

If you are good friends with someone who likes to play routines, as a friend, you should persuade your friend and tell him to treat everyone around him sincerely and not to trick others, so that others will leave you.

The meaning of anti-routine is: to plan as planned, anti-routine is to use the strategy used by the other party, and in turn to deal with the other party.

In order to achieve a certain goal, combined with internal factors and external environment, etc., the thinking logic and psychological characteristics of human nature are used to disassemble and match, layer by layer and finally achieve the desired effect. Anti-routines help you identify these commonly used paths and avoid falling into traps.

Nowadays, the most common phrase heard is "it's all a routine"! So, is it someone else who tricked you, or is it your ** way? As the saying goes, those who bully are honest people, and they can't do tricks!

Only by reading and understanding the routines can you avoid being fooled, and maybe you can humor others with a small routine. Routines are everywhere and pervasive, let's take a look at what common routines there are.

Antonym routine

"Routine" refers to the well-planned way and method of dealing with a certain situation, the use of the way and method, often has been proficient in the way and method, and the formation of conditioned reflexes, logical tendency to use this method of coping to deal with complex situations, psychologically has often produced a dependence on this method, has a deep impact on people, the use of a certain brigade refers to a specific way of dealing with events, the way to deal with some situations to form a "road", is called a routine.

In 2016, the internet made the term "taolu" popular again among young people. To put it simply, the term neutral has a slightly derogatory connotation in the specific context, and generally refers to someone's deception or practical way of doing things, thus forming a type of behavior pattern, that is, the so-called "routine". The routines in the sense of the Internet are full of fun.

Humorous and entertaining in nature.

Those who ** didn't go back. One is because there is no ability to reverse the set, and the other is that it can't be set at all, and it won't be able to set others, which requires wisdom.

Brothers, some mechanisms against the routines of others, I should think that this kind of behavior is very shameful, because what kind of medicine witty anti-routines others.

Yesterday, I saw the kind of team that specializes in tricks for others on Douyin, but it was reversed by a young lady, saying that I was looking for a store, what store, your call.

The most witty anti-routine I've seen others should be on Weibo to see a person borrowing money from his brother, his brother said I have to discuss with my wife, and then he said you don't have a wife? Then the brother said yes, so there was no need to discuss.

I will routinely trick him, for example, when he asks me to learn how to bark, I will always learn to speak from him, is this a good solution to this embarrassing scene, of course, people who joke like this must be familiar with it.

My ferromagnetic friend, who had a good time, made me a table of food, jokingly told me that I wanted 200 yuan, and I would take a pen and paper and write him a piece of 200 yuan without saying a word.

When the other person is talking endlessly, I say: continue. After the other party finishes speaking, I will say: Really good.

Don't refute the other party, let the other party keep talking, wait for the opportunity, catch the other party's bug, and then the Jedi counterattack and go back.

Every time he wants to trick me, keep a clear head, never fall for the other party, and then go back when the other party is unconscious.

Grasp the weakness of the other party, infinitely amplify, organize the voice, and use one against ten, first the tender strategy, and finally a fatal blow, and before you know it, you are already in the routine.