I still love her, but separated, love her but separated, what should I do?

Updated on amusement 2024-07-14
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't get into the nitty-gritty, it's natural to not be able to let go for a while, and you may think that you have loved her the most so far, but slowly you will find this definition ridiculous.

    And I don't think it's worth it, since she's wandering in two boats, it's hard to say if it'll happen again in the future.

    But if you think it's worth it, just work hard to win her back, it takes a lot of courage, you have to have confidence in yourself, but also in her, what do you think? Even if you know it's an injury, rush up, with such an experience, I believe you will be happier in the future At least you know how to give sincerely, regardless of return, this is a kind of growth.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I also loved a woman, I can say that I can understand your feelings, I am not as great as others say, whatever loves her, give her freedom or something. I only know that I am in pain, but sometimes, it is really helpless to love someone. It's good to see it yourself.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you love her, do you want to possess her or do you want her to be happy?

    If you really love her, you should respect her choice!

    There is a love called letting go!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Waiting silently is also a kind of happiness, maybe one day she will turn around and see you again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you love her, give her freedom and study hard.

    A promise is a debt.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You should let go of her and find your own happiness!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hopefully you'll find another one and put it on her, really!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love itself doesn't need many words.

    He or she can comfort you when you need it most.

    When you need a shoulder to lean on, he or she will tell you that he or she will not leave, and this is the best love.

    Rely on each other. Mutual need.

    This is a fairy tale of happiness for everyone.

    There is no time limit.

    Don't be justified.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When we broke up, we said that we would still be friends in the future. But are they really friends? Maybe it's a few years from now.

    A relationship, a journey, too much joy and touching together, too much helpless heartache, from true love to hurt each other, can you still be friends at the moment of breakup? If you can, you must not have really loved. Or it is the result of a person's grievances.

    There is no floodgate for feelings, and it cannot be closed with a single pull. It's hard for two people to love each other at the same time, and it's even harder not to love each other at the same time.

    There is no love, no hate, and only when you are indifferent to the throbbing in your heart can you become friends.

    But you and I, the two people who just broke up, maybe one of them is still in love, maybe from love to hate or resentful, maybe because of the throbbing of one of the other party's eyes, how to become friends?

    The person who once loved deeply can only watch silently, can't ask, can't manage, doesn't need to care, can't complain, everything about him has nothing to do with you, so how can you bear to be his friend?

    The person who once resented deeply no longer cares for you, no longer pampers you, his good and your bad can no longer be seen, you are just two parallel lines, so how can you still be his friend?

    Unless we haven't loved, I don't care who you are or what your identity is, I don't care at all, I never care.

    Even if we don't love it now, there are so many memories along the way, what should I do not remember at the moment when I face you?

    Or I still love you, I don't want anything, I don't regret it, no matter who you are to me now, no matter who you are guarding now, I am willing to always accompany you, hide my love for you deeply, not let you know, not be seen by you, and be willing to be a friend with you like a shadow as long as you are happy.

    Lovers are so close, friends are so far away, if you can't be lovers, maybe you will say just be friends.

    But even if the car drove away and returned to the original point again, it would be a different time, a different character, and a different scenery.

    We've already taken a step forward, but how can we measure the same size and go back? Keep going until you meet up again with someone else you can love.

    To break up is to break up, to decide, never to mention being friends.

    If you don't love him (her) anymore, let go and don't make excuses for your selfishness, don't keep him (her) if you still love him/her, and don't ask him (her) to turn back.

    When you break up, you only talk about breaking up, not about being friends.

    Just the most familiar strangers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Are you brave in your own feelings?

    Are you hesitating? Prove that you are not brave.

    You don't dare to separate.

    Because you are afraid that it will not be good for your relationship for a long time.

    Because you're not confident.

    This question does not require any answer.

    It's about encouragement. I hope you are strong.

    Even if separated.

    Cherish your feelings too.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The little brother is indeed a difficult question. I understand your heart. Actually, I'm not much older than you, I've experienced everything you've experienced.

    Of course, I also understand the pain of separation. In fact, to be honest, you said that you love her, I think the word "love" should not be said, because you have no ability to give her what she wants, you are still a minor, you still don't understand what love is, love is based on many foundations, such as mutual understanding, such as feelings, and then material. Maybe you will say that I mentioned the material, which is a bit cheesy.

    I guess she's your first love. In fact, the "love" of the student days is the most beautiful and pure, without any flaws and no intentions, just simple liking and loving. So now you have to be clear:

    Does she like you too, or how does she feel about your relationship? This is a very important question, if you are blindly unrequited, then I advise you to give up as soon as possible, if she also likes you as much as you do, then I think distance is not a problem, and I will see the truth over time. As for anything that doesn't come out, it's all secondary.

Related questions
17 answers2024-07-14

Hang on! The reason is determined, and the points are grasped by themselves. You have to believe that you are the one who can give her happiness, not some bullshit: there is a kind of love called letting go! Letting go won't necessarily make her happy! If you love her, you will insist!

11 answers2024-07-14

The reason why I came to you this question is because my situation is the same as you, but I am a loved woman and not a man, this question is not difficult, you first have to understand that the woman likes you, if so, you don't need to give up, and the part must be in love will affect the grades, maybe it will be the motivation between you, if you don't like you, then you don't have to torture yourself because then there is no need, in the end it is you who will be hurt by yourself Girl's mind, you have to spend some patience!! >>>More

11 answers2024-07-14

Personally, I believe in fate, and of course you know that you are wrong. As the so-called prodigal son turns back, the money is not exchanged! That's hard to say, but I'll have to ask her if she's dating anyone now. >>>More

26 answers2024-07-14

There is only one trick for you, give up your dignity for love, apologize to him truly and sincerely, and ask him for forgiveness. The premise is that you love him very much and can't live without him. Don't talk about anything else, don't say it, because there is no way to get rid of the words that have hurt him and the confidence and dignity that have made him lose except that you give in to him, remember one sentence, sometimes men will not repent if they know that they are wrong for the sake of face, let alone that there is no mistake.