Between husband and wife, what should I do if my husband is stupid, he will only make trouble?

There are many such honest and honest people in marriage, in married life.

There have indeed been a lot of phenomena like you, men are honest and unemotional, stupid, and the wife is not used to it, and they start to get bored after a long time, so what should I do? The recommendations are as follows:

Change yourself first. Change yourself ideologically, characteristically, and habitually.

1. Think more about things in your thoughts, especially about your wife, children, and family.

2. In terms of personality, learn and train to be cheerful, lively, able to speak well, and likable people, especially to please your wife.

3. Habitually develop good habits, such as doing things for your wife regularly, and insisting on uninterrupted, the effect will be very obvious after a stage.

Fourth, in foreign exchanges, we should try our best to become a person with communication skills.

If you do this, your wife's views and attitudes towards you will take a 180-degree turn, and from then on, you will be an excellent man in your wife's eyes, and she will be inseparable from you.

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There is a saying that couples should not try to change each other, but learn to adapt.

If he is your life, choose to do it!

Bless you!

The problem that my friend talked about, and the situation described to him, like this situation is also very good, you say that it is not interesting to have a stall of stagnant water, so there is a troublemaker, as long as you ignore it, it will be okay in the future.

Husbands and wives should know and cherish each other, learn to respect and understand, and learn to be tolerant and tolerant.

Actually, I think it's not good that my husband is stupid? When it comes to getting along with you, my husband has no scheming.

Friends, you can communicate well in private!

Scheming people are simple and easy to get along with, on the one hand, what is lost, and on the other hand, there is gain.

Just be willing.

In fact, such simple love is happy, why be so scheming?

Maybe my husband's personality is like this, of course, as long as you have confidence, teach your husband slowly, I believe that over time, he will slowly change.

Since you are married, look at the good side of each other, such a person should be a straight man.

There won't be so many fancy intestines.

Your husband is not stupid but he is unresponsive, you should be more tolerant and not angry as her wife, and husband and wife should understand each other.

Have a good talk with your husband, if you pay unilaterally, you must be very tired, and you have the heart of divorce, it is better to open up and talk before this

There is no way, marry a chicken with a chicken, marry a dog with a dog.

Just find a man like me who can speak well and talk eloquently as a husband.

What financial problems does he have, and it's too late for you to regret it now.

How long have you been married, and isn't this what you chose in the first place?

Maybe you've started to change your mind, or you wouldn't think your husband is stupid and stupid. As long as a person changes his mind, no matter how good the other party is, you will feel that the other party is not good. With contrast, there is a gap.

If the other party is humble, willing to learn, and willing to change, then you can take him. If the other person has a hot temper, you can only change your mentality.

If you really think that your husband is stupid and stupid, you should communicate with your husband more and change his thinking.

Explain that your "expectations" of him are too high! Maybe your husband isn't stupid! It's your heart, a little "in a hurry"!

Give your husband a little more time! Maybe the next person to succeed will be him!

That's how do you think, if your husband is so stupid, how can he catch you? How did I marry you? And what do you like about him? No one is perfect, don't find a little fault and erase him as an excellent husband.

How he treats you, maybe stupidity is wise and foolish, you can guide him.

If a wise man is a fool, he should not be booed!

Then teach him how to be smart.

Why didn't you know he was a fool when you were with him? If you know he's a fool and you're still with him, then you should be able to accept the fact that he's a fool.

Actually, there are a lot of stupid people in this world, and there are also a lot of smart people. Just because your husband is stupid in some ways doesn't mean he's stupid in everything. There is always a smart side, or there is always a smart time.

I'm exactly like you, I'm angry with my husband every day, because he's too stupid, for example, let him bake me so hard to cut two big columns in half and put them in the refrigerator, but he cut them all into slices and scattered, and asked him to look for cotton towels in the middle of the night, he rummaged through the fixed drawer, obviously didn't look for it on the table, just rummaged through the drawer, saying that he wanted to find his glasses first, and woke up the child....I am also angry to death every day because of these little things, and I feel that he is indifferent by nature, at first he will coax me, now even if I am angry or I am happy, he has no emotion, living in his own world, working very slowly, it can take more than an hour or two to cook a meal, and three meals on weekends are basically in the kitchen...The child is young, I watch the child, he plays ball at noon every day, and every day I think that he is too busy to go for a run in the morning...I am desperate when I think that I will spend the rest of my life with him, and I also want to divorce every day, he used to be very good to me, but now he is just doing routine housework, and this kind of life makes me really have nothing to be nostalgic for.

The maintenance of marriage requires the tolerance and appreciation of both parties, and the best marriage needs to complement each other, no couple's marriage is perfect, in your home, your IQ and EQ are already very high, you can guide him in this regard, you have also said that he is very good to you, then he is in this aspect is what others can not give you, husband and wife should get along with each other's strengths, otherwise, this marriage will gradually drift apart!

Either accompany him to change or divide it early.

But it is impossible for a person to have only shortcomings.

There will also be advantages.

And people are good together and dislike each other's shortcomings.

When you are separated, you will miss each other's goodness.

You are a woman, there is a good one for you, and you are picky, you have a high IQ, high EQ, and now you can't look down on him, you are looking for someone else, looking for a high IQ, a high EQ, people won't be bored with you, there is a person who can really be good to you, just cherish it, don't be ambitious, people are not perfect, cherish the people in front of you, and have a good life!

It is recommended that you separate from him, because you don't love him at all, you just covet his good for you, but in fact, you look down on him in your heart, such a marriage is not evenly matched, and after a long time you will dilute his good for you. And his IQ and EQ are not as good as yours, and his shortcomings will become bigger and bigger. You will become more and more unbalanced, and eventually you will still be separated.

Have a good life, you can only meet such a husband after a thousand years of cultivation Leave him to live with those men with higher IQ and EQ than you Have you suffer from it Then your status will change You will live the life that your husband is now Being looked down upon by men with high IQ and EQ So don't do it, don't be in the midst of blessings and don't know blessings.

I don't know if you fell in love with him with a low IQ because of your low IQ, or if you chose you because of your low IQ!

The most genuine love is often the most simple love, everyone's value is different, but they all have to pay for their choices!

Can you get by? None of us can empathize with you, whether this stop is the terminal or the next stop, I wish you happiness!

The most important thing for two people to get along is to tolerate each other and understand each other, you have to tolerate him more and understand him, it is rare to have a husband who is good to you, you must know to cherish it, and don't do things that you regret.

Everyone has shortcomings and flaws, you have high EQ and high IQ, and having a simple husband may be your blessing, and a stupid person is stupid, just because of this, don't you want to live with him? If you find someone else, it may not be as good as him, like him, he loves his wife, don't wait until you regret it to remember his goodness, life is originally tolerated by each other.

Since I thought my husband was good, I chose to marry him. Now I hate him for being stupid. Not good.

It is not easy to find a person who is honest and good to himself, and he does not know the blessing in the blessing. Husbands and wives generally complement each other in life, so that life will be more meaningful. You're smart, he's stupid.

Wouldn't it be nice to have less suspicion? The family will be more stable.

A person is willing to live with you with all his heart, you should be satisfied, it means that you are a man who will not spend all day drinking, you are not satisfied with his lack of brains, and you want to find another brain, and you can't accept it.

People always have advantages and disadvantages, you should think more about his advantages, appreciate his advantages more, and life can last a long time. Perfect.

If you want to think about it this way, if you want to find someone with high IQ and emotional intelligence, but also be dedicated to you, how likely is this?

If you figure this out, the rest is simple.

There are only two options, 1, find someone who loves you 2, find someone you love.

Leave him early. You'd better get out of the house.

Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, as long as he is nice to you, don't be too high-eyed, or you will regret it.

Stupid people have stupid blessings, stupid people are real, and they don't have so many hearts.

Hahaha! He's stupid, can't you be smart??? In fact, there is no one right or wrong in a real marriage! Tolerate each other, understand 、、、 this is, the real marriage.

How old are you, do you have any children?

Unless both of you agree to divorce, it is impossible for you to sue for divorce unilaterally. The court decides a divorce based on whether the relationship between the husband and wife has broken down, and if the husband is too stupid to sue for divorce, the court will not accept and judge the divorce.

IQ is not at the same frequency, can not communicate, divorce is recommended, my husband is also a primary school student's IQ, go to the hospital to see a patient I said to give 200 cash or 70 yuan to buy a gift! He even said to give 200 cash, others will say, I love money, love calculation, and I like money more! I was speechless for a moment!

How can you live this long road of life!

It's nothing! I often say this about my friend, but every time I say it, I am actually very happy because I can find such a good and simple girl, and it can enhance the protective desire of men, and when he says this, he may be telling himself to protect his woman.

If it's internal, it's the business of both of you. That's good. It shows that you are very simple in his eyes. Cute, no clutter thoughts, but if you're an outsider. Just ask him more about anything in the future.

Let's learn, one day it will slowly become sophisticated.

He doesn't know how happy he is to marry a wife like you.

In fact, my husband is the same as your husband, we are both in a similar situation and situation, indeed, I feel very helpless and annoyed when I meet such a person.

I also feel that my husband is a wretch, and he always echoes what others say outside, and at home, his parents and sisters say something, he listens to nothing and doesn't let me argue, and it is always us who suffers. If there is one good, it is good for me, and for the sake of this, I have always come over like this.

Not only is my husband incompetent, he treats me badly, but I'm also angry.

The situation is similar, the problem is that I gave birth to my second child, and when my second child was pregnant, I asked my mother-in-law for all kinds of good words for me to give birth. The only thing I'm worried about is that I don't have the money to support two, and my husband is honest and incapable. Be a monk for a day and hit the clock for a day.

Now unemployed at home, I was fired by my boss. Someone stumbles behind the back. But I think he wants to do well, others don't have this opportunity to trick him behind his back, first of all, he can't do it well, and he is not serious about his work.

The mortgage plus two children, three mountains weighed me down. Occupy me a bit of an old book, as a man, I can gnaw my wife with peace of mind. To tell the truth, marrying him ruined my intestines!

When I chose this man, that is, you have some expectations for him, you can work together and support him more, if this is the case, a man can't be. It doesn't matter, let's leave.