The person I used to rely on is gone, how can I continue?

Happy birthday! It's a good start for you to be able to notice the problem yourself.

No one can rely on it for a lifetime, really, when you get married in the future, you will still find that some things have to be done independently. You need friends in life, but there's more to life than just friends.

You still have your body to take care of, you still have schoolwork to complete, and you have classmates to make friends with.

In addition, I wear a necessary dress every day, and I eat, take a walk, and take a break.

Think about how much you have to do.

By the way, haven't the curtains been washed in a long time?

Taking care of your life seriously is independence.

If you're still around, turn off your computer and phone.

Go take a shower and sleep refreshed.

When you wake up in the morning, you can still sleep well at night without them, can't you?!!

You have to learn to be strong and independent.

You have to remember that there won't always be someone you can rely on.

The world is changing, everything is changing.

The way to survive is to rely on yourself.

I'm sure you can do it.

There is no one in the world that you can rely on for a lifetime, learn to be strong yourself.

Understand your state of mind.

In fact, society and the outside world are the same, at any time, in any place.

It's you who change.

Although reality is annoying, you are unwilling to accept it.

But after grinding hard and hard bubbles, you will always find a way to accept and face the current problem.

Maybe that's a bit hollow for your age.

But all that can be done is acceptance.

There may be grievances in the future, but it may also happen without much feeling.

In fact, from childhood to adulthood, we have always relied on different people. Just learning to take on some things on your own in the process of dependence, this may be growth. The people you are used to relying on seem to be far away from you all of a sudden, and there will inevitably be a gap in your heart, which is inevitable.

Everyone should have their own life, friends can enrich our lives, but we can't treat friends as our own lives, as our own. You should learn to find joy in life and do something you love to do when you are alone. Your best friend hasn't been in touch with you for the time being, she may have her own business, and if you really have a deep relationship, she will take the initiative to contact you.

College is a time of life that everyone should manage with their hearts. Try to enrich yourself during this time.

Habit refers to what you do every day, which is like that, and after a long time, it is called a habit. Dependence is, you have things, you have difficulties, you are in pain, you are happy, you are happy, you are sad, there will be someone to think for you, comfort you, be happy for you, accompany you, make you feel solid, and you don't have to worry about anything, this is dependence.

In addition to caring about oneself, emotional connection with others is also very important, including friendship and affection. And after a deep emotional connection between the two parties, it is easy for us to become overly dependent, so if we rely too much on one person, and turn this dependence into a habit, will we be more painful when we lose this person? Let's take a closer look at it.

When it comes to dependence, I believe everyone has experienced, especially in love, our dependence on the other half, due to emotional factors that lead to their own deep inextrication, but love is different from virtual grandchildren, love has no blood connection, in hormones.

When secreting, everyone is like a person, and when the emotion retreats, and there is no reliable guarantee, it is easy to break up when relying on and linking, and at this time we have formed a dependence on each other. When a habit has been formed, it is very difficult to change, and after losing it, we will definitely feel pain, insecurity, entanglement, helplessness and powerlessness. <>

Therefore, in the relationship and marriage, you must rely on it moderately, and manage this relationship with your heart, not that the other party has become your other half, and you can treat each other unscrupulously. For a long time, if this kind of dependence and habit has caused great pressure and responsibility to the other party, making the other party breathless, the other party will have the idea of escaping, and once this thought is born, it will be out of control, and eventually lead to an irreversible end. <>

But for our hearts, we still don't realize that the nature of the problem has changed, and we are still in the state of over-dependence and habit, the existence of the other party and the habit of the other person taking care of us. In a love life, management and love need to be reciprocal, and everyone wants to be valued and pampered. Therefore, while relying on each other, we must exercise our own independent ability.

This is also the best respect for the people we love and the responsibility for our own lives.

Yes, so don't lose yourself in your relationship, don't focus all your attention on the other party, you must be assertive, you must have your own life, and don't bury the other party as your own.

It must have been particularly painful. will feel very unaccustomed, and will also feel that the other party suddenly leaves the world as if there is nothing, and the leaky source will feel particularly meaningless, and may even get depression.

I think it will. Because after losing him, you can't adapt to the current life, and you feel very miserable.

There are many reasons to be dependent on others.

1.We need to interact with others, build connections and relationships. Dependence on others is one way to meet this socializing need.

2.Relying on others can bring a sense of security to the sakura, making people feel that they have someone to rely on and support. This feeling can reduce anxiety and loneliness.

3.Self-identity, some people may need to rely on others to gain a sense of self-identity. They may believe that only by being recognized and praised by others can they prove their worth and the meaning of their existence.

4.Sometimes, people may become dependent on others because of their lack of experience. They may not know how to live independently or solve problems and therefore need help and guidance from others.

While dependence on others is a natural and psychological need, over-reliance on others can lead to a number of problems. It can make people lose their independence and autonomy, and affect their decision-making and behavior. Therefore, we need to rely on others in moderation, while also developing our own independence and problem-solving skills.

Because we feel that others can always do this thing, we always believe in the ability of others, and we always think that others are very powerful, and it is also because others always help us, forming a sense of dependence.

Summary. To not be dependent on anyone, you must first have your own economy**, which can earn income through your own work or entrepreneurship. In addition, one should learn to live independently, including daily living skills such as cooking, cleaning, and repairing.

In addition, it is important to build healthy social relationships, and you can meet new people and expand your social circle through volunteering activities and joining interest groups. The most important thing is to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, as well as to keep learning and growing, so that you can better cope with life's challenges.

To be independent of anyone, you must first have your own economy**, and you can earn income through your own work or entrepreneurship. In addition, students should learn to live independently, including daily living skills such as cooking, cleaning, and repairing. In addition, it is important to build healthy social relationships, such as volunteering and joining interest groups, making new friends, and expanding your social circle.

The most important thing is to maintain a positive and optimistic attitude, as well as to keep learning and growing, so that you can better cope with life's challenges.

I rely more on others to chat, but the other party is doing business, and I feel lost when I don't chat all the time.

Then you can send him a message, you don't want to go when he's busy, don't go, get angry, what's the defeat, etc., he will go back to you when he has time to check and grind, and when you ignore you, you can find something to do, just distract yourself.

Habits become natural, habits are formed, and it is very difficult to change. And at the same time of change, it will be a head-on blow!!

Summary. Hello dear, this sentence means that everyone's life may be indispensable to rely on, or to have someone to help, no one in this world is unable to survive alone, whether you are intentional or unintentional, there is indispensable help from the outside world, a person's food, clothing, housing and transportation, what you need is not something that you can build all by yourself. However, no matter how much you rely on the outside world, if you want to live well, you have to have your own strengths, even if you barter things, you have to have the ability to get a barter for yourself, not to mention that today, people's survival has long been separated from the most primitive barter, and its realm has already been improved at a deeper level.

Hello dear, this sentence means that everyone's life may be indispensable to rely on, or to be helped, no one can survive alone in this world, whether you are intentional or unintentional, there is indispensable to the help of the outside world, a person's food, clothing, housing and transportation, what you need is not something that you can build all by yourself. However, no matter how much you rely on the outside world to judge the outside world, if you want to live well, you have to have your own strengths, even if you barter things, you have to have the ability to get a barter for yourself, not to mention that today, people's survival has long been separated from the most primitive barter, and its realm has already been improved at a deeper level.

We are dependent on others to varying degrees from birth to any stage, in fact, we are dependent on others to varying degrees, our babies are dependent on their parents and relatives to survive and grow, as we grow up a little bit, this dependence is gradually reduced, whether it is material or ideological, we are gradually moving towards independence, learning survival skills, learning the skills of life. However, even so, some people are inevitably inert and lucky, always wanting to rely on others to survive in society, let themselves climb to the sky in one step, or get something for nothing, or fantasize that they can live a rich life without paying, or they are spiritually dependent on a certain person, without their own thoughts and thoughts, they will only copy: whoever says that the core of the cave will never have its own opinions.

A person should not easily rely on anyone, occasionally as a dependence, or a very short period of dependence is understandable, but the number of losses can not make this dependence your habit, because, we are all trembling, no one can accompany us through the whole life, when the separation comes, you will lose not someone, but your spiritual support. At that time, you will be at a loss, so no matter when and where, you must learn to think independently and walk independently, only in this way, on the road of your life, it is your luck to have someone to accompany and help you, and when you are left alone, you can still go in a clear and ......calm direction