Why do feelings slowly fade away?

Feelings are like a person's good feelings for another person for a second, some are continued as love in the next second, and some are a scenery of passers-by.

Sometimes, when I continue to write about my love, I will give up, I will doubt, and even abandon it. Different personalities will have different feelings, however, when you find that your feelings have faded, you must learn to know, how long has it been since I have watered and fertilized this feeling? Or the other party?

Feelings are fragile, that was in the beginning. Fragile enough to disappear at any moment, it's time testing your faithfulness, isn't it? It's a test of whether you are qualified to have this relationship!

In fact, it's not difficult, leave more time to take care of the "feelings", so that the "feelings" can learn to grow up, so that you can learn to stick to it...

Personal opinion, I hope it can help you. ）

In fact, what can dilute the feelings is nothing more than time and new romance.

If you think it's worth the decision to wait, then it depends on perseverance, and you have to endure loneliness!

I'm not interested, I'm annoyed if I have more contact. It's like listening to a song, if you like a song, you keep listening to it, and if you listen to it a few times, you don't like it, don't you.

After a long time, you will take it for granted, and after a long time, it will fade away.

Because after a long time together, you will get used to it, and you will feel that there is no so-called freshness. So the feelings will fade and disappear.

Because he or she is melted by you.

Most of the emotions have to do with time.

Favorite, like, love, is a trilogy of falling in love together. In general, boyfriends and girlfriends will follow this standard. Starting from the two of them looking at each other, as time goes by, they will get to know each other and become familiar with each other, and each other will understand whether the other party is the person they are looking for.

There is also a love story of "love at first sight, accompanied for life". It's less, but it does.

In the final analysis, whether the relationship can last for a long time depends on whether the three views of the two people are compatible, whether the two people are both attentive to manage the relationship, and whether one party has a strong ability to solve the problem.

There are two problems that can arise from determining a partnership too quickly, the first is that determining a relationship too quickly will reduce the value of the woman or a partner in the relationship.

The second point is that two people do not know each other deeply enough, which will lead to crossing the adaptation period and directly entering the love period, and the conflict outbreak of the later breakup contradiction will also come extremely fast, I bury a deep hidden danger for the breakup or the breakdown of the relationship, so it is generally not recommended to establish this emotional relationship with each other too quickly. It can only be said that there is a certain causal connection between determining the relationship too quickly and dying too soon, but it is not inevitable.

I've seen acquaintances who have known each other for a few years and broke up a month after they were confirmed to be lovers;

I have also seen two people who fell in love at first sight, and they have been like glue after falling in love quickly.

1. No matter how perfect love is, it will fade, and the concentration and freshness of love will fade. It's like a person who only studies hard before the exam, and is very lax after the exam. After completing or achieving the goal, you will slack off and stop actively striving for it.

2. No one will always work hard in love:

Because paying attention to a person all the time means that he can't be distracted from work, socializing, and studying, which is a very extreme thing. At the beginning of the love period, each other was very excited, and even appeared that they could stay up all night, and all their body and mind were devoted to love, and they slowly found that life alone with love would not work, but also health, work, money, etc.

3. Therefore, it is normal for feelings to fade. (At first, you will be reluctant to accept it, but gradually you will be able to adapt to it.) )

Just as water that keeps boiling all the time evaporates faster, water that keeps it warm lasts longer.

If you want to be together, you must work together to communicate and be considerate of each other.